Why can't pregnant women attend the wedding?

In the folk, there is a saying in many places that pregnant women cannot attend other people's weddings. The older generation thinks that pregnant women attending weddings will dispel other people's sense of happiness and move their stomachs, which can be said to be detrimental to others.

However, this statement has now been regarded as superstition by many people.

Every wedding reception, we can always see some pregnant mothers with big bellies. They are smiling and beaming, and they don't think there is anything wrong with this occasion.

Xiaomei is a pregnant mother who insists on attending her best friend's wedding. Xiaomei, who was pregnant for 8 months, was very happy when she received the invitation from her best friend, but just as she was going to attend the wedding banquet, she was stopped by her mother-in-law.

"Oh, pregnant women can't go to other people's weddings, which is good for people and bad for the children in their bellies!"

"Mom, this is what age? Those are superstitious statements! "

Xiaomei's intuitive mother-in-law theory is ridiculous. She turned her head to send her best wishes to her best friends. Unexpectedly, halfway through the happy wedding reception, the focus of the audience shifted to Xiaomei.

It turns out that many children came to the wedding scene.

In the process of grabbing the doll, those children were so enthusiastic that they accidentally bumped into Xiaomei, causing her to have unbearable abdominal pain on the spot and had to call an ambulance.

There was no atmosphere at the wedding. My best friend's husband thought it was bad luck and secretly blamed Xiaomei for coming to the wedding when she was pregnant. She really doesn't understand.

Xiaomei, who is lying in the hospital to raise her baby, is also afraid. Is it really unlucky for pregnant women to attend other people's weddings?

Netizens have also expressed their views on whether pregnant women can attend other people's weddings.

Some people think that as a pregnant woman, you really shouldn't attend such an occasion. Many newcomers are more afraid of the existence of pregnant women.

Some people think that as long as the security is done well, pregnant women are free to go anywhere, so there is no need to care too much.

"I wanted to go to a classmate's wedding when I was pregnant, but my mother stopped me. She said that even if you don't mind, people will mind. We believe that pregnant women attending the wedding will make it difficult for the bride to get pregnant after marriage. "

"Pregnant women can go wherever they want, as long as they are happy. There is no need to be so superstitious! "

"I'm pregnant and went to the classmate's wedding. To tell the truth, I regret it. The wedding scene was particularly noisy. I almost got hit by a Xiong Haizi. I came back after a few casual meals. Safety is the most important thing. "

Is it harmful for pregnant women to attend other people's weddings? This is not superstition, this is science!

Many times, the older generation in the family don't want pregnant daughters or daughter-in-law to attend other people's weddings.

Some of their statements may sound "ridiculous", but in fact they are sincerely considered for pregnant women, mainly for the following three reasons:

1. There are too many people at the wedding, which is prone to accidents.

Almost every wedding scene has a great feature, that is, there are many people, and the most taboo place to go during pregnancy is a crowded place.

Especially at the wedding reception, there are always some naughty children running around, and it is easy to bump into people, and if they bump into pregnant women, it will cause many accidents.

Such an accident will not only put yourself and the baby in your belly in danger, but also affect the wedding, make a couple worry about themselves and add unnecessary trouble to them.

2. The food at the wedding is complicated, and the pregnant woman's diet is not safe.

As a pregnant woman, there is a certain emphasis on diet, and not all meals can be eaten unscrupulously.

However, the dishes at the wedding banquet are more complicated. Many dishes are against the diet of pregnant women, such as some foods that are easy to cause miscarriage, some foods specially seasoned with oil and salt, and some ingredients that are not handled very cleanly.

Once pregnant women eat these foods intentionally or unintentionally, they will do some harm to the body more or less, and even threaten the health of the baby in the womb.

Therefore, the unsafe diet of the wedding banquet is one of the reasons why pregnant women should not attend the wedding banquet.

The wedding reception was noisy and the air was bad.

People who often attend wedding banquets know that there are many people who smoke and drink loudly at wedding banquets.

These people often don't take care of a strange pregnant woman, which leads to a very noisy and stuffy wedding environment. It is not good for pregnant women to stay in such an environment for a long time.

Besides, pregnant mothers don't go to these two places.

1. Bar and KTV with noisy environment

In the eyes of many pregnant mothers, the days after pregnancy are boring, so they want to go to bars or KTV to relax occasionally, but these two places are mostly noisy places, which are not suitable for pregnant mothers to relax.

Pregnant women in noisy places, the baby in the belly is also prone to obvious fetal movement.

This means that the baby has a rejection reaction to this environment. Too noisy places are easy to cause emotional instability of pregnant women, and sometimes they feel chest tightness and flustered.

2. Steam room

Many mothers like to go to the sauna, but after pregnancy, the steaming room should become a forbidden place for pregnant mothers. The temperature of the steaming room is high, and the baby is prone to lack of oxygen in a high temperature environment.

For pregnant women themselves, pregnancy has made our body temperature slightly higher than ordinary people. Coupled with the continuous high temperature, pregnant mothers may faint.

Therefore, pregnant women should stay away from the steaming room and want to take a bath, so ordinary showers can be used.

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Nowadays, many pregnant women will reject some superstitious views, but pregnant mothers should also consider their own safety when attending other people's weddings.

If you have to go to a certain occasion, you need to find a reliable person to accompany you, and you need to avoid eating properly. Everything is based on the safety of yourself and your baby.

Have you ever attended someone else's wedding during pregnancy? Have you ever heard the saying that you can't attend a wedding during pregnancy? Welcome to share your opinion with Douma in the comments section!