There is nothing to say about why couples are lukewarm.

Many people say that after the result, it changed, and it was not as good as before.

Before marriage, you were two independent individuals, with your own ideas and your own life. After marriage, the two of you merged to form this family. You have to pay for this family. You may have children soon after marriage, and both parents need to take care of them later. Obviously, you have to bear a lot of pressure.

Under the pressure of work and family, your husband and wife may lack communication, and they are very tired after going home every day, so there is less chance for them to talk as before they fell in love.

Feelings are based on communication. If there is no even the most basic communication, there is obviously a problem between husband and wife. We must solve this phenomenon in time to avoid accumulating more and more problems.

Many men in marriage keep their contradictions in their hearts, say nothing, and keep silent again and again. I can't accept this way. If there is any problem, I should directly raise it and solve it.

The relationship between husband and wife for many years is neither too hot nor too cold. There is another point, which may be that this wife doesn't pay attention to the image of life, and she doesn't pay attention to her dress style and makeup after marriage.

In this way, men will feel that their wives are not the beautiful girls they used to be. Over time, they will get bored and become speechless.

If you want to improve your husband and wife's life, you should first start by being yourself. If you change yourself, you may not pay attention to the quality of life as before, so this lukewarm life state of husband and wife may continue.

then, I think the most important thing is communication, and be kind to yourself and your family.

hello, I'm aojiao.