It's not good at all to remarry after divorce (there is a kind of person who proposes to remarry)

0 1 I once saw a post asking: What kind of people will regret after divorce?

One of them replied approvingly: Have you ever seen anyone who wants to eat leftovers without eating delicacies at a table in front of him?

The meaning is already obvious. Although "leftovers" are terrible, they are better than being hungry. When even the "leftovers" can't be eaten, even if they are unwilling, they have to compromise in front of real life. In fact, what people regret is what people miss, and what people can miss is better than now.

So I thought of remarriage. At this time, remarriage became my only retreat, and my predecessor became a spare tire.

However, everyone has a reputation, and we must also ensure the reciprocal relationship after remarriage. Naturally, we can't tell the reason why we really want to remarry. We must find a reason.

So what is the most appropriate reason? Kid.

This can not only solve your own embarrassment, but also leave a good image, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone. It's simple. If I tell you directly that I want to remarry with you because I haven't had a good life since I left you, then the life after remarriage is obviously not good for me.

Of course, some couples really care about their children and want to remarry after saying bad things here.

Adults always choose after weighing the pros and cons. If you really want to remarry because of the bad life after divorce, then men and women have different considerations about the pros and cons.

Under normal circumstances, a man's life is not good because he has lost a nanny who washes and cooks for himself and takes care of his children; Women are unlucky because they can't live independently, and then they can't find the person they want. It can be summed up in one word, money, but if there was love, they wouldn't get divorced, would they?

We often feel that after divorce, a man is like a bird released from a cage and ushered in an absolutely free and chic life. In fact, there will be a smaller cage waiting for him.

I know a man who regrets the most quickly. Less than a week.

Tell me about his life before the divorce. Although he is sometimes constrained by family, housework and children, he still gets away when he insists on going out.

Usually, he seldom does housework at home. His wife cooks and washes clothes, and everything, including children, is done by his wife. As for him, he just took the children downstairs to play for a while when he was thinking about it, or when he was in a good mood, or when he was idle.

Although he was psychologically prepared for divorce, his life after divorce exceeded his expectations.

It is the child who haunts him. He can eat a few bites outside, but the child can't. In the evening, another friend asked him out to drink and sing. He turned to look at the children and had to refuse.

I thought it was hard enough to go to work. What's really hard is that after work, I'm so busy with all kinds of chores at home and with my children that I don't even have time to watch a movie.

Yes, he knew his wife's difficulties at once, but the real reason for his decision to remarry was that he wanted to live a free life again. Otherwise, he will not maintain his previous attitude after remarriage. If he really understands his wife's difficulties, he will certainly share them.

For women, women who are arrogant are more likely to regret after divorce. Her heart is high not because of her ability, but because she is good-looking, and she is sure to meet better people after divorce.

The best result, after a period of tossing, is that no matter who you choose to be with, life will not be perfect. Considering the children, it is better to remarry and match the original.

The worst result is that you will never meet your prince charming and make a living on your own. As for your material desires, you naturally expect them.

Maybe in the last marriage, she didn't really work and didn't understand the cruelty and helplessness of reality at all. She just thought it was easy to make money, so that she didn't know the hard work of making money until after the divorce. She didn't want to eat and shouted the slogan of independence.

In other words, when she shouts the slogan of independence, it can make her level appear higher, but this is only superficial.

Then she felt at ease in front of a canary, hoping to get the absolute respect of those who supported her.

To sum up, after the divorce, she didn't live the life she wanted on her own, or didn't have that ability at all, and then remarriage was a compromise to reality.

At least the quality of life after remarriage is higher than when she was alone.

People's hearts are separated by their bellies, and we often only see the bright side of human nature, but we can't see the dark, selfish and realistic side that is hidden.

Yes, there is a kind of person who proposes to remarry, but life is not good after divorce.

Therefore, this kind of remarriage can be imagined as just going back to the previous life and continuing, because the original intention of remarriage is not to really want to give that relationship a chance, or to really realize their own problems.

To put it bluntly, you are just a spare tire when the other party is cornered.

Don't expect anything to change in ta through this divorce. If there is any change, it is only temporary. I cherish the short recovery of that beautiful life. After a long time, what is its nature or what?

If the divorce is due to principled injury, it is best not to have the idea of remarriage.

The idea of remarriage should not be because of the children. Don't be confused. Children can't decide the relationship between husband and wife. Only if you two are good, the child will be good. You two are not good, and the harm to the children will only be greater.

If you really want to remarry, you should be willing to give this relationship a chance, realize your own problems, and want the other party to give you a chance to prove yourself and change yourself.

Remarriage must be mutual. If it is only the will of one party, it is likely to sow the seeds of misfortune.

When communicating, if the two sides just blame each other and say what's wrong with each other and how to do it, it's not the time to remarry.

In fact, two people who really want to be good will not come to this step of divorce. Whether they can remarry or not, the appearance of the other party at the time of divorce has already told you the answer.

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