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How can we live a good life when two people have completely different personalities? How to run in?

When this happens, don't expect to love or not love, let alone to ignite the fire of passion with each other instantly. As long as you can keep a tolerant attitude, don't object when things happen, and put yourself in others' shoes. After all, if two people want to live together, don't expect too much from your other half.

Maintain the existing marital status with a normal heart. Ignore the love, passion, temperature and ambiguous couples who often bask in front of you. They are bathed in their love and we live our own lives. Without expectation, comparison and extravagant hope, there will be no imbalance in our hearts, so that we can make do with our own lives.

This is very important. No one is perfect. There are no two identical leaves in this world, let alone two identical people. Couples who are in tune again sometimes disagree. As long as they don't make big mistakes in principle, some small shortcomings can't be tolerated.

Let me talk about myself first, regardless of other people's families. My lover and I are two people with completely different personalities. I like quiet, he is active; I like liberal arts, and he prefers science and engineering; I'm not good at making friends. He has many friends. Two people with such different personalities live a happy life that everyone around them envies. There is a simple reason. What we value is not each other's character, but each other's character.

Betrayal has irreversible harm to marriage, and betrayal is also the most horrible and insurmountable obstacle between husband and wife. Betrayal is betrayal, betrayal of moral constraints. Betrayal not only refers to love and marriage, but also can be used in other aspects, such as friendship between friends and people and things that have been agreed before.

If the risk of betrayal in marriage is high, there is no reason to continue. Marriage is not a certificate, but a test and measure of human nature. Since they choose to enter marriage, both parties have to abide by this Covenant. Loyalty and trust are the cornerstones of lasting relationship between husband and wife, which can make marriage happier than personality harmony. If you can't do these two things, it will be difficult to make do.

Ignoring is also the only criterion to maintain the status quo of marriage. Two people from different families have different living habits, values and ways of dealing with people. Don't care who is afraid of whom, not to mention the bottomless accommodation and tolerance, but to get along with each other according to your own life principles and tolerance.

Indifference is not only the mediator of family harmony, but also the most acceptable way of communication in interpersonal communication, and it is also the promotion and cultivation of self-restraint and personality charm. In a marriage, the beneficiaries who don't care about each other are not only each other, but also their tolerance and relief.

In this age of rampant love, most people who want to divorce are using the lack of love between husband and wife as a cover. In fact, how many people in our previous generation got married after falling in love? How many people have the same interests and personalities? They have gone through life in the trivial running-in of life!

Therefore, the harmony and discord between husband and wife depends entirely on the selflessness of human nature, on their loyalty and distrust, and on whether people can put themselves in their own shoes and whether they have a kind heart that is strict with themselves and tolerant of others.