You can be kind, but you must have some edge

You can be kind, but you must bring some edge

Don’t be too kind, don’t be too generous, and don’t be too capable

As time goes by, people You will feel that everything you do is as it should be

If you can't learn the skill of tearing it apart, you will always be a soft persimmon to others who can be used and thrown away after use

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In the workplace, there is a kind of person who is the most miserable, a soft persimmon, and being too kind is not a good thing.

Rebecca works in a foreign trade company. She is good at everything, but she is a little too kind and likes to take things into her own hands. She would complain privately, but when someone asked for help, she would take it anyway.

Hey, that's not your job, why should you always be a good person? Xiao Lin, who joined the company with her, reminded her countless times.

Well, Linda was a little busy, and I was free anyway, so it didn’t matter. Rebecca smiled helplessly and started to get busy again.

In the workplace, you must learn to say no, otherwise you will really suffer. Many times, some people simply don’t deserve your kindness to them.

After finally getting through the year-end performance appraisal, Rebecca thought she could get an award or something because of her good popularity? That's great. You usually only do good deeds, but you do them when your boss can't see you. The consequences can be imagined. If you do good deeds and show kindness, who will take you seriously?

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As for me, I am not very kind, but a bit sharp. I have always been like this.

In 2014, I worked as a planner in a company. My boss was a woman. She was a nice person, but she had a bit of a ladylike temper. Her office is next door to mine, and you can often hear various crackling noises in the office. After a while, books were being thrown, and there were various knocking sounds on the table.

A group of friends and I pretended to be invisible. Lose your temper, feel free to lose your temper, as long as you don't take it out on me. This is good, but one day it will hit the muzzle of the gun.

When I held an event, I sent a planning proposal in the morning. I had promised to do so, but later regretted that I had not done so. It's okay, who makes you the boss? Sister, continue to change. All materials are ready for activities. She was in a bad mood and scolded all her colleagues in the marketing department. I didn't know why, so I went to report on the usual activities, just in time for her to lose her temper.

Looking at the scene, it was an angry look, and the book was thrown over with a snap. Whoever you want to lose your temper with, go home and do it. Don't think that everyone is a soft persimmon. She got angry immediately, cursed and cursed, her veins popped out, she picked up her phone and threw it to the ground.

I sneered and left the office directly. Don't reason with fools, don't argue with emotional people.

In the workplace, you can fight gracefully. You can be kind, but you must be sharp and not allow others to bully you.

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In love, there is a kind of person who can never be forgiven for cheating on a man or woman.

My friend Xiaoya has been in love with her boyfriend for two years, and they fell in love when they were in college. Her boyfriend is from an aerospace university, and Xiaoya is a normal student from the university next door.

I thought the two of them were quite in love with each other, but after meeting with Xiaoya one day, I finally understood her difficulties. Xiaoya secretly logged into her boyfriend's QQ account, checked the chat history, and found that her boyfriend was particularly ambiguous with a girl. That kind of ambiguity is completely beyond the normal relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend.

Xiaoya angrily argued with her boyfriend, but her boyfriend blamed Xiaoya for invading his privacy. Later, they broke up, but the man still admitted that it was a mental affair.

This is great, the man knelt down and begged Xiaoya for forgiveness. Xiaoya was too soft-hearted after all and didn't break up. I can't say anything about this relationship. I just hope that her boyfriend can be more responsible and not waste Xiaoya's sincerity.

Before I was there, it had nothing to do with me how you loved me. But as long as I'm here, I can't tolerate any sand in my eyes. Your past has nothing to do with me, but from the moment you are with me, please forget everything.

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Infidelity incidents in the entertainment industry have always been a hot topic.

I still remember that when the article was derailed, Ma Yili posted a sentence that should be respected and cherished. Many people said Ma Yili, you are too generous and you are a good woman. Almost overnight, all kinds of marketing articles were popular and cherished, and Ma Yili became the so-called good woman in the eyes of most people.

