How can a child grow up without a mother?

A child who loses his father loses the integrity of the world, but if he loses his mother, he loses the whole world, and life will be more difficult. If the mother seldom accompanies the child, the child will be greatly affected. If there is no mother's child, life will be even more sad.

A good friend of mine was sent back to her hometown by her grandmother when she was one and a half years old. At that time, the traffic was inconvenient, parents were busy at work, and younger brothers and sisters were born one after another. She didn't see her parents again until she was 4 years old. In her eyes, her parents are complete strangers. She was criticized for being asked to call her parents, but she wanted to, but she couldn't.

Two years later, her parents intend to bring her to her. When she knew about it, her fear was greater than her excitement. In order to meet his parents, he can call out "Dad" and "Mom". A 6-year-old child actually hid in a deserted place and quietly practiced these two pronunciations, especially the pronunciation of "mom". ?

She said that her parents are well-educated and kind people, and they also want to love her hard. They have done their best. Later, she overcame the psychological barrier and finally learned to call her parents, but the gap with her parents could not be eliminated for life. In her words, my parents and I will never have the kind of intimacy between brother and sister and parents. I will always feel like an orphan. ?