What do men like?

Men are more fetish than women. However, the psychological root of men's fetishism is different from that of women. In addition to possession, it is accompanied by a desire for identity, sex or fame and fortune. Fetishism 1: Autobots love cars as their daughters. This may be because of the experience of childhood, when little boys were young, they were eager to have a car toy. When parents give boys a model car, they know that they can use it to go anywhere they want. Men are naturally eager for freedom, adventure and excitement. If men are eager to be eagles fighting the sky, cars are their wings. Therefore, men like racing cars and running faster. This is why Beijing's "two rings and thirteen lang" will gamble with their lives. Freud was more absolute. In his view, cars symbolize men's sexual tools. A man is driving a car to start an unknown journey, as if to start a climax adventure. Whether driving can bring a new climax may vary from person to person, but statistics from European and American countries show that 3/4 car owners have had sex in the car. In addition, men regard cars as their own private space. We often see men who get off work, even if they are about to get home, are willing to sit quietly in the car and smoke a cigarette to sort out their busy thoughts. At that time, the car has become the third space of his mind-a quiet corner that belongs to him completely. Fetishism 2: pipe Churchill's big pipe is world-famous. Celebrities who like to collect pipes include Gewana and Castro. Why do the more powerful men like old pipes? This is because a pipe can exercise a man's elegant, slow and thoughtful temperament. I'm afraid only they know how much inspiration they get from the smog, or how to make decisions in times of crisis. Even with the development of science, pipes are still men's favorite. The so-called Feng probably came from this. Although men all know that smoking one more cigarette will shorten their life, it doesn't affect that they still love cigarettes to the point of rushing forward. Or Freud's theory, a huge pipe symbolizes male penis worship. To some extent, a heavy smoker means that he is fertile. Fetishism 3: Golf Club Golf Course is strictly approved by the state, but it does not affect more and more upstart men to play golf. If the rich in China want to learn from the western aristocrats, their first feeling is how to play golf. Real estate advertisements always depict the image of a nouveau riche: while playing golf with clients, he is making more money every day. Therefore, it is imperative to collect a good golf club. In the eyes of many men, this is also a symbol of status. If one day, I meet my business partner on the golf course, not only with superb skills, but also with a golf club with personality and taste like a bikini girl, then I think it has shocked each other in the momentum of a gentleman. Moreover, even if you don't play often, knowing that kind of elegant exercise can make men become more gentlemen. Fetishism 4: The relationship between watches and men has a long history. In the advertisements of omega and radar watches, the relationship between watches and men is often compared to a symbol of noble status. A good watch symbolizes that this man is educated and has a successful career. In addition, its implied psychological enlightenment to men is that men need to race against time, so that he can seize business opportunities and succeed in his career. Watches always remind people of their speed and efficiency. Sexy needs feathers. In a famous classic movie, a man and a woman are making love in full swing. He is naked, but there is a shiny watch on his wrist, which complements the sexy sweat. For men, this is a very sexy moment. Fetishism 5: Signature Pen When one man after another is eager to become a business tycoon, a company executive or a social celebrity, a good signature pen is in the details, prompting the authority and demeanor of men. In the past, a man liked to pin his signature pen in the pocket of his tunic suit, which showed that he was a national civil servant or an intellectual. Nowadays, men like to put their signature pens in their suit pockets and take them out at parties, just like a woman shows her diamond ring. The elegant and exquisite taste makes people look askance. When she asked him for his autograph, he slowly took out his exquisite pen and wrote his name on a small piece of paper: this is a revival of elegance and ancient style. Compared with the behavior of sending business cards as soon as they meet, it shows his conservatism-and nobles, who said that he must not be conservative. Fetishism 6: Before perfume appeared, men were not used to using perfume, and primitive society advocated rudeness and masculinity. However, after the ancient aristocratic men tried some perfumes, they found that just like taking aphrodisiacs, they could make women find the taste quickly and make women sexually excited. Perfume, as an attractive smell at first, is just like bees sniffing out the same kind. Men in the feminist era are increasingly inseparable from perfume, which also shows that men are becoming more and more gentle and neutral. Men who wear perfume are often easily associated with "exquisiteness, gentleness, thoughtfulness and gentleness". Perfume man challenges the slovenly cowboy man and becomes the most admired man of mature women. Fetishism 7: The relationship between hats and men is very subtle. Generally speaking, there are two kinds of men who like hats. One is to cover up your head defects with a hat, such as baldness, such as