To be honest, I am quite disdainful. I don't believe that a woman can tolerate this, unless she no longer loves him. Of course, we, the spectators, don’t need to say anything about other people’s affairs. Now things have been quiet for several years, Yao Di has also begun to make a busy comeback, and Wen Zhang has also become a director.

In the entertainment industry, it has always been the case that after the hot spot has passed, who still remembers whom, and all kinds of whitewashing methods have begun again. But in fact, something happens, and it is like a mark that is firmly imprinted on your mind. What happens happens, and you can never go back to the past.

As a woman, I don’t appreciate Ma Yili’s so-called kindness. Of course, this is other people’s business and has nothing to do with me.

I still remember that Alyssa Chia’s ex cheated on her. On the show, Alyssa Chia burst into tears and accused her ex-husband Sun Zhihao, which also started an unprecedented feud. But fortunately, he had a tough attitude and used legitimate means to decisively get rid of the relationship with the scumbag. At the same time, he also made a smooth comeback, gained his own love, and had a beautiful little daughter.

Alyssa Chia is undoubtedly happy, but it is conceivable that if she tolerated it kindly, her life would be bleak.

Wang Baoqiang’s divorce case continues to ferment. To tell the truth, I really feel for the baby. Some netizens commented that as a grown man, don’t get into trouble with women. Some people are not worth letting go unless they destroy yourself. Wang Baoqiang's fault was that he was too kind, and he was too indifferent to trust a woman who was a snake and a scorpion. For this person, you can love others, but you must love yourself unreservedly.

I sincerely hope that the baby’s matter can be resolved soon. People who have done too much evil will eventually have their retribution. I believe in one sentence, everything is reincarnated. If you have caused too many troubles, you will definitely receive the punishment you deserve. To a certain extent, Ma's little hoof has ruined his life. People should not be too greedy. Sometimes money is really not a good thing.

People, I have to say that happiness is often in your own hands, and being kind to yourself is the only way to be responsible for yourself. You don't deserve people's sympathy if you just tolerate it. Why? It's your own fault and has nothing to do with others.

People, living in this world, being too kind is definitely not a good thing. You can be kind, but please bring some edge.

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Quotes about kindness

1. If beauty is a letter of recommendation, then kindness is a credit card. ——Bulwer Lishun

2. Since kindness is a rare pearl in history, kind people are almost better than great people. ——Hugo

3. Seeing his sincerity will open the door to him. ——"Han Shi Wai Zhuan"

4. Sincerity is the highest virtue in life. ——Chaucer

5. Sincerity is an openness of the soul. ——La Rochefoucauld

6. Simplicity touches my heart more than clever words. ——Shakespeare

7. When a person's words and deeds are inconsistent, it is completely bad, which will lead to hypocrisy. ——Lenin

8. When people are good, there are many good things but not enough. ——Yang Wanli

9. The touching warmth of human kindness can heal the wounds of the soul and body. ——Rozov

10. Sincerity is the road to honor. ——Zola

11. Facts are often not as beautiful as words. ——Lu Xun

12. When a person is in a happy mood, he appears kind. ——Golky

13. It is better to be more virtual than less real. ——Chen Fu

14. One benefit of kind behavior is that it makes the human soul noble and enables it to perform better behaviors. ——Rousseau

15. There are all good things in the world, and many good words to say, but it is rare to find a true word. ——Shen Juyun

16. Among all moral qualities, kindness is the most needed in the world. ——Russell

17. A kind heart is gold. ——Shakespeare

18. An honest person must be trustworthy to himself, and his final support is sincerity. ——Emerson

19. Honest people never regret their honesty. ——Tofuler

20. If you remove one evil, you will cultivate ten good things. ——"The Biography of Bi Shi'an, History of the Song Dynasty"

21. Those who are kind will be kind to others.

——Guan Zhong

22. Honesty is the most touching thing. ——Shakespeare

23. The kinder a person is, the less aware they are of other people’s bad intentions. ——Mile

24. The truth may be sad, but it is better than a promise. ——Vazaev

25. If I ask others to be honest, I must be honest myself. ——Dostoyevsky

26. We all know that there is day at night, and we all know that there is land on the boat, but it is just "knowing", not "real feeling". ——Feng Zikai

