Couple communication skills: don't turn jealousy into jealousy.

Couple communication skills: don't turn "jealousy" into jealousy. Jealousy is a common psychological feeling. Even if you love each other deeply, one of them will be greatly jealous and say something sour because of an incident. Jealousy becomes jealousy if it is unreasonable, which is harmful and useless to feelings.

One sentence makes people laugh.

He Gang is handsome, eloquent and has a good personality, and is welcomed by many female colleagues in the unit. Every day after work, some female colleagues with cars always let He Gang go with them. He Gang's wife Xiao Wu is very uncomfortable. One day, He Gang went home in the car of his female colleague. When Xiao Wu saw on the balcony that it was the car of Xiao Liu, the youngest and most beautiful beauty in He Gang's unit, he couldn't help feeling jealous.

As soