Why are many people who have survived the trough silent?

1, all silence is because everything is understood, and all calmness is tempered by the world.

2. After experiencing the trough, I know that it is better to change than to complain. If you don't like one thing, it's change. If you don't like someone, change your mind.

After going through the trough, a person will often become a warm and thoughtful person, rather than a person who talks nonsense to others.

4. Only when a person has experienced a trough can he find that no one will actually pull you up. What really pulls himself up is his inner firmness and persistence. After all, others are others, and he is reliable.

At the bottom of the valley, people always cry in the dark, and those who have not cried for a long night are not enough to talk about life. After experiencing the trough of life, I will understand the truth of life, and then I will devote all my energy to improving myself without studying others.

6. After going through the trough, I realized that human nature is just icing on the cake for the powerful, and it is a downpour for the weak.

7. What can really heal you is not time, nor the people around you, but your inner release and pattern.

8. When people are at the bottom, most people look down on themselves. Many people hide far away. After these experiences, their expectations and enthusiasm for others will also decrease, but that is between people.

9. When people are at the bottom, they see through some ways of the world. The world is cold and the flowers are everywhere. It is better to have a flower that has been blooming for yourself.

10, in short, after the trough, don't forget to seek love, love yourself first, and don't forget my conscience. I will be kind to everything as always.

Because the valley has experienced the warmth and coldness of life, I have seen the world clearly. Everything is useless and hypocritical. Only your own strength is strong. It's true, no matter how good it is at ordinary times, it's also true. Only when we hit the bottom can we see the reality clearly!

When you get out of the trough, you have also looked down on the social intrigue. So how can there be so much nonsense and irrelevant people saying, do your own thing. And useful people are realistic. Usually, if you see drinking together outside, you can speak and play, either you have never experienced the world or you have learned a lot. Take part in accidental amusement. Let's drink together today and call each other brothers. Maybe he won't know you tomorrow. This is the Jianghu.

A: Transparent!

I survived my family and my family, and I worked hard silently.

1. In that era of "the more knowledge, the more reactionary", because my father was an elite of Jiaotong University, he paraded the streets with seven senior intellectuals and suffered all kinds of insults. ...

2, underage when educated youth:

Teaching and educating people during the day;

Working in the fields after school;

Barefoot doctor at night;

Study hard at night.

The spirit of the Third Plenary Session of the 11th CPC Central Committee ushered in a sunny spring.

1, before the trough, full of confidence, full of vigor and vitality, good as a teacher.

2. At the trough, I found that many people couldn't help it, even being cynical.

3, after the trough, I know that it is the most important thing to be yourself and live your own life. Everyone around me is back, mature inside, no longer see through, no longer point fingers, no longer serious.

People who survive the trough alone are particularly indifferent. After going through the trough, their perception of things will be different from ordinary people. The world is gain and loss, so it becomes mature and stable, and gradually becomes silent.

This answer really wants literary humor, but I am afraid that I can't control my emotions and try my best to restrain myself.

Life, there is no smooth sailing for a lifetime. We have to face the illness and death of relatives and friends, the daily necessities of our family, the promotion competition at work and all kinds of people we meet. ......

An accident may be inevitable, which will let us break through the defense line and let us fall into the trough of life.

At the bottom, I will find that my world has completely changed, and everything is so ferocious and hateful! I have no chance to resist myself, and I dare not fight back!

In the trough, everything around you will show its true colors. When you are at a low point, those who flatter you will hit you mercilessly, tear up your dignity, and then trample on it to cover up their previous meanness and incompetence in front of you!

At the bottom, you will find that you also have real friends. A phone call, a dinner party and a casual pat on the back will move you! This is the preciousness of the valley. After the storm, it is gold that precipitates, not your own gold!

When we finally came out of the bottom, we were born again. The advantage of the trough is to exercise your mind and polish your eyes!

After the trough, people who can talk and don't talk will stop talking, and people who can pay or who can't pay will stop paying! It's not that I've become cautious, but that I know what I'm facing! I just want to talk to someone I think is worth talking about. Others and words are not lovers!