27. Truly talented people are always kind, frank, straightforward and never reserved. ——Balzac

28. A heart-to-heart conversation is a display of the soul. ——Wen Caverin

29. The source of goodness is in the heart. If you dig it, it will gush out. ——Aurelius

30. Kind actions have the benefit of ennobling the human soul and enabling it to perform better actions.

31. What is money compared to a pure conscience? ——Hardy

32. Those who are sincere and immovable will cultivate themselves upright, and manage affairs with justice. ——Yang Shi

33. Truth and simplicity are precious qualities of genius. ——Stanislavski

34. Being honest but ignorant is weak and useless; however, being knowledgeable but not honest is dangerous and terrible. ——Johnson

Inspirational quotes about kindness

Inspirational quotes about kindness

1. Friendship is like a bright light in the past life, illuminating It penetrated my soul and gave my life a little luster. Ba Jin

2. Do not take out medals from your own bag and lend them to your friends. This is an insult to him. Rabindranath Tagore

3. Those who cannot conquer each other with warmth cannot conquer them with beatings. Chekhov

4. Friendship is two hearts treating each other sincerely, rather than one heart beating another heart. Lu Xun

5. Honesty, like all our sentiments, should be divided into two categories: negative and positive. Negative honesty is honesty when there is no chance of getting rich. Positive honesty is being tempted every day without being tempted. Balzac's "Uncle Bangs"

6. If a person has no conscience, he will not be able to survive even if he is extremely clever! Gorky's "My University"

7. If everything is good, everything is beautiful. "A Study of Tolstoy's Works"

8. Don't do evil because it's small, and don't do good because it's small. Chinese Jin Chen Shou

9. Friendship is the same as the fragrance of flowers. It is better to have a lighter fragrance. The lighter the fragrance, the more attached it is and the longer it lasts. Xi Murong

10. Help local friends when they are in trouble, but do not gossip until the situation is hopeless. Greek Aesop

11. If a person abandons his loyal friends, he is abandoning his most precious life. Sophocles

12. It is unwise to make a big deal out of someone who has been slandered. Unless there is some great benefit to be gained by publicizing it, slander can rarely withstand the wear and tear of silence. . "The Autobiography of Mark Twain"

13. Sincere concern makes people feel as happy as a bird in the morning greeting the rising sun in spring. Gorky, Soviet Union

14. Books need nests, spiders need webs, and people need friendship. British Blake

15. When you explain this issue, you must not distort it or make it far-fetched; let alone rely on your own shrewdness to knowingly commit the crime and make your soul guilty. Shakespeare's "Henry V"

16. The laws of conscience are often different from the laws of scripture. Tagore's "Sacrifice"

17. Love and kindness are happiness and truth, the only possible happiness and truth in the world. Romain Rolland's "The Biography of Tolstoy"

18. The voice of people pouring out their heart is gentler and more real. It can be absolutely trusted, and it can be absolutely certain that in addition to giving people the most cordial advice, it will also Nothing else. Dickens's "A Christmas Story"

19. Conscience is a thing that condemns people, which is enough to scare me. This is true for adults as well as children.

Dickens' "Great Expectations"

20. Kindness is not a science, but a behavior. Farroman Roland

21. Eating is beneficial and harmless only when you are hungry. Similarly, it is beneficial and harmless to interact with others only when you are loving. Leo Tolstoy

22. Since we are all mortals, it is better to keep friendship at a moderate level and not to get involved too deeply in each other's spiritual life. Euripides Friendship can never be a transaction; on the contrary, it requires the most complete sense of disinterest. Moroa

23. Love yourself last and cherish those who hate you. Honesty will win you more benefits than corruption. Shakespeare's "Henry VIII"

