What do you mean I can't afford a girl?

"The girl says I can't raise it" means that she is very demanding. If you can't satisfy her, you can't afford to support her.

Tell you about my best friend's experience:

My best friend usually spends money like water. I remember when I was at school, it was common to spend hundreds of dollars a day. Just because she likes to spend money and give generously, she has many friends around her.

In my sophomore year, a boy confessed to my best friend that he liked her and was fascinated by her, so he couldn't sleep all night. Moreover, this boy is not the type that his girlfriend likes, and then he was rejected by his girlfriend. As a result, boys just can't let go and pester their girlfriends repeatedly. Later, my girlfriend said, "I am not easy to raise, it is not as simple as you think." The boy said, "I know you are difficult to raise, but only I am suitable for you."

Yes, you must find the one that suits you. If the other person is demanding and your ability is limited, don't try it easily. Otherwise, it is oneself who is injured. Talking about an object and finding a friend are actually the same thing, and they must be appropriate.