囧Mom: What we lack is never love, but companionship

After this movie was released online during the Spring Festival, I always feel that there are many details worth thinking about for ourselves. Director Xu Zheng is a storyteller and a good storyteller. Although there are some scenes in this movie that we find ridiculous, don't we often feel that they are just like us? Will we also be "fed" by our parents? Are we unwilling to open up to our spouse and have a good chat in our marriage? I clearly know that there is a problem, but I have been avoiding it, hiding my head like an ostrich and just wasting it, instead of not thinking about solving it. There are obviously many things in my heart to tell my parents, but I can't always say them out. I always feel that it is too difficult to say them... There are so many similar experiences as if they happened to us, so I have a lot of emotions. .

I still clearly remember that in the movie, the mother made a phone call to her daughter-in-law, saying that you should solve your problems and don't let your mother worry. I burst into tears all of a sudden. This sentence still seems to be echoing in my ears. It is so familiar! I still remember that I went to boarding school in high school. If I didn’t get the score I wanted in every exam, I would call my mother and have a chat with her and ask her to help me figure it out. Who knew that every time my mother would say before hanging up the phone? One sentence: You should study hard and don't let your mother worry. Until one day later, my mother accidentally said that every time she received a call from me at ten o'clock, she would lose sleep until midnight because there was nothing she could do to help her child. She could only say this, don't let her worry. Nothing can be done. Powerlessness, helplessness and helplessness have always filled my mother's heart. Later, I gradually learned to report good news instead of bad news, and I dealt with any difficulties by myself. Slowly, my own heart became stronger, and my own world gradually became clearer.

Now that I have a family and a child of my own, sometimes I see him running out desperately. I will chase him back and tell him not to go to dangerous places. Mom will be worried. , don’t let your mother worry about you. I couldn't help but be shocked, how familiar the words were, how could I say such words to my own children? ! I know too well the pressure behind this sentence, and I can fully understand the profound connotation behind these simple words. What mother doesn’t worry about her child? No matter what job he does or where he goes, his mother will always be worried. As the old saying goes, the mother is worried when her son travels thousands of miles. This is an emotion that existed thousands of years ago. It is not a new emotional bond created by our generation or generations.

In order to prevent more regrets in our lives and to make ourselves and our families happier, sometimes we just need to spend more time with them. I think the whole of China will be deeply impressed by this year’s Spring Festival. I can't go out to visit relatives and friends, so I just stay at home. I think this is the longest Spring Festival holiday that we spend time with our family, right? We are together almost all the time. Can we really get along well with our families? Can you tolerate your children's mischief? Do you understand some of your parents’ thrifty practices? Can you tell your family about your future? Or are you busy with your mobile phone at home, wasting such a good opportunity to spend time with your family?

There is a popular saying on the Internet: Companionship is the longest confession of love. If you really spend time with your family during this Spring Festival holiday, you will discover many details that you usually wouldn’t even care about. For example, your baby can say this after you accompany him to build a building block: "Dad, you are awesome, you are really amazing!" For another example, you can find at home that your parents use the limited ingredients at home to make you the delicacies that you always miss in your memory, because your taste will always be remembered by them.

Another example is that you find that your wife has tidied up the house at home these days, and it feels like the house she has lived in for many years has a completely new look. However, she is usually busy with work and does not have so much time and energy to do these things. At this time, if you are willing to put down your phone and give it to the other party, A helping hand, or even a word of praise, will definitely improve the happiness of the family several degrees...

So, many times we always feel that it is difficult to get out of this movie, but if you really If you have the courage to take a step forward, you will find a new world of darkness and bright flowers.