How do you feel when your loved one is about to leave?

I happened to experience this kind of thing a while ago. The feeling of a loved one who is about to leave is indescribable. There is pain, sadness, deep memories, fear, and even what I did and what I felt at the time. Everything you think will be different.

Talk about your life experiences

1. My uncle is in his 70s and spent his last period in the hospital due to terminal cancer. His family was exhausted from taking care of him, so my uncle He was accompanied by a caregiver. As relatives, we would often take the time to visit him. Every time my mother came back from a visit, she would cry and say how pitiful my uncle was, and that there was always someone passing away in the hospital bed next door.

Once my mother asked me to visit my uncle in the hospital, but I refused. My mother thinks I'm cruel, but it's not that I don't want to, it's just that I can't see the pain of the patient, especially the old man who is about to leave. My uncle passed away in a few days, but I don't regret not seeing him for the last time, because the image of his sunshine has always stayed in my mind, not the sickly one.

After my uncle left, he was taken back home to hold a funeral. At that time, I went to see my uncle off for the last time. I thought I could be strong. Unexpectedly, when I heard the sound of mourning music at the door, my eyes became red. When I walked inside and saw my uncle lying there peacefully, I couldn't control my emotions, and my tears burst down, and I cried bitterly along with the adults. , this kind of crying is involuntary, crying from the heart.

2. More than ten years ago, when grandma was about to pass away, our whole family hoped that she could be relieved soon. Because of the stroke, she had to stay in bed in pain for several years. She suffered more than anyone else. A fat person cannot move his whole body, and his skin is ulcerated in some places. Speaking of my feelings at that time, I really hoped that there would be ALS in this world.

So, family affection is a very delicate relationship. In just a few decades of life, if you can live in harmony with each other, you should cherish it. If you can't live in harmony with relatives, you should also try to find ways to ease it. Don't wait for others. It’s a pity when it’s gone.