unsightly head shape. The other is to show personality and taste, such as cap, cowboy hat and gentleman hat. The hats worn by men of different identities reflect their different moods and personalities. Why should every man have a top hat? Just like a woman has different shoes on different occasions. Like a business card. From a distance, it tells the public his mood-his gentleman today, his fashion tomorrow, or his sense of sports the day after tomorrow. Fetishism 8: Rings are the language of love. Rings are more than just decorations. What kind of ring you like to wear and which finger you like to wear will reveal your inner story. For men, wearing a sterling silver ring means being gentle and easy to accommodate others; People who wear gold rings pay more attention to interests and often have a shrewd business mind; Those who wear jade pay attention to taste and quality, and do things rigorously. Therefore, choosing a good ring shows the identity of this man. Unmarried rings make people daydream. As for the wedding ring, it is awe-inspiring-in the era of pseudo-singles, it shows the man's loyalty to marriage. Fetishism 9: Suit: Why is the memory of the suit man in China in the 20th century always embarrassing? A suit is a powerful thing, and even the best suit is destined to be less comfortable than a T-shirt, especially when it is put on, it looks too awkward. China men in suits and ties are a great sight in the 20th century, which may be related to China men's persistent pursuit of serious and deep images. Therefore, we lament the chic of Armani's suit on Beckham and other Premier League players, because it embodies seriousness and dignity, and needs rigidity in the bones. Every man needs a suit, because every man is like the slogan of the seven wolves: every man has many faces, and he stands upright in the wind in social occasions, which is the image he always needs in social occasions. Fetishism 10: The gangsters in glasses movies always wear thick sunglasses when they come out, which is unfathomable. There are very few people who are truly confident, so they cover up their inner panic through a layer of lenses and keep a sense of mystery. This is the reason why a man collects glasses: if I am not strong, let me stay strong behind the scenes so that the whole world can't see through my heart, even if I become a lonely wolf. Intellectuals wear glasses, one for practicality, and the other for being labeled as intellectuals, which makes them look elegant. But now, glasses are more like a decorative function for men. Han Xing's BYJ glasses are said to be one of the weapons that fascinate many teachers and nurses in Asia. Kindness and self-restraint make women not prone to violence-this is the first impression that glasses men usually give people. Fetishism 1 1: Wallet Wallet is a man's treasure chest, which usually contains photos of his wife and son, as well as various bank cards. It is said that this man's character can be seen from what is in his wallet. Generally speaking, if he takes photos of his wife and son, it means that this man is a man with a family; If a small mirror is installed, it shows that this man loves to clean and dress up; If it's just a thick bank card, it means that this man likes to be rich. Women used to be keen to find what was in men's wallets. Or how much pocket money do they usually put in their wallets? Because women think that the wallet is definitely a reflection of a man's inner secret-he uses it every day, so his psychological focus must be hidden in the wallet. Fetishism 12: The relationship between wine and men shows countless love-hate relationships. Red wine helps to add icing on the cake to a beautiful night for men and women, while white wine often shows pride and makes men forget their stress and troubles. Historically, the history of wine is a story of men's lofty sentiments and brotherhood. Without wine, it is hard for us to imagine how human history will be rewritten. On the one hand, wine makes men's hormones accelerate and their hearts beat faster, so driven by this passion, men often have unexpected outbreaks; On the other hand, promiscuity and out-of-control behavior are also common. Nevertheless, this does not affect men's love and collection of wine. Many upstarts in China have all kinds of good wines hidden in their private cellars. The customer came and took out a bottle of long-cherished French wine from the wine cellar, which was indeed a symbol of status. Fetishism XIII: sneakers A long-distance runner who later became a world champion recalled his early experience and said that once, his parents bought him a pair of new sneakers, and he was reluctant to wear them. He would rather walk barefoot for a while every day and then wait until he sees someone. Sports shoes always carry too many men's memories, such as the heroic posture on the campus basketball court, such as the impressive record in the sports meeting. It symbolizes vitality and speed. Men have been chasing other men all their lives Whoever runs fastest is the winner, so Forrest Gump in Forrest Gump has been running all his life. After Kane died in Citizen Kane, what I miss most is a rose when I was a child. And sports shoes are men's nostalgia for their youthful vitality, passion and vigorous and heroic years. Fetishism 14: Shirts are the most neutral props in all men's clothes. It is one of the most powerful weapons in a man's elegant life. Generally speaking, a man should prepare 2 white shirts, 3 colored shirts and 1 plaid shirts. Six shirts can basically ensure that men can calmly enter and leave various