Hand in hand, heart to heart, witnessed by parents.

Hello everyone! I am xxx's parents. First of all, I would like to thank Mr. xx for giving me such a good opportunity. I feel very honored to stand here and discuss children's growth education with you. I'm scared, too. I'm afraid because I lack confidence! ) Teachers' elegant manners, extraordinary temperament, simple life style and studious spirit have been imperceptibly influencing our children, enabling them to learn not only to read but also to be human. Small details in real life always emphasize that children should have love and filial piety. For example, teachers will teach children to go home and show filial piety to their parents on March 8 and Thanksgiving Day. There is also a charity sale recently organized to raise money for disabled children. Teacher xx is indeed more diligent than other teachers in this respect. Let him develop good study and living habits here. Here, on behalf of the parents attending the meeting, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to our teachers for their hard education!

Every progress of my children is inseparable from the hard work of teachers. You won't get good grades without the strict requirements of the teacher. I am ashamed of my children's education. I really have no experience to talk about, and some experiences are not very successful. So I'm just talking about my immature ideas and practices here, with the aim of communicating with you, learning from each other's strengths and improving together. Let me talk about my superficial understanding of children's growth education.

For children, adults always want them to be what they want. Education-oriented families want their children to get full marks in all subjects. Parents who cultivate interest want their children to be flexible and have many ideas. In a well-behaved family, children should be polite, understand the overall situation and not take risks rashly. And so on, in short, the child is a hope model of parents, and it must be completely consistent with the ideal model. Of course, I am also one of these parents. I hope that children are sensible, caring, thoughtful and self-motivated. Children's learning consciousness is not high. I think what worries parents now is that children can never form a good habit of doing homework consciously after going home every day, which is almost a "common problem" shown by primary school children. That is to say, consciousness is not high. Let me talk about my views on children's consciousness:

I think consciousness is a quality of will. It means trying to do what you should do without being urged by others. I think consciousness plays a great role in children's growth and intellectual development.

Children's consciousness is manifested in all aspects of life and study: for example, finishing homework on time, consciously reviewing lessons, preparing learning tools by themselves, cleaning the room by themselves, washing clothes and even cooking by themselves, and so on. However, many children can't do this. They can never have enough fun. They don't like studying and working, which makes their parents feel very headache. Let me talk about our children's learning consciousness first: because they work far away, they go out early and come back late every day, and children usually have little time to study. After school, the children go home to do their homework and review their lessons. When I got home, his homework had been basically finished. Maybe many parents will think it's nothing. Isn't that how everyone lives? Who doesn't go to work early and come back late every day? Actually, it's still a little different. Everyone goes to work every day, yes, but there may be parents or grandparents at home, but we have no parents and no one to pick him up. He went home by himself after school. If he is hungry, he can buy something to eat first, or go home and eat some fruit biscuits or something. I can't cook until I get home, and I don't know how long I have to wait to eat. Why do you say that? Because I basically get home around 6.40, which means I can cook without traffic jams. When I didn't go home, no one told him to do his homework or do anything else. Everything was arranged by him. According to the teacher's arrangement that day, what he should read, write and do. I want to do it myself. I don't depend on us, and I can't. When I get home, I will be busy with my work, washing vegetables and cooking. I think the children did a good job! )

Let's talk about life again: At present, most families only have one child, and the child's homework performance is the most concerned and sensitive topic for parents. "Learning" and "rewarding" excellent students have become a common means for many parents to encourage their children to learn. "Learning first, grades first" is their only goal. As a result, parents arranged housework instead of their children. First, they care about their children and refuse to put the blame on them prematurely. Second, for fear of affecting learning, children disdain to do "chores". If the child gets a good grade, it will be a "sunny day" at home; Parents will lose their smiles if their children fail in the exam. In fact, children are not born lazy, and diligence is similar to a good habit. The cultivation of diligent habits should start from an early age, so that children can know what they should do, and parents can't do it for them. However, many parents have arranged everything for their children now, and parents and children have basically reached the understanding that children are only responsible for learning and everything else is arranged by parents. If children want to help adults do something, adults will say, "study hard." Learning well is better than anything else. " Over time, the child will become an outsider in his own affairs, because all things are taken care of by others for him, and he doesn't need to do it at all. The more thoughtful you take care of your children, the less responsible they are and the less they know how to take care of their own affairs. Some children were urged by their parents to get up several times in the morning, but she still spoiled: "Sleep for a while and then sleep for a while." In our family, I told him very early: "going to school is your own business." I only told him what time it was every morning, and he arranged everything else. To tell the truth, I don't have time to wait for him to do it slowly, because I may have called him and left. It turns out that he handled it well, because he has never been late for five years and arrives at school early every day.

In real life, some parents don't let their children do what they can and don't give them the opportunity to exercise. Over time, children lose some abilities. Here I can proudly say: xx can already make tomato and egg soup in the summer vacation of grade three. He can not only cook, but also cook delicious food, which shows that children can surprise you as long as parents let go.