Why are many people who have survived the trough silent?

Many people are "unaffected by the weather" and "teenagers don't know the taste of sorrow"! Naturally, it is the "high-profile life" mode that people talk about because they are soft-blooded and aggressive, or Kan Kan. If you "run away all your life", it's completely another person!

That year, our young and charming Wang Shuji (Party Secretary of a town) was just thirty years old. He is a "science and engineering man" and has read many poetry books. It's only a few years after graduating from college and being assigned to the town authorities, which means "doing a lot"! City and county secretaries are optimistic about him! He seems to have a bright future!

Wang Shuji talks about learning from the past, learning from the present, and learning from Kan Kan anytime, anywhere! Existing knowledge; It is also very interesting and has a strong appeal! His boss appreciates him; His subordinates submit to him! He often boasts that he is a "joke of life"!

Finally, Secretary Wang met with "Waterloo" and his bright future was destroyed!

On that occasion, his secretary reimbursed them for their travel expenses of more than 20,000 yuan. Wang Shuji is a "tail from wagging the dog" person, and he doesn't care about trivial matters. I know that "an ant hole collapsed on the beach"! Secretary Wang is in big trouble!

Someone reported the real name to the local people's procuratorate. The people's procuratorate filed a case for investigation "the report is true"! Wang Shuji was put on file for investigation and taken "compulsory measures".

Wang Shuji was detained in the local detention center for half a year. The people's court held that "although the defendant Wang accepted false (overstated) travel expenses, he didn't know about it and subjectively didn't commit a crime intentionally ...". The defendant Wang was sentenced to one year in prison and suspended for one year.

After Wang Shuji was released, he seemed to be a man of few words. Speak softly, speak hesitatingly, and sometimes even fail to convey meaning. Everyone is bowing!

Wang Shuji was later assigned to the county "key office" as the deputy director (at that time, the policy of being dismissed for criminal responsibility had not yet been implemented). He and the former "teenager" Wang Shuji have completely changed!

Although I haven't passed the trough yet, I want to answer my feelings. I hope it will be useful to everyone and encourage each other.

The real trough refers to various factors leading to physical and mental fatigue, depression, and even depression, which is serious.

At the bottom of the valley, I don't want to socialize, work, talk to others, have no appetite, sleep badly, feel dull and want to cry. No matter whether I cry or not, I always feel that there is something in my heart that I can't push away, so I am in a helpless state.

This state will last for some time, or even longer. Generally speaking, it takes 28 days for people to form habits, and the trough is not just 28 days. When they go through a long trough, they will "grow". In this process, I have clearly felt my own changes. I clearly understand that even if I leave this period, I will never be able to return to my former self. I was forced to grow up. So in the days to come, there are fewer smiles, even if there are, they are just polite smiles. They no longer like all kinds of chatting and socializing, and they seldom talk. You will still feel lonely and sad when you are alone, but you can't change the "independent" state that you have experienced the trough.

Society is too cruel, it is really hard for people to live, and every growth is accompanied by severe pain. Silence should not be a derogatory term. After all, who doesn't want heartless happiness? Therefore, many times I like to see the smiling faces of children. They are so innocent and carefree. Those healed smiles gave me a lot of comfort and made me feel that there was still some beauty. I could get hope from them and get "things" that adults no longer have.

After experiencing the trough, many things look bleak, and the understanding of things will be different, and the ideas of ordinary people will be different. The world is nothing more than gain and loss. What I longed for before seems less important now, so my desire will be reduced and I will do things quietly and silently with my own actions.

I'm a fellow Lingnan, and I'll answer!

Why are many people who have survived the trough silent? Many things will only be believed after experience. Many people don't know if they are real friends until they are at the bottom. Many truths can only be truly understood after experiencing the trough!

Lao Wang, whom I know, has experienced a low point in his life. When Lao Wang Gang made a fortune, he was high-spirited, generous and high-profile. But after a life trough, the whole person has changed a lot, and now my career is getting bigger and bigger!

