Talk about the feeling of having three children: regret.

I have given birth to three children now, and I am in my forties. The older one is 14 years old, and the younger one is 5 years old.

The first child is a daughter. With the expectation of the whole family, she gave birth to a second child without thinking. The second child is a son. I don't feel anything, but the whole family is happy to say that their children are all complete. I think I have finished my task on the way to having a baby, and I won't be born again.

A few months after giving birth to the second child, I want to put an intrauterine device. My husband said that it is not good to put this thing, not only because of gynecological diseases, but also because my husband is a long-distance truck driver and is often away from home. Pay attention to it. I didn't put an intrauterine device.

Although I don't have much sex life, I pay attention to it. But the unfortunate thing happened. When my son was one and a half years old, I was pregnant. I decided to have an abortion and my whole family supported me.

I felt terrible after aborting the baby. I'm a little superstitious. I think whether he is born or not, he is a life and my child, but I killed him myself. I want to find someone

Give him a break, but my husband says I'm too superstitious and totally unnecessary. In the end, it will go away.

I still want to put the IUD, but when I said it, no one was around and they advised me not to put it. I didn't put it in the end.

I am pregnant, and after more than a year, I am pregnant again. Because I had an abortion once, I don't want to have another abortion this time. My husband also supports me, and my in-laws don't object to my having three children. So I gave birth to three children.

During pregnancy, many people advised me not to have children, just abort. I don't want to have three children either, but I can't bear to abort and dare not fight. In my hesitation and trembling, I gave birth to three children and a daughter. I think how many people, like me, don't want to have a second child or a third child, but they are reluctant to have an abortion because of unexpected pregnancy?

After giving birth to the second daughter, the eldest daughter basically sees more in-laws. I mainly focus on two small problems. I have no feelings about it. Tired is certain, but looking at the smiling faces of children, I don't think there is anything wrong.

But what changed me completely was that this year, I was wrong. I shouldn't have three children. If I do it again, I won't have a second child.

Since the end of last year, the eldest daughter in junior high school has become very disobedient because of the lack of parents' care and companionship and the integrity of adolescence. She stopped communicating with me, indulged in online games and online dating, and her good grades began to decline. I began to be tired of school this year, and now I don't go to school. I'm clamoring all day to go to other places to meet netizens and work in other places. My husband and I refused to listen to any persuasion.

She is only 14 years old. We can't accept going to school, meeting netizens or working in other places. My husband and I have been very sad all day and are at a loss.

I really regret it now. Why should I have three children? I was really thoughtless before I was born. The child really wants to be born and can't be born. If you give birth to a child, you are responsible for her. Now most people are sober and won't be born without thinking. Although the country has opened the second child policy for many years, there are not many corresponding policies. Not as clear-headed as I am They not only fought for a second child, but also dared to fight for a third child.

Now I'm worried when I look at the two little ones. I'm afraid I'll be disobedient when I grow up. If I could do it all over again, I would only have one child and have no courage to have a second one. Not to mention how hard it is to raise a child and how much it costs. I can't stand the disobedience of adolescence.

Regret! How much have you had to drink？