2. Establish a trust relationship with children: Children have an instinctive trust in their mothers, which is innate. Mother's arms are warm and safe. As a mother, we must make this feeling last longer for our children. With this feeling, the child's heart will be stable and there will be a sense of dependence. My method is different from that of other parents. My method is to show weakness like a child: expose some unintelligent parts in front of the child, expose a little incompetence and weakness, and stop talking with the child about progress, study, progress, concentration, improvement of grades and so on. Let the children know that you also have shortcomings. You are also stupid, naughty and have a bad side. In this way, the child will think that telling him the truth is a friend, and the trust relationship with the child will be basically established. Children are actually very simple! Why did I show weakness like a child? It seems that it started with my fourth grade area problem. Thinking that children are slowly entering senior grades, some things can be easier than before, so I did an experiment. It's just math homework. Every day I just check his writing problems, whether he is right or wrong. In this way, the teacher gave A- or B for several days in a row, and the child asked me how to check, but I didn't find so many mistakes! I pretended not to know. I checked it carefully! Then I told him: I used to study in a poor area, and the geometry teacher gave me a headache and often talked to me. I really can't help you with these. Do your own problems carefully, don't expect your mother, and listen carefully in class! In this way, a few weeks later, the teacher took the exam. He got 100! Although I also took 100 before, I am very excited this time. According to him, none of the students who usually study well in the class did well in the exam. Through this incident, I understand that as long as you trust your children, they will not let you down! Nowadays, children like to play computer and PSP. In this way, I also have an agreement with my children, that is, I can play the computer normally after I finish my homework on Friday and Saturday. I said before that the time for me to go home is about 6.40 (this is without traffic jam), and the time for my children to get home from school is about 5.00. No one was at home for nearly two hours, but the child kept our agreement and was conscious. I didn't say that they don't have parents at home to secretly surf the internet and play computer or games at this time. On Friday, children will also play computer for 2 hours after finishing their homework, unless there is a composition. )

3. I also want to talk about children's consciousness of serving the collective: it is really not hard for children to work as labor committees for several years! His grandmother said that this labor committee member had nothing to do, and he had no technical content. He leaves later than others every day and has to clean up! I'm exhausted! In fact, this labor Committee is really not so good. Today's children are all little emperors and have never done any work. But the cadres in this class usually work a lot, but they are still very tired! But it doesn't mean much He can't even attend the meeting of the Standing Committee of the class. He himself said that he was a working cadre. ) In the third grade, when children were young, they knew nothing. Many times, the duty work in the class is done by him alone, and the hard work is self-evident. It seems that when I was in the fourth grade, when I heard the news of his re-election, my eyes immediately darkened. I felt that being a labor committee only made contributions to others in vain, and it also delayed my homework time, which was boring! After school, I am not as active as before, and it seems that I am going to dismiss my teacher. I will do his work and tell him that the working committee wants you to play a team role, not silently, but to lead everyone to do it happily. How can you be as powerful as everyone else? He said that sometimes students are asked to clean up, but students say that they have something to train, so they can't delay others' training! Look! What a kind child! ! Then he did his job and told him that a little man should have a hard-working dedication. It is not good to be afraid of suffering and not giving; He also told him that every division of labor in the class can be successful if it is done well. We have always advocated "the most glorious work"! Moreover, as a labor committee member, I am no worse than other posts in cultivating organizational and interpersonal skills, but I also have special advantages in cultivating practical ability and hard work. After reading such a report, cultivating practical ability and hard-working spirit are important qualities for a person's academic and career success. He also gave up a lot for the labor Committee, such as rest time, hobbies and so on. Once, the school wanted to hold an interest class in science and technology production, and the children liked it very much and actively signed up. The problem was discovered when they were in class, because the class time of the interest class was arranged after school every Tuesday, and he had to clean up after school, so the time was in conflict. Ask other students to help, others have other things to do. Finally, after careful consideration, he told me: Mom, I'd better do my job first! Finally, I gave up the interest class. In this way, the child has been insisting until now.

4. To educate children to develop in a balanced way, we should pay attention to the basic knowledge learning of all subjects and not be partial to them. I often hear Qian Wen's father say that when the exam comes, the children are practicing singing. I was very moved at that time, because Jiahao was also like this. Although there is infinite yearning for music, children always feel that their voices are not pleasant enough, and all music exercises after class are more than other subjects. )

5, usually study the combination of work and rest. After the children finish their homework and extracurricular learning tasks with good quality and quantity, they should leave some spare time for their children to cultivate their hobbies. Of course, parents should also actively cooperate and guide him to develop in a meaningful and healthy direction. For example, our children usually like to play Go in their spare time. After we found out, we enrolled him in a special children's Go class. After the guidance of the training class teacher, the child's chess level has been greatly improved, and the surrounding relatives and friends praised him, and the child's enthusiasm naturally improved. In this way, the child's sentiment is cultivated, and at the same time, it is also very relaxed, and learning nature is more effective. Children should also pay attention to their own nutritional problems, ensure adequate sleep time and strengthen physical exercise.

6, usually communicate with teachers. Often ask the class teacher and the classroom teacher about the children's school situation, and give feedback to the teacher about the children's performance at home, so as to achieve mutual understanding and cooperate with education.

Now I watch the children change day by day and grow constantly. As a parent, I see it in my eyes and enjoy it in my heart. I know that every progress he has made is inseparable from the teachers' earnest teaching, the selfless help of his classmates and the hard work of his parents. I have reason to believe that with our company and the scientific guidance of teachers, the children will grow up healthily and he will be our pride!

Here, I once again express my heartfelt thanks to the teachers who have worked hard for our children! I wish all teachers, parents and friends good health, smooth work and happy families! Thank you all.