How to counter the ignorance and backward ideas of elders?

Ironically, the words of the elders who can't be human are as follows:

1. What do you mean you are lucky to marry your son? On the whole, I have made no contribution to this family. I am an idle person.

Everything is your son except saying this is not or that is not every day. Your son is amazing.

3, a face-to-face, a back-to-face, you have the ability to explain it to me.

4. Say this and that every day. If you can't do it, you can. Just say it, and do what you can.

There is so much nonsense about serving food. Now some mother-in-law can't even serve Guanyin Bodhisattva, which is too torturous.

6. You don't know so many good things about me. Why are you picking on me? Besides, I got rid of this problem a long time ago. Why not keep pace with the times and be a good person? It turns out that you are a person who has been living in my shadow.

7. People's quality and accomplishment really have little to do with the educational level of having money or not. They can't control others, so they should be self-disciplined.

8. Culture is the foundation of a person's quality and cultivation, which others can't learn.

9. The so-called good upbringing is different in almost all countries, even in one region. Every wise man will imitate the good upbringing of his place and keep up with it.