What hidden rules do you need to know if you want to make friends with the big boss?

Life will inevitably meet many people who are better than us. Some people are startled when they see the big boss, while others pretend to be bad.

In fact, the best way is to respect their strengths and get along on an equal footing. If you can provide emotional value to big brother and have great potential, big brother will be willing to make friends with you.

How to make friends with big brothers?

There is an interesting phenomenon in love. There are often women who don't like men because they are too naive. Even if men are kind to women, men are self-motivated. A woman wants a mature man, but a mature man is beyond her control.

Later, such a woman went to an emotional counselor. The emotional counselor said: You need to give a man time to grow up with him, as long as he is good to you and self-motivated.

Men develop their potential later than women after graduation, and there is still a lot of room for improvement after marriage. You can create your future together.

A smart woman will choose a man who is similar to her age and has similar or slightly lower conditions, because she knows that men are likely to appreciate after marriage, and years are always gentler to men.

Just like this example, it is also true in friendship. You should believe in your potential and be neither humble nor supercilious. Let big brother see your future hope, and he will be willing to make friends with you and provide you with some help.

Recently, I accidentally added an emotional blogger with an annual income of over one million. I just praised her circle of friends the other day. On the third day, she sent a circle of friends who danced belly dancing. I left a message: What a coincidence, I also learned belly dancing. After studying for two years, belly dancing has made my hips and buttocks move more, which is not only good for losing weight and shaping, but also good for women's uterus.

Later, she chatted with me and established a link to the start of belly dancing. And she began to send praises and messages in my circle of friends, some about reading and some about emotional intelligence. She said I was on the same frequency as her.

Hobbies are always equal, and so are the three views. My opinion is that I have similar views on the same thing. You can understand why I like it or not.

There is also a friend in the official WeChat account who likes my article because I met him online. Later, she added WeChat, and I found that her official WeChat account has100000 followers. She once sent a circle of friends, a classic film list, a * * *, with ten movies.

They are Perfect World, Farewell My Concubine, Selfless, Cowboy Spring, Good Will Hunting, Stars on Earth, Godfather, Two Heavy Smokers, Godfather and Tide.

I saw eight movies at first sight, because I had never seen the waves and stars on the earth. I found that we have a common interest in watching classic movies, and then because of this, we became friends and often shared our favorite movies.

If you don't know anything, you can't be arrogant. People always think that what they don't know is very powerful and advanced. Therefore, you will be timid, you will feel inferior, and you will not know what to say.

How to be modest in front of the big boss? You should cultivate yourself before meeting the big boss. After meeting them, although you are not as good as them for the time being, you agree. You can have topics to talk about, such as dancing, books, movies, and opinions on marriage and love. ...

A friend who works as a designer complained to me that one of his friends asked him to help with the design, and then it was free. He thought that this time, he agreed, but the second time, he began to feel a little uncomfortable. After the third time, he told his friend directly, and then his friend called him stingy, and finally they turned against each other.

Seeing this, the little cute wants to say that in the world of adults, if you turn your face, you will turn your face. Haha, yes, there are no eternal friends, only eternal interests. When it comes to interests, some plastic friendships come out.

Meanwhile, don't trouble your friends easily. If you need a friend's help, things like work and money must be clear.

Maybe you need the help of friends who are better than you, but they will be busier than you. Don't bother with big and small things, but be sure to thank others appropriately after helping.

Big Boss hates ungrateful people and people who waste his time. You can ignore your time, but don't forget that there are still many people in the world who are making money at the speed of seconds.

A teacher said, we have been looking for two kinds of people all our lives: the first kind is the one who spurs you, guides you, leads you and finally makes you grow. This is the "father type".

The second is the person who tolerates you, affirms you, understands you and provides you with various emotional values. This is the "mother type".

Since we are not as powerful as Big Brother for the time being, we can't be "Dad" friends, but we are very suitable to be "Mom" friends.

Everyone needs to be cared for, affirmed and encouraged, so when you see a friend with a beautiful new hairstyle, you can praise it, you can bless it in a circle of friends, and if you have some minor difficulties, you can help.

A male friend of mine always pays attention to the dynamics of his goddess, praises everything, and occasionally comments on his goddess; When the goddess was unhappy, he comforted her and told her jokes.

Two months later, the goddess finally became interested in him and began to chat with him. Then they often talked and finally became his girlfriend.

Friendship is the same, but there are some things to pay attention to when practicing with the opposite sex. If you just want your male god to be your friend, don't be ambiguous and keep your distance.

Everyone can't resist someone who always cares about you, no matter whether this person is a friend or a lover. Big bosses have their advantages, but they are also people.

When they are sad, he usually doesn't bother people who are better than him. At this time, his first thought is "mom" friends, and his first thought is friends who care about him but are not so good for the time being.

So this is your chance. The value you give her is to provide emotional value, which is also very, very important.

Of course, you are the core of everything, and all the people you can reach are one grade higher than you, that is, people who are better than you, which is what I call "big boss"

How to make friends with big brothers? Mentality first point: neither humble nor supercilious second point link: * * * Same hobbies third point taboo: easy to cause trouble fourth point value: provide appropriate emotional value.

Finally, I hope that the babies who read this article will constantly enrich themselves, make friends with this big brother, and then become the next big brother.

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