Young man, should you get married or buy a house first?

? Buying a house first or getting married first is an eternal question in China. China's mother-in-law, in particular, is simply the help of China real estate, which directly pushes up the housing prices in China! Therefore, China's mother-in-law should be awarded a high certificate of real estate.

? In my opinion, whether to buy a house or get married first depends on the specific situation. Like now, I haven't found anyone yet, and I'm going to get married on a blind date in the future, and I'm sure my long-term career plan is to work and settle in Xiamen. I just want to say that in the future, find someone with similar ability to buy a house and pay together. Or if there are conditions at home, do me a favor and pay the down payment together. Although it is realistic to say this, we live in this realistic society and have to be realistic, because once you get married, you will find that you will face many practical problems. Sometimes, the real problem is to force people to death.

? If you don't buy a house before marriage and young people do proper jobs, the working class can't save the full amount in Xiamen at all. Throughout these years, it is impossible for wages to rise above house prices, no matter which city you are in, it is simply an iron law. Moreover, if the young couple both work in Xiamen and don't have a house, they have been renting a house and running around without a stable living environment. They are worried that the landlord will take back the house, the rent will rise and all kinds of things will be worried. Nothing will happen without children. What if you have children? Giving birth to children is very troublesome, because children have to have a stable growth environment if they want to study. Moreover, in Xiamen, in the future, children must have Xiamen hukou to settle down, and then they can go to public schools and receive better education. Therefore, the house is very important. Moreover, if you let your child follow you all the time, he will feel unstable during the critical period of his growth, and the child will feel insecure, lose a fixed circle of friends, and there will be no brothers and sisters who know the roots from childhood, which is not conducive to the growth of the child. Children will become suspicious and unhappy.

In addition, buying a house first is more stressful, forcing you to make progress, so you will work hard to make progress. I think this is very good. Young people, there is motivation when there is pressure, and they will get better slowly.

However, if I have a boyfriend now, and I am very optimistic about this man, he is also an enterprising, sensible and capable person, but his family does not have the ability to buy a house, and he does not have so much money to buy a house at this stage, then I will not insist on buying it. I will wait until he has the ability, support his work and trust him.