Talking about rackets, balls and skipping rope.

My father and I have been poor families in sports since childhood, and our voices can't be heard when sports are not good. We don't know the details of each other, and we can't know who is worse at sports. We can only acquiesce that the baby's sports are not good, and he must have inherited himself. Genes are really a magical thing. My baby has been quiet and motionless since he was a child. She can often read for hours alone, but she just won't move little ass to relax her muscles.

Whenever I see others complaining that their baby is active and naughty, my father and I will cast envious eyes, while others think we are in Versailles. It's really a siege effect. I can only say that we can't understand each other's pain.

In order to make the baby exercise more and exercise more, I take great pains. I have been studying gymnastics with my American classmates since kindergarten. Americans believe that gymnastics is the king of all sports, which can cultivate children's overall coordination and sports ability. From the beginning, my baby was laughing and jumping on the trampoline. Only when she lay on the trampoline and cried loudly, "Stop jumping, I want to get down", can she finally jump on the trampoline like an ordinary child. This is a great progress that my father and I are ecstatic about.

Grandparents can't understand what class sports should be enrolled in. In the past, when the conditions were bad, it was good to let the children run and play in the alley. Now, posture training in the greenhouse is simply collecting our IQ tax. But for my father and I, as long as our baby can improve from an underachiever to the average, we will be satisfied. Later, we foolishly flew first, continued to be overweight, and took the baby to participate in the gymnastics training class of the junior sports school.

Parents who have attended kindergarten in China know that patting the ball and skipping rope are skills that preschool children must master. Generally speaking, children need to learn to hit the ball in small classes and jump rope in large classes. One day at the end of my summer vacation, my boss suddenly realized the essence of racquet in a small class and suddenly learned racquet. Although as an older child, she lags behind her peers, but I am very pleased with natural acquisition and not deliberately demanding.

The experience of learning time has taught me a lot of Buddhism. I think when I get older, I will naturally master some skills, just wait for the flowers to bloom. However, I far underestimated the difficulty gap between skipping rope and hitting the ball.

When I was in junior high school, the gymnastics training class of junior sports school required skipping, but I didn't think so at that time. I was waiting for the baby's natural enlightenment. When I slack off, the baby will naturally be lazy and lazy. Coupled with the epidemic at home, my baby suddenly feels like a duck to water, reads books with an empty stomach every day, leaves physical exercise behind, and his sports ability is even worse.

In the big class, the school organized a skipping competition. Eva was deeply stimulated when she saw that her classmates were as light as geese and kept skipping rope. When she came back, she decided to learn to jump rope. It's a good thing she didn't give up. )

Children want to learn by themselves is the biggest motivation. After learning from a painful experience, Eva offered to let me practice skipping with her. The baby hasn't got to the point since he threw the empty rope. The rope is either stuck in her hair or can't be thrown over her head. So the baby began to complain that the rope I bought was not good, which is the same as "I am constipated but blame the toilet for not sucking" (please forgive my rudeness). Whenever Eva sees that the "magic" rope in other children's hands is different from her own, she will let me buy it and try it, such as bamboo rope and fluorescent rope, and I will meet her requirements. In the end, the baby can only silently continue to practice hard.

My friend, whose child has learned to jump rope, comforted me and said, "Don't worry, you will soon learn to jump rope." As long as a child can jump one or two, he can jump ten or twenty at once. " However, the miracle didn't happen to my baby. After she learned to throw the rope with great efforts, she either jumped too fast and couldn't jump completely, or skipped one at last, and the second one failed to throw the rope again, so she couldn't continue.

The anxious old mother watched anxiously. Although she thinks there is something wrong with the coordination of baby skipping, she can't say why and can't give directions from the side. So, I began to collect teaching videos of skipping rope, hoping to get inspiration from them and solve problems in class, but it was just an armchair strategist after all. I even heard that there was a special tutorial class outside to teach skipping, and Bow Wow could learn it as soon as he learned it, but I finally gave up the idea of spending the money. Because although I can't remember how I learned to hit the ball and jump rope when I was a child, I vaguely remember that I learned to kick shuttlecock, jump rubber bands and turn hula hoops by studying hard. There is no shortcut to master these skills except the word "practice". Practice makes perfect.

Adults can understand this truth, but children can't insist on it. The process of continuous failure lasted for more than ten days, and the baby began to have a fear of difficulties and became "which pot does not open" and wanted to give up halfway.

Here, I want to thank those old aunts who are good at war of words. When the old aunts saw the baby's repeated defeats and wars, they began to watch, cheering on the side, clamoring for guidance to the baby, and some even called their own children for drills and demonstrations. Every day, different old aunts pass by, stay, encourage and "show the way". Finally, the baby learns to jump rope.

Thankfully, Eva can finally be a qualified pupil!

Finally, there is a chicken soup saying: As parents, when we clearly realize the shortcomings of our children, what we can do is to accompany and encourage them tirelessly and try our best to help their children train and improve, rather than let nature take its course. Because babies have their own strengths, we need to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. There will be a lot of disappointment and anxiety in this process, but you can rest assured that this is the only way for each of our parents to grow up.

Welcome to floret J (ID: Julie _ and _ Judy)

Julie & Judy's mother graduated from the Japanese Department of Fudan University with a bachelor's degree, a master's degree and a doctor's degree. When many former Japanese prime ministers and politicians visited Shanghai, he was their personal interpreter. He is a simultaneous interpreter from China, Japan, Britain and Japan, and has translated many works, such as Calculation, Just One Minute, Little King's Goldfish Life, Fasting Law, Mathematical Girl, Love Road No.9, Uncle Cat is Coming, Bride's Practice, Going to the Library on a Sunny Day and so on. After raising a baby, I will open this official WeChat account when I have leisure, and share some experiences and feelings of parenting with my own experience.

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