How can people with social fears fall in love? Can you elaborate on it?

Get rid of social phobia before falling in love. Overcome social phobia and don't be too anxious. You can get in touch with people around you bit by bit, get used to it bit by bit, and then step by step, from small to large, slowly. When you look back, you will find that you have come so far.

Someone said, "Social fear, no matter how fearful, is closely related. The main reason is that it is difficult to get close in the early stage and it takes a long time. Few people can wait. So there are only two boyfriends for so many years, and the relationship is not particularly good, because social fear can't advocate pursuing like-minded people, and the result will be a bit tragic. But at least I can contact the opposite sex like a normal person. "

Someone said, "Sometimes it's not because you can't chat, but because you don't have a rich knowledge reserve. After you find a few words, the other party throws a lot of topics, but you can't find a topic to start. I don't know whether one question or three questions. How can that person like chatting and fall in love with such a person? "

Social phobia patients only have certain mental illness, but they will not lose their ability to love and be loved. But now patients are afraid of socializing and need more understanding and tolerance for their loved ones. They can even try to accompany patients with social phobia to treat social phobia. Some people don't want to talk to others. They want to stay in a safe place. They don't need to care about others, nor do they need to care about others. This knot also lies in himself. Whether he needs to resume interpersonal communication depends on himself.

Therefore, in the process of falling in love with people with social phobia, we should also believe that the other person can overcome social phobia and their future can be expected. Fear of facing strangers is due to inner inferiority. As long as someone looks at themselves, they will feel distressed. Even if you are praised, you won't take it seriously. You just think it's polite.

Because they think they are not worthy of praise, this inferiority complex will lead to their social weakness. In view of this psychological feature, we should change from building self-confidence to self-healing. People are always easy to put pressure on close people and release negative emotions, while people with social phobia will habitually impose their inferiority complex on each other, making them feel that it is their responsibility.

Putting the whole life on another person will crush another person sooner or later, so most of their emotional results will end in tragedy. So they need to build self-confidence and learn to face their own lives independently. Many people with social phobia are used to talking to themselves. The more uneasy they are, the easier it is for them to think. Sometimes they are not selfish and don't understand others, but they never give themselves room to think. They are worried that if they stop, they don't know what to do.

Therefore, people with social phobia should first learn to listen, rather than express in a hurry. When you calm down and listen to the people around you, you can really understand another way of thinking. Only by learning to understand others can we have a chance to examine ourselves. When you refuse to listen to other people's opinions, you are actually overprotecting yourself. Although he protected himself from outside interference, he also gave up the opportunity to visit himself.