What's the fun of life without playing the glory of the king and dating?

I don't know which eldest brother's joke it was, but I copied it verbatim.

Yesterday, a former student asked me: Teacher, don't you have a boyfriend? "no!"

"Teacher, I'll take you to play games!" ? "Oh, I won't!"

"Then if you don't play the glory of the king and don't talk about your boyfriend, what fun is there in life?"

2.

I remember a story.

When I was at school, I ate in the dormitory. It was a good time for everyone to drink three rounds. I wonder who's here: why don't we tell a story about you and him in high school?

Take the first step forward:

I am a repeat student. When I got the results of the college entrance examination in the first year, I decided to repeat it. At the moment I decided to repeat my studies, my first thought was to go back to my alma mater and go to Class 4, because Class 4 had him.

When I was a sophomore, I was forced to repeat the grade because of mistakes. But in my mind, he has always been a good student and was harmed by some bad people, so he can't stay in the original class and can only be demoted by one grade.

I didn't know him very well when I was in class. I occasionally say a word and smile at his shallow dimples, which is a bit shy. That's the beautiful feeling of lush life! You can't say you like it, and you can't say you don't like it.

At that time, I was a class cadre in my class. I heard that he was going to be expelled from the teacher, so I went to the joint monitor privately to ask the class teacher for help. Of course, it ended without results. On the day he left, I was particularly sad, a disappointment! The point is, I'm going to pretend to smile and send him away.

I remember it was self-study in the afternoon. My monitor and I helped him clear the table and sent him to Class 4 at the next level. Fortunately, it's not a transfer. On second thought, they all belong to the same school. It's nothing. It is good to meet at any time.

Later, I often received letters from him. Of course, I also asked around. I heard that the results are not bad. I think it's good for him, too. Anyway, his grades in the original class are not very satisfactory, and it's also a good choice for him to repeat the grade.

So, when the new semester arrived, I packed my schoolbag and walked to the door of their class with my schoolbag on my back. Naturally, he became my backstage. I always think his grades are good, but he doesn't do his homework on time every time. I'll bring it here to do it after I finish. In fact, he copied it almost every time. I turned to see him again. He was busy copying, and I never liked him from that moment on.

After that, we all laughed, and they were northern sisters, just decisive. As a repeat student, I can only use cold boiled water instead of wine to propose a toast. Maybe you will ask, what happened later? No later, now I went to the south, a graduate student in a 985 university, and the story continues.

I think, after laughing, we all have a kind of weakness, not for others but for the passage of time and ourselves. We will also think of things that we lost without hard work, such as not being admitted to a better university, not grasping love, and losing self and dignity. ...

Now think about our daily life, are there endless games, endless Korean dramas, endless ball games and endless takeaways? Platinum still has a hard way to be king, whether in the game or in your real life.

3.

Every time I pass by the door of an Internet cafe with my friends and look through the glass window at those people who are wearing headphones and waving so-called pride on the keyboard, I think only I can understand why they love the Internet cafe so much. It always attracts so many people.

Because I used to be one of them.

In the third year of high school, regardless of the teacher's trust, careless character had many good friends and began to drift with the flow and lost himself. Finally, the results of the college entrance examination came out, which disappointed everyone and exhausted everyone's trust and expectation, especially parents, so we didn't get along very well that holiday.

It was the first time I felt that I had failed in life, because I never let my parents worry about my grades since I was a child, because I was poor, so I knew. However, for the first time in my life, I failed in the important college entrance examination. In fact, I know this result very well in my heart, that is, I thoroughly understand the word "Heaven rewards diligence".

Senior three, we race against time every day, but what is the purpose of my race? We always try our best to get out of school, surf the Internet in Internet cafes, eat barbecues outside and sing in KTV. I stayed up late, reading novels instead of reading. The next day, I slept at my desk and didn't listen to the class. A pile of books blocked the front, thinking that the teacher could not see. I went to school to play basketball very late, and I didn't eat at dinner. I'm waiting for my day students to bring back their meals and eat in the self-study class. I thought I was the best in Chinese and English, so I didn't have to learn it, and I finally lost in a big mess. When I took the college entrance examination, I went home with 69 English.

Fortunately, we can do it again. But not everything can be done again. It always takes time and cost to do it again.

I remember that when I was studying again that year, there was no electricity at school one night, which happened to be the time for us to train for the comprehensive exam every Monday. At that time, all the students in the whole grade cried with joy. Of course, I relaxed for a few seconds, and then I immediately closed my heart. Everyone thought they could go back to rest. At this time, they received a notice from the grade leader: each class sent representatives to buy candles and then took the exam.

I heard the disappointment of many students. I sat quietly at the back of the classroom and thought, everyone is in college. Why are you still here? Why does it take you four years to do something that others can do well in three years? With the candle lit, I seem to be more sure of my next goal. Senior three is difficult, and senior four is even more difficult.

But this is my own way, and there is no reason to complain. It was also in that candlelight that I saw myself more clearly and understood that I was still doing a three-year simulation of the five-year college entrance examination there because of my play and work.

Even though many years have passed now, I can still see the exam clearly by candlelight. My eyes sparkled in the candlelight, and my heart was very clear and firm.

Some people say that interest is the best teacher, but I don't particularly agree. If interest is the best teacher, then shame is your coolest grandparents, because most of us should respect ourselves and save face.

Suhomlinski said a word:

In the end, the second college entrance examination didn't give me a chance to fight back, but it strengthened my belief that only paying can be rewarded. Finally, I exceeded one book for a few minutes, but I didn't even get two at first.

People will also make many choices along the way, seemingly harmless and seemingly relaxed. When to study abroad, when to start a new job, and whether to accept someone, those seemingly ordinary and bleak days are actually a great change in life.

20 12 has a very poisonous chicken soup:

Youth is the time to struggle. Past failures and wasted days have been pushing me forward.

4.

If it's just the glory of the king and her boyfriend in this life, what fun is there in this life? Everyone's home is their own. Don't lose yourself in love or in games.

I am 26 years old, unmarried and single.

Not hitting the glory of the king doesn't mean I hate the glory of the king. Instead, it can become a national entertainment because he has played games. It is often people at the top of the food chain who can see everything clearly. However, every one of us who is bound in the circle can only climb high and look far. Games are only a small part of life and should not take up too much time. Considering that a person's life span is only 900 months, can you still play comfortably here?

Not having a boyfriend doesn't mean we don't fall in love. On the contrary, we are all looking forward to that person and want to be better before meeting that person. It's not that I don't want to fall in love or get married, but that I'm afraid I won't meet someone who can accompany you for a lifetime. There is a saying, "Look forward to it as if he will come tomorrow, and live as if he will never come."

So, you must find something else to fill your life besides love. Not a fair blind date, nor a boastful man, but someone who can walk into each other's real life and you want to spend the rest of your life together.

Life really has a lot of fun. Go home to see your parents, take them to Beijing, and accompany them to sing a new schoolbag that you entered school. Go to a strange city, meet someone similar to you, leave a few words, maybe you will meet again in another city next time; Take a sunrise, watch a sunset, sunrise and sunset, four seasons, and several spring and autumn periods of life; Go to the cemetery, think about saying goodbye to life and death, and live well. ...

If you really want to play games, you may really look up at his face and flatter him at the class reunion in a few years. When you see something you like, reach into your pocket and touch the crumpled wallet. I have to give up. One day, your parents are old and you are living in a tight life. You can't afford their comfortable old age.

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