"Mom, it is not easy for women to have children. Be nice to my wife. " What does it tell us?

The problem of estrangement between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is almost a problem that every family will encounter. As the saying goes, behind every estranged mother-in-law, there is an inactive man.

As a mother's son, a wife's husband and a man, speaking will play an important role in the harmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

For the mother-in-law, her son's happiness is her own happiness. When a daughter-in-law is kind to her son, her mother-in-law will naturally be kind to her daughter-in-law.

Similarly, for the daughter-in-law, if the mother-in-law regards herself as a family and does not favor her son, the daughter-in-law will naturally fulfill her obligations and responsibilities as a child. Mother-in-law is good to daughter-in-law, and daughter-in-law will be good to mother-in-law in the future.

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Xiaoyan has been married to the Liu family for five years, and has never raised a child before, which makes her mother-in-law from the countryside who is already dissatisfied with Xiaoyan even more complain about her.

In fact, Xiaoyan's husband put forward the idea of not having children at present. He thinks he should focus on his work now. After all, the pressure of having children is too great, and Xiaoyan also supports her husband.

The couple have been hiding from their mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law who is in the dark still thinks that her daughter-in-law has physical problems and has repeatedly asked to go to the hospital for examination.

After being told by her mother-in-law several times that "hens can't lay eggs", Xiaoyan finally couldn't help it, telling her husband that she wanted children, and her husband agreed.

Not long after, Xiaoyan was pregnant, and now her mother-in-law is beautiful. Her attitude towards her daughter-in-law has taken a 180 degree turn. Her daughter-in-law is short all day and won't do any work for fear of getting angry.

Mother-in-law beat about the bush and asked if the baby in her belly was male or female. In fact, my son and daughter-in-law knew that there was a girl in their bellies, but Xiaoyan was afraid to tell her mother-in-law.

Because my husband has long mentioned that his mother is patriarchal, if he knew that he was pregnant with a girl, it is estimated that he would not take care of his daughter-in-law so wholeheartedly.

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The matter was kept secret until the baby was born. Xiaoyan was delivered by caesarean section. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law turned black when she saw that she was a girl. My mother-in-law didn't even hug and didn't say a word.

Xiaoyan went home for confinement, but her mother-in-law didn't wait on her. And asked her to change the baby's diaper and cook. She also said coldly, "Get out of bed and eat quickly."

Xiaoyan said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, my wound still hurts a little. I can't move. Please ... "

"Now the little girl is how to return a responsibility? When I first gave birth, I didn't have your qualifications. I have given birth to five children, and I have never been so melodramatic as you. You are not a child now, you have become a mother. I made you soup. Won't you come down and drink for yourself? Shall I take it to your bedside? "

Xiaoyan was so wronged that she burst into tears when she heard this. She struggled to get up, ready to get up. At this time, her husband just came home, held Xiaoyan down and helped her lie down.

My husband has been eating out at noon, and he just came back to get a piece of material at noon today. He clearly heard everything his mother said. He was very angry and stared at her and said, "Mom, how can you say that about Xiaoyan! She gave birth to a daughter for our family and gave so much. What's wrong with you serving her Don't always talk about your time, your time, now is now, and the past is the past. It's not easy to have a baby. Be nice to my wife. She will be filial to you when you are old. "

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The mother-in-law didn't expect her son to blame herself. She stood there for a long time. She also felt that she had done something wrong. She worked hard to make soup for her. As a result, she finally fell ill. She was resented by her daughter-in-law and blamed by her son. She's not alone inside and out.

She was very dissatisfied and muttered, "I'm used to it. When you get used to it, see if she still listens to you. "

After that, she went to the kitchen to fill the soup. Xiaoyan said to her husband, "Otherwise, I will go to my parents' home for a few days and come back when I am well."

The husband said, "What are you talking about? Where can you travel in your body? " ? Don't worry, I'll have a good talk with my mother and don't hold a grudge against her. My mother wants a son so badly. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, and her heart is not bad. I will persuade her to take good care of you. We are all a family, and there will be no more disharmony. "Xiaoyan nodded.

A woman who marries someone else's house, leaves the home where she has lived for decades, leaves the company of her parents and relatives, and comes to a strange family is definitely insecure. Her husband has become her only reliance.

A strong woman will actively strive for her position in her husband's family, while a strong woman will rely entirely on luck and accept her fate. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should consider the problem from her point of view, instead of suppressing it blindly. After all, they are all family members, and the daughter-in-law also carries on the family line and dedicates her youth. Shouldn't she be respected?

As my son said in this article, it is not easy for women to have children, so they should be cared for. Now the mother-in-law is a little nicer to her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law will keep her kindness in mind. When the mother-in-law is old, the daughter-in-law will be filial to her. This is the proper temperature for a home.