24. Kind-hearted people and imaginative people are easier to gather than cold and cruel people. Johnson

25. Everyone has stains on their conscience, but most people don't care about this embellishment on their souls, just like wearing a starched shirt. Gorky "Water and its Significance in Nature and Human Life"

26. True friendship can only be based on the combination of similar temperaments. Beethoven

27. A benevolent person is invincible in the world. Mencius of the Warring States Period in China

28. If you want to live a happy life, pray to God, and be an honest person, then you must keep your promises. Dickens' "Bleak House"

29. A friendship that grows inch by inch like an oak tree is more reliable than a friendship that suddenly jumps out like a melon vine. Charlotte Bront?

30. Everything about a person should be beautiful: face, clothes, mind and thoughts. Russian Chekhov

31. Friendship is reliable in other things, but cannot be trusted in love; so lovers use their own lips and tongue. Whoever is alive, let him convey his feelings himself, and never ask others to do it for him; because beauty is a witch, and under her magic, loyalty will dissolve in passion. Shakespeare

32. Wine is a colorless liquid flame that quickly and accurately burns out all the human things in the human heart. Gorky's "The Chimney Sweeper"

33. If you lack sincerity in doing things, or are reluctant to take action, then even if you have great ability, you will not achieve much. Dickens' "Bleak House"

34. True friendship requires a certain distance. When there is distance, there will be respect; when there is respect, friendship will last forever. You Jin

35. The more goodness there is in life, the more interesting life itself will be. The two go hand in hand and complement each other. Tolstoy's "The Death of Ivan Ilych"

36. Showing disdain for other people's happiness is an insult to others. Margaret Yourcenar

37. The broadest thing in the world is the ocean, wider than the ocean is the sky, and wider than the sky is the human mind. Victor Hugo from France

38. If you want to get help in times of trouble, you should treat others with kindness on weekdays. If Sadie abandons his loyal friends, he abandons his most precious life. Sophocles

39. The best effort of friendship is not to show a friend our flaws, but to make him see his own flaws. La Rochefoucauld cannot take out your heart without knowing the details of the other party. Balzac

40. The greatest effort of friendship is not to show a friend our flaws, but to make him see his own flaws. La Rochefoucauld cannot take out your heart without knowing the other party's details. Balzac

41. Friendship is reliable in other things, but cannot be trusted in love; so lovers use their own lips and tongue. Whoever is alive, let him convey his feelings himself, and never ask anyone else to do it for him; for beauty is a witch, and under her magic, loyalty will dissolve in passion. Shakespeare

42. Friendship is heaven, without it it is like hell; friendship is life, without it it means death. Wilmorris

43. For me, the meaning of life is to put yourself in other people's shoes, worry about other people's worries, and enjoy other people's happiness. American Einstein

44. Kind-hearted people and imaginative people are easier to gather than cold and cruel people. Johnson

45. Be a kind person and seek happiness for the people.

Gorky of the Soviet Union

46. Friendship neither requires slaves nor allows rulers. Friendship likes equality. Gonchakov

47. Friendship is often formed by a common interest that is easier for two people to realize than one person. This relationship is pure only when mutual satisfaction is achieved. Strindberg

48. You must be true to yourself; just as there is night before there is day, be true to yourself so that you will not deceive others. Shakespeare's "Hamlet"

49. Only a broad and intelligent heart can always discover the love of friendship. Heine

50. True friendship requires a certain distance. When there is distance, there will be respect; when there is respect, friendship will last forever. You Jin

51. Love can make the world turn. British Dickens

52. When a person is a real person, he should maintain an equal distance between bluster and affectation. Neither boastful nor pretentious. Victor Hugo's "Les Misérables"

53. Goodness is the sunshine of the spiritual world. French Hugo

54. Don’t believe in the reproach of conscience, it will take you very far. Unreasonable loyalty falls like a staircase in a basement. Go down one level, two levels, and now just one level, into darkness. The wise ones turn around and go up, while the naive ones stay there. Victor Hugo's "The Laughing Man"