After graduating from 20 10 college, Lao Wang did not choose to work outside, but returned to his hometown in rural areas to raise pigs, because his major in university was breeding.

At that time, after he returned to his hometown, he first went to a pig boss's house to help, and learned a lot of good experiences in the pig boss's pig farm, which laid a very good foundation for him to start his own business in the future.

After raising pigs for others in his hometown in the countryside for a year, Lao Wang finally decided to start his own business. With the help of his parents, he built a pig farm that is not particularly large, and can only raise about 300 pigs at a time.

With his professional knowledge, Lao Wang pays great attention to some methods of raising pigs. He made a lot of money in the first two years. In those few years, the price of pork increased year by year. Lao Wang also made more and more money in the pig market with this shareholder style.

After Lao Wang tasted the sweetness of raising pigs in rural areas, he decided to make it bigger and bigger. He continued to invest the money he earned in his own pig farm. Until 20 17, his pig-raising business was very large, with 2000 pigs delivered every month.

As Lao Wang's business grows bigger and bigger, Lao Wang's personal self-confidence is also expanding. He feels that he is a more successful person among his friends, and he has become more and more generous in his circle of friends, and his living standard is getting higher and higher.

Usually go out to eat with friends, and Lao Wang pays the bill. In his house, there are many hours at any time. As long as friends come over, they are willing to take out very good wine to entertain.

With Lao Wang's career getting bigger and bigger, he has more friends. At that time, he thought these were friends worth making, because everyone was a businessman. If there are problems in the future, we can help each other and support each other when we really encounter difficulties.

Time is up to 20 19. At this time, Lao Wang's luck is not so good. There was a serious swine fever in his breeding factory. At that time, according to the corresponding regulations, pigs in pig farms had to be disposed of. At that time, Lao Wang was really wiped out.

Lao Wang not only disposed of all his pigs, but also owed nearly two million yuan to the feed factory, and sold all his possessions to make up all the accounts. This is a very difficult period for Lao Wang.

Lao Wang was really depressed at first, but it soon occurred to him that he still had so many friends who could help him. I believe they won't let him down like this, so he borrowed money from his friends and prepared to make a comeback.

But he went to all his friends, and almost all his friends were unwilling to lend him money. Some people even blacked out Lao Wang's contact information after knowing that he had lost all his money.

After Lao Wang experienced this incident, it made him remember for a long time and made him really realize that the so-called scenery in the past was superficial. Once he gets lost, these people will leave him.

Because the so-called friends in the past were unwilling to lend a helping hand, Lao Wang could only raise the start-up capital of 1 10,000 through the help of relatives. With the support of the government, he borrowed 3 million low-interest loans from the bank. With a capital of 4 million yuan, Lao Wang immediately increased pig breeding with his keen sense of smell, and adopted very strict epidemic prevention and control measures in the whole process of pig breeding.

At that time, Lao Wang's judgment was that after the swine fever passed, pork would definitely usher in a very big rise, because in the whole process of swine fever, his losses were very large, and other enterprises would not be much better.

Lao Wang is a man who dares to think and do. At this time, he fully developed his pig farm to the maximum horsepower, and the scale was even larger than before swine fever.

With his solid technical foundation and strict disease prevention and control measures, Lao Wang started raising pigs earlier than other pig farms and resumed production capacity earlier than other pig farms.

After 2020, Lao Wang's pigs can be slaughtered. At that time, he could slaughter 4000 pigs every month. At that time, the price of pork went up all the way. At the highest time, the pig price can reach more than 20 yuan per catty.

After more than a year, Lao Wang not only earned back the money he had lost before, but also paid off all his debts. After this period of low life, old Wang Mingxian is much more mature than before.

One of the great changes of Lao Wang is that he is not as high-profile as before. He usually doesn't like talking, eating out, attending dinners and communicating with so-called friends. Now he spends more time on his farm and pays close attention to the development of his enterprise.

Because he has experienced such a thing, he knows the so-called entertainment, the so-called friends. With his loss, everything will vanish, and only his enterprise will accompany him forever. As long as his business is bigger and stronger, he won't worry that no one will make friends with him.