occasions without monotony. Women like to see men wearing white shirts and jeans, which smells rebellious and mature. Today, shirts are colorful, symbolizing the arrival of the playboy era. Fetishism 15: Ties and ties are associated with formal, business and social activities. The role of a tie for men is somewhat similar to that of a scarf on a woman's neck, and it is a kind of cloud lining. In today's social environment, the image of a man is the first step to success. Elegance, composure and warmth are the image requirements of civilized society for men. As a part of men's wear, tie fully embodies the rich connotation of tie as a clothing accessory, and makes the best image annotation for men's unique and profound inner world. Therefore, today, after a long test of fashion trends, with the rapid development of human civilization and the constant renewal of aesthetic fashion, ties are increasingly favored and respected by men for their unique soul and personality. More importantly, sometimes ties can also be used as flirting tools. He hugged her, his tie came loose and tied him and her. It's a feeling of living together. A man who likes to wear a tie will make people feel his deep, responsible, serious and calm spirit. Fetishism 16: gardening tools, a small shovel and a small hoe. With the improvement of living environment, more and more men fall in love with gardening. In Europe, it is said that it is a middle class tradition for men to do gardening. In the spring sunshine, I like painting intensively in my own yard, and occasionally say hello to the leader next door and tell jokes, which is a bit like the feeling of a modern city. The pressure in the city is too great, so it is also one of the ways to relieve the pressure by fleeing back to an inch of land and becoming a modern farmer. More importantly, gardening is also an effective way to alleviate many modern diseases. Ding Lei of Netease, Su Xianting, the godfather of contemporary art in China, and many famous entrepreneurs have hobbies in gardening. An entrepreneur said that because he insisted on gardening for half a year, the high blood pressure that had been bothering him gradually improved. Gloves! Take off your gloves! Chekhov makes the protagonist talk like this in his novels, just like a drama "Put Down Your Whip". The action of taking off gloves is a calm and elegant psychological process for men. Therefore, Chiang Kai-shek always likes to take off his gloves slowly and put them on the table before he begins to speak honestly. It's a soothing process. You can calmly give yourself a time to think about what to say next. We will see that both the gloves of gentlemen in World War II and the gloves that Chiang Kai-shek once asked his senior officers to wear symbolize exquisiteness and civilization, and symbolize the ancient gentleman spirit. Therefore, Song Meiling spared no effort to promote the new life movement-it is unknown whether men must wear gloves, but if you want to be a gentleman, you should at least start by caring for your hands. Fetishism 18: underwear men's underwear is setting off a revolution. In the past, people were mainly comfortable, but now men not only pursue comfort, but also interest. First of all, men used to think that their bodies didn't need attention in boudoir. Now, they find that if they don't try their best to dress up in private parts like primitive minority men, women are more and more complaining and dissatisfied. The symbol of masculinity began with underwear reform. So smart underwear manufacturers pay more and more attention to men's demand for underwear. It is said that sexy advertisements made by CK were once hung in Times Square in new york. Generally speaking, white is the pure first choice for men's underwear, but now, sexy underwear and pink underwear are increasingly entering men's bedrooms. Men like underwear, which has something to do with underwear caring for his most precious parts. This is his close companion, like a soldier in armor. Fetishism 19: Cooking utensils Collecting a set of cooking utensils is definitely the only secret to impress women. When I brought the girl on my first date home, I took out a set of carefully collected cookers, which showed this man's love for life and interesting heart. Men who often go to the kitchen, like men in Shanghai, are women's favorite in the new matriarchal society. As the old saying goes, "a gentleman is far from the kitchen", but men in the new era will say: Grasping a woman's heart is just like grasping a man's heart, starting with grasping her stomach. Only when you eat well can you love well. Talking about love on an empty stomach is not the realm of materialists. Fetishism 20: overcoats are always associated with winter. Men have a broad mind, a fiery embrace and a stalwart figure. We often say that men are mountains, how can they be like mountains? Put on your coat and make men as majestic as mountains. Qiong Yao's plays are best at describing such a plot: in a snowy winter, the melancholy heroine and the equally melancholy hero meet after experiencing Where Are You Going? He has nothing but a coat, but it is enough for her. Jump into his coat, and the world will be just him and her. There is no clothing that can make men feel "well proportioned" and "majestic as a mountain" more than a coat. It is deep and introverted, and there is a vast world of men in it. The most classic coat image is Xu Wenqiang in Chow Yun Fat's Shanghai Beach. Brother Fa, who was wearing a black coat, charmed many girls, and at the same time made the men in the street put on their coats at once.