Love a person, first learn to speak well.

Love a person, first learn to speak well.

1, many feelings are ruined because of bad talks.

Many feelings are ruined because they can't talk well. Emotional problems, 80% because we can't communicate, always leave the bad state to our partner and the smiling face to outsiders. Scold your partner, say nothing, use your partner as a garbage station to vent your anger and tolerate your bad temper. Always losing his temper, always blowing his hair, never learning to be gentle.

It seems to be an outbreak area anytime and anywhere, and suddenly it is a desperate word.

2. Love means talking well.

Many feelings are destroyed because they can't speak well. Some feelings have survived the storm, but they can't stand the harsh tone and indifferent attitude. Has been silent. You asked, but ta didn't say; You said, ta won't come back. The days become silent day by day, and the mood draws to a close day by day. Love means speaking well: speaking well, speaking slowly and speaking lightly.

When your partner encounters grievances and difficulties, listen patiently instead of saying that you are wrong. If you love someone, you won't belittle ta casually.

3. Couples quarrel and need to talk it over.

In a love, face is not important, but partner is important. True temperament and disrespect are two different things, being outspoken and frank are two different things, and being uneducated and casual are two different things. Don't take speaking without considering the situation and other people's feelings as straightforward. Couples quarrel and need to talk it over. Don't say derogatory and hurtful words when quarreling, and don't always mention points/separations whether in love or marriage.

Let the other side compromise and agree that you are right. There is no meaning of winning or losing in feelings. It's important to cherish your partner. Don't ask questions first, don't criticize blindly, and don't use your willfulness and irrationality as a means to keep your partner.

4. In feelings, don't get angry casually.

Obviously, a hug can get things done, and there is no need to argue for hours. There is no need to explain a small complaint word by word, but a comforting word can smooth it out. Don't get angry casually in feelings. Knowing how to control your emotions and talk well can resolve an unnecessary quarrel. Whether in love or marriage, don't yell at people who love you.

Don't blame and blame each other when you encounter problems. I won't talk about you in public and I won't yell at you. I will protect your self-esteem, because if your partner doesn't value you, others will despise you. Maybe you really didn't mean it, but your bad mood and outspoken will consume the trust and enthusiasm between lovers.

5. Attitude determines emotional temperature.

The attitude of couples determines the temperature of feelings. A word can make people happy or sad, depending on how you say it. How much love, under the guise of being good for each other, hurts each other without saying two or three words. People who don't care about you are impatient to listen to you, and people who really love you are willing to talk to you.