Children talk by mobile phone.

It is no news that children love to play mobile phones now, especially the "eat chicken" game suitable for all ages. It is possible that a doll with a pacifier will kill you.

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There are many children who want him to eat well. They must show him their favorite cartoons and eat while watching their mobile phones, otherwise they will be "angry".

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Adults know that such a young child can't play with mobile phones, but they just don't know what to do.

Then the question is, why do such a small child like mobile phones?

The key to this matter is still at home.

When I go to a restaurant to eat, I often see my parents eating and chatting by themselves, and giving their children mobile phones to play by themselves. ...

Many families often have a "quiet and harmonious" picture at night: a family of three, mother watching TV, father brushing mobile phone, children playing tablet computer, each busy and not disturbing each other.

Adults physically brush their mobile phones, but children touch them. In such an environment, isn't it a test of children's willpower to ban children from playing games?

Some parents can't help but say that I tried to reach an agreement with my children on the use of mobile phones, but it didn't work. That's because children think this code is only unfair to themselves.

You can all play, why don't you let me? Let me play with my mobile phone while eating, and I won't bother you. Can't I play when I want to?

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Mobile phones are not demons. Parents should not demonize mobile phones. Parents should treat this matter with tolerance. Nowadays, education is not to teach children how to make money and how to succeed, but to teach them how to be a true self and an introverted person. We should accept his shortcomings, let him dare to play and have a heart to restrain himself.

That is, let children learn self-discipline.

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Under the following three preconditions, children deserve to own a mobile phone:

1. Appoint the game time. You can't play from Monday to Friday, but you can play for half an hour or an hour on Saturday and Sunday, which is stipulated by your child after finishing your homework.

When many parents forbid their children to play games, they will say: Stop playing games and learn to read! When a child's life is only about learning and playing games, he will always think about games.

Children need happiness, relaxation and friendship. Consciously let children cultivate more hobbies, enrich their lives, let children find the joy of life and make a few high-quality friends. Interesting real life will be more attractive than interesting virtual games.

Consciously and purposefully let children learn to use mobile phones, learn to manage mobile phones, and be self-disciplined. This is our ultimate goal.

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In addition to the above, parents can also try to do this:

Parents should set a good example.

Parents should set an example if they don't want their children to play with mobile phones. After coming home from work, everyone should spend more time with their children. As long as the children are around, it is best not to play with mobile phones.

During the period when children are forbidden to play mobile phones, please insist on it with your children! If you don't want your child to be addicted to games, do it yourself first, and don't be addicted to mobile phones.

2. Don't play with your mobile phone when you are with your children.

When parents accompany their children, whether they are accompanying homework or playing, they can mute their mobile phones in advance, and don't let them be exposed to the children, not because they ignore them, so as to ensure that their parents' companionship is undivided. Then, what is conveyed to children is also positive feedback, rather than that children will no longer need their parents' company if they have a mobile phone in the future!

Don't take the mobile phone when the child loses his temper.

Children are a species with changeable emotions. Sometimes when no one bothers him, he sulks or annoys you alone. Parents feel bored and don't listen. At this time, they took out a magic weapon-mobile phone. Most children's mobile phone addiction is infected in this way.

Therefore, parents should stick to their own principles, no matter how angry their children are, don't play mobile phones for their children in a quick way, and don't develop the bad habit of children relying on mobile phones.

4. Don't use the mobile phone as a bargaining chip to reward children.

Many parents like to use their mobile phones as chips when their children are naughty or rebellious. When children are disobedient when they don't eat, let them play with their mobile phones in exchange for obedience. If children can get such a' reward' every time they rebel, then they will naturally rely on mobile phones.

5. Let children participate in outdoor activities and group activities.

Parents can take their children outdoors or for group activities. Once they are busy, their dependence on mobile phones will decrease. At the same time, you can also make friends, broaden your horizons and strive for a job.

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6. Make children aware of the dangers of mobile phones.

Don't tell me that children may never think that playing mobile phones is harmful, such as reducing their eyesight, affecting their studies, reducing their friends, gaining weight and so on. At the same time, everyone should help children to enhance their self-control ability.

For children to play mobile phones, in addition to some methods, the key is to start from the roots.

The most fundamental thing is to let children establish their judgment and let them realize the harm that playing for a long time has done to themselves. If you simply kill his interest, I'm afraid it will be counterproductive.

Parents should realize that no matter how to prevent it, children's curiosity about electronic technology products will never decrease!

Even if we forbid children to contact at home, children will come into contact with it at school and in society sooner or later.

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First of all, we need to find out what is the impact of playing mobile phones and games. Can we accept it? It's very common now. The child won't touch it today, but tomorrow. It's only a matter of time before they get in touch.