Talk about people who are afraid of things.

Tangke and Keke

Many people are afraid of offending anyone, saying the wrong thing and turning against others all their lives. I've been afraid of this and that all my life, and everyone is equal. Turn your face when you should, and have a temper when you have a temper. If you hold it back, you will only let others push your luck. Sometimes, if you turn your back, you will get the respect of others. Don't be afraid of others saying that you have a bad temper. Don't be afraid to turn against others. The world is bustling for profit, and the world is bustling for profit. There are no eternal enemies, only eternal interests.

A friend works as a sales manager in a company. The sales manager of the company will have one assistant, and the busy sales manager will have two assistants. My friend is also a busy sales manager. On the basis of the original assistant, the company provided her with an assistant to share her busy work and help her with auxiliary work. The problem lies in the assistant she added later. She used to be a friend of the general manager of the company. Her boss likes to let employees of the company introduce friends to work in their company, and it is only for women. This friend of the general manager was recruited in this way. He has worked in the company for a long time and has always been a friend of the general manager. He always feels superior, and he dare not take five or six thousand a month. Maybe the boss of the company saw that she got paid for nothing, so he transferred her from the original vacant post and assigned her to my friend as an assistant.

But she didn't have the consciousness of being an assistant, thinking that she wouldn't dare to get paid for nothing in her original position! She was wrong. When the assistant is busy, she still has work, such as making forms, making statistics and signing for goods. But at the age of 34, she can't even do computer forms, and she collapsed when she got such a job. Even if someone who can make a form can input data for at least an hour, she can't. Teaching by hand for two or three hours made her feel that the workload had increased countless times at once. In fact, she made a table at the end of the day.

Such a person, she has no choice but to complain to the general manager's friend that she is too hard on her. Perhaps the Excellence of friends led to the general manager's jealousy and fear of being replaced, so he picked up his assistant and went to gossip with the boss. As a result, the boss told my friend everything the assistant told him. My friend laughed it off at first, thinking that the assistant was several years older than her, and it was the first time to do this job as an assistant. It was understandable to complain. But my friend's concession made the assistant feel even worse. He kept talking about a little work, and my friend couldn't resist his good temper. Moreover, my friend has always had a bad temper with himself and others, so he patted the table directly and said to her, "Don't tell the boss directly if you have any opinions. You are so big and don't want to work, and I don't want you. "

The assistant really thinks this unit is necessary for her. She really rushed to the boss's office without knocking. She ran to the boss and said, "Either give me a raise or find another assistant." The boss was surprised at her sudden appearance. The boss looked at her for a while and said, "I'll choose the third way, you go, and I'll give you two more months." She immediately panicked: "I didn't mean to." The boss said, "Go out and call your manager first." Then she left despondently, asked my friend to go to the boss's office and asked my friend to intercede for her. If I know today, why should I know? The boss told my friend about this assistant and asked my friend how to solve it. My friend gave her a chance out of kindness. Now that the assistant is working with peace of mind, he no longer holds his identity, let alone his qualifications.

There's nothing wrong with losing your temper if people don't get angry and treat you like a kitten. If something happens, you can lose your temper at will. This assistant is just losing his temper. If you have the right temper, you can play the role of hitting a snake seven inches. My friend, after losing his temper, pushed the problem to the boss. Finally, he treated his assistant kindly, which not only solved the problem, but also established his own prestige. Not afraid of things, not afraid of offending people, not afraid of losing your temper. Your fear will make you weaker. It is better to face it bravely than to be afraid.

Well, that's the end of Keke's story tonight. I will write your story. I'm Keke. Good night and sweet dreams! Welcome to pay attention to WeChat official account: Keke's story