55. A small candle, how far its light shines! A good deed, like this candle, shines brightly in this sinful world. Shakespeare's "The Merchant of Venice"

56. In the past life, friendship was like a bright light that illuminated my soul and gave my life a little brilliance. Ba Jin

57. Uninvited guests are most welcome only after they say goodbye. Shakespeare

58. Whoever has encountered a friendly heart once in the world and experienced the state of sincerity and sincerity will have tasted the happiness of heaven and earth. Roland Romain, France

59. You have gained a long and lofty reputation for your honesty. Of course, you are proud of it. It is your treasure among treasures, and it is simply your darling. mark? Twain's "The Man Who Corrupted Hedleyburg"

60. As long as you are pure and honest, which always means diligence, and think more about others, you will be sure of success in life. American Mark Twain

61. A pious beginning brings a happy ending. Victor Hugo's "Luybras"

62. A kind heart is the sun. Victor Hugo's "The Man Who Laughs"

63. Friendship, the mysterious union of the soul! The beautifier of life and the consolidater of society! Robert Brahay

64. The human heart is a vast and boundless world. When people face conscience examination of their ambitions and daily actions, they often feel dejected! Victor Hugo's "Les Misérables"

65. If anyone wants to be helped in times of trouble, he should be lenient to others on weekdays. Sadie

66. Since we are all mortals, it is better to keep friendship at a moderate level and not to be too involved in each other's spiritual life. Euripides Friendship can never be a transaction; on the contrary, it requires the most complete sense of disinterest. Moroa

67. Among all moral qualities, good nature is the most needed in the world. Rosseau, England

68. Showing disdain for other people's happiness is bullying others. Margaret Yourcenar

69. Friendship is often formed by a common interest that is easier to realize for two people than for one person. This relationship can only be achieved when mutual satisfaction is achieved. Be pure. Strindberg

70. Kind-hearted and loyal people with loving hearts continue to bring happiness to the world. Mark Twain "The Gilded Age"

71. A handshake among thousands of people makes my sleeves last three years. China's Qing Dynasty Gong Zizhen

72. Some people believe that honesty is always the best policy. In fact, this is superstition; sometimes pretending to be honest is several times better than being truly honest. Mark Twain's "A Journey Around the Equator"

73. Do not take out medals from your own bag and lend them to your friends. This is an insult to him. Rabindranath Tagore

74. Cowardly friends will become the most ferocious enemies after betrayal. Esperance

75. Helping each other wholeheartedly and being intimate is the highest state of friendship.

Valois

76. Be a person who gives charcoal in cold weather and comfort in pain. Ba Jin, China

77. Friendship neither requires slaves nor allows rulers. Friendship likes equality. Gonchakov

78. Sympathy is the highest virtue among all morals. British Bacon

79. Choose your friends carefully, and change your friends even more carefully. Franklin

80. Homemade friendships last longer than purchased friendships. Reagan

81. Utility is the purpose of a machine and the basis for testing the value of the machine, while kindness is only the purpose and will of human beings. Rabindranath Tagore's "Nationalism"

82. A friendship that grows inch by inch like an oak tree is more reliable than a friendship that suddenly jumps out like a melon vine. Charlotte Bronte

83. Civilization is good, barbarism is evil; freedom is good, restraint is evil. But it is this kind of imaginary knowledge that eliminates the instinctive, happiest and original need for good in human nature. Tolstoy's "Lucerne"

Famous aphorisms about kindness

Kindness is the simplest essence of a person. Kindness is the basic quality of a person's interaction with others. Kindness is a person's basic quality. Even the excellent qualities of a nation, read famous sayings about kindness and learn to be a kind person.

