Without heaven, life is beautiful, and only bitterness is sweet.

My brother's classmate W is not only handsome, but also bought a suite in downtown at a young age, and soon bought a car, leading a life envied by everyone. You know, buying a house is nothing new now, but it's great to be able to buy a house and a car at the same time without the help of your family. Everyone in my hometown said, "W's daughter-in-law is really lucky. Enjoy happiness with her!" The tone is full of sour taste.

Perhaps in their view, W's wife is just lucky to find such a good husband, but I know that things are really not as simple as others seem.

W didn't continue studying after failing in the college entrance examination, but chose to be a soldier in the army and work in the factory in the town after retiring. At that time, W was arrogant and thought highly of himself, and he didn't care about anything. Work is also anticlimactic, and changing jobs is as casual as changing clothes. It is conceivable that in the eyes of hometown people who have always regarded W as a practical standard, W is not recognized by everyone. Everyone regards him as an alien and tells him to the children as a negative textbook for being ignorant and ignorant.

Later, when W grew up, his family began to worry about his marriage. W's mother ran before and after, looking for a matchmaker to be W's matchmaker, but unfortunately she didn't succeed once. Actually, I can't blame anyone else. Imagine who would let his daughter marry an insecure person in the future.

Fortunately, there is a girl in the factory where W works. She has good features and a gentle personality. It stands to reason that such a girl is not short of people, but somehow, the girl is unmoved and has a soft spot for W. In this way, two lovers are interested in each other and have made a beautiful marriage.

If you think that the prince and princess live happily ever after, it is all wet. Fairy tales are just fairy tales after all, and will never be staged in real life. After getting married, W understood the responsibility of family life, but she was still not interested in any work, and there was still no progress in her work for many years.

At this time, if it was someone else, I guess I would have been furious. But W's wife is very calm, because she knows that everyone has a forest that suits them, but some people are lucky to find it, and some people may have to make more efforts. Don't worry, all we have to do is wait patiently.

At that time, W was working in other places, and his wife was helping the family at home. Although the economy is a little embarrassed and life is not satisfactory occasionally, his wife has never shown any displeasure in front of W in order to let him work with peace of mind. It was his wife's forbearance and understanding that gave W great courage. W believes that he can use his own efforts to make his family live a better life.

Later, I heard that after being confused for several years, W finally found a job that suits him. He started from the most basic sales, and made progress with his diligence and hard work. W made a beautiful turnaround with his own efforts. What's more, he never forgot to love his wife. Later, W used his hard-earned money to buy a house and a car in the city and took his wife and daughter over.

Many people say that W's wife is lucky. Indeed, unlike those who leave school and go out to work, W only knows how to make money by strength. W is very clever. Although he had been stumbling in the early stage, it was in those explorations that he realized that this society does not believe in strength, and only by improving its own ability can it make money. W understood this truth and did it, so he really made money. From this point of view, W's wife is lucky. ,

However, imagine that if W had found a tough wife, I'm afraid he wouldn't try again and again in his life and finally find a forest that suits him. It was his wife's support and encouragement that gave him a strong backing, and he was able to display his ambition. It is no exaggeration to say that without a wife, maybe he will be groping and confused all his life, criticized by others, and will never get ahead. So, to some extent, W's wife helped him.

Therefore, don't envy others to get married and live well, because there must be harm you can't see on the seemingly glamorous surface. And those injuries, really not everyone can bear.

Life is beautiful every day, but it is only a painful experience.

Son, pick up his wife and daughter.