What should you do when you meet such an evil grandfather?

Influenced by the concept of four generations living under one roof, it seems that the man's parents naturally want to live with their son and daughter-in-law, otherwise it is unfilial. This concept is obviously too rigid and outdated.

There are many ways of filial piety, and cohabitation is not necessary. Many family problems, mother-in-law problems, are actually caused by this.

Parents can enjoy their old age, and their children can live the life of a young couple, communicate more and visit more, help each other when they have time, and respect each other's living space. There is no need to arrange family life completely according to the old times.

The woman doesn't want to live with the man's parents, which is essentially a worry about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after cohabitation. She will consider that instead of making a scene, it is better not to go there, even if renting a house costs more money.

Once upon a time, girls were trained to "marry each other's family" from an early age. Nowadays, the concept of young people is "marriage is the marriage of two of us, not your family."

She wants to have a young couple's private space, and she will keep her word when she says anything, regardless of the private space of the elderly beside her.

Therefore, for most young people, it is better to live alone after marriage, so as to avoid the contradiction between their sense of independence and the emotional closeness of their elders.

I often go back to my parents' house on holidays, but the two generations are more cordial. After all, going back to my parents' house to wash dishes on holidays is different from living together to wash dishes every day.