Famous aphorisms about kindness

1. It is inevitable for a passionate person, especially a young person, to go too far; as long as you are kind-hearted, upright, and broad-minded, and can correct your judgment in time, It would be nice if you are not stubborn. ——Fu Lei

2. Melancholy belongs to kindness. People who have no melancholy may be very extraordinary, but they are not kind people after all. ——Liu Xinwu

3. People who do not have a strong hatred for ugliness will not have a strong attachment to goodness. ——Mao Dun

4. Kind things and beautiful things can reach an extreme. In a certain era and in a certain environment, the ultimate can be achieved. ——Sun Li

5. Knowing that there is good and evil is knowledge, discerning evil through aesthetic appreciation is the pattern, and doing good and eliminating evil is the result. ——Song Jiaoren

6. Among all moral qualities, kindness is the most needed in the world. ——Russell

7. Be a kind person and seek happiness for the masses. ——Gorky

8. The heart is too fragile and kind, and sometimes cannot be very honest. ——Romain Rolland

9. The most beautiful music of the soul is kindness. ——Romain Rolland

10. Kindness-this is one of the great qualities of a genius. ——Angel

11. Good intentions are born, but labor is also a pleasure. ——Yun Daiying

12. Without simplicity, kindness and truth, there would be no greatness. ——Leo Tolstoy

13. Without kindness, the true heartfelt warmth that one person gives to another, there can be no spiritual beauty. ——Suhomlinsky

14. In the beginning, human nature is good. ——"Three Character Classic"

15. Good will be rewarded with good, evil will be rewarded with evil. ——Spoken

16. Kindness is an excellent character, but it cannot be excessive, otherwise it will become dull. Nothing should be lost due to kindness. -Good Quotes and Quotes

17. Those who are kind to others will also be kind to others. ——Guan Zhong

18. Truly talented people are always kind, frank, straightforward and never reserved. ——Balzac

19. Kindness is a rare pearl in history, and kind people are almost better than great people. ——Hugo

20. Among all moral qualities, kindness is the most needed in the world. ——Russell

21. One benefit of kind behavior is that it makes the human soul noble and enables it to perform better behaviors. ——Rousseau

22. The kinder the person is, the less aware he is of other people’s bad intentions. ——Mile

23. If beauty is a letter of recommendation, then kindness is a credit card. ——Bulwer Yili Shun

24. The source of goodness is in the heart. If you dig it, it will gush out. ——Aurelius

25. Generally kind-hearted people always like to think the best of others, always think of people better than they actually are, and always like to exaggerate their benefits.

For such people, later disillusionment is difficult, especially when they feel responsible. ——Dostoyevsky

26. When a person is in a happy mood, he appears kind. ——Golky

27. The touching warmth of human kindness can heal the wounds of the soul and body. ——Rozov

28. Kindness is a universal language that can make the blind feel it and the deaf smell it. ——Mark Twain

29. Among all moral qualities, kindness is the most needed in the world. -- (British) Russell

30 People are good, but they are not enough. --(Song Dynasty) Yang Wanli

31. Kindness and moral character are both like gems and metals. The two set off each other and add brilliance. --(UK) Bernard Shaw

32. Kindness is not a science, but a behavior. --(France) Romain Rolland

A collection of famous quotes about kindness

Those who are kind to others will also be kind to others. ——Guan Zhong

Truly talented people are always kind, frank, straightforward and never reserved. ——Balzac

Since kindness is a rare pearl in history, kind people are almost better than great people. ——Hugo

Of all moral qualities, good nature is the most needed in the world. ——Russell

Kind actions have the benefit of ennobling the human soul and enabling it to perform better actions. ——Rousseau

The kinder the person, the less aware of the bad intentions of others. ——Mile

If beauty is a letter of recommendation, then kindness is a credit card. ——Bulwer Yilishun

The source of goodness is in the heart. If you dig it, it will gush out. ——Aurelius

Generally kind people always like to think the best of others, always think of people better than they actually are, and always like to exaggerate their benefits. For such people, later disillusionment is difficult, especially when they feel responsible. ——Dostoyevsky

When a person is in a happy mood, he appears kind. ——Gorky

The touching warmth of human kindness can heal the wounds of the soul and body. ——Rozov

Kindness is a universal language that can make the blind feel and the deaf smell. ——Mark Twain

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