How to deal with the relationship with my sister-in-law?

As the saying goes:? Brother, enemy? Nowadays, many post-80s families are mostly one-child families and seldom need to get along with their sister-in-law, so the contradiction between them is gradually forgotten. But there are still some families with more than two brothers who need this kind of relationship, and they are still easily nervous. In addition to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also the most difficult contradiction in a family. How to deal with the sister-in-law relationship? Let's study together.

Sister-in-law is difficult to get along with, mainly because her husband has entered the same family, so they are both strangers. They don't live together since childhood like brothers and sisters, and they don't have a deep emotional foundation and an inclusive heart, so they are often prone to contradictions and mutual suspicion. In the same family life, sisters-in-law often have conflicts because who does more housework and who does less housework, which in turn leads to friction. ?

1 Keep a certain distance from your sister-in-law.

Aunt is not a sister. It involves supporting the elderly or distributing benefits. Don't be too heartfelt, but have a sense of distance. Communication should be moderate, not too frequent, and a respectful attitude should be maintained on weekdays, so that although the relationship is not particularly close, it will not be too distant.

2. Respect each other and enhance understanding.

No matter what the conditions are, both sides should respect each other. Don't be cocky if you have money, and don't sell yourself short if you don't have money. After all, our husbands are still brothers. For the sake of family harmony and brotherhood, we should treat others equally and win respect. After more contact, get to know each other's temperament, pay more attention to what she is taboo and concerned about, don't violate it, and avoid contradictions.

3. Interaction

Send small gifts and specialties to each other on holidays, or give each other's children lucky money or buy clothes to eat. Even minor conflicts between adults should not involve the next generation. Children like to receive gifts best, so that they can communicate and enhance their feelings.

4. Don't tell right and wrong in front of your in-laws.

For in-laws, you are a daughter-in-law, and so is she. As a middleman, no matter who is right or wrong, she/he can't say anything. You know, there is no windtight wall. If it reaches the other person's ear, it will cause the other person's dissatisfaction with you and destroy the relationship between sister-in-law and brother-in-law, but you can tell your husband.

Now that they have become brothers and sisters, it also means that they are predestined friends. In daily life, try to be considerate and humble to each other. If two people don't give in to each other and both want to get the upper hand, it is easy to make the relationship more rigid. So the best way is to understand each other, so everything will be much easier. Living together in the same family, we can interact more and enhance our feelings. Sister-in-law can also go shopping together, or you can share some good things together. Over time, the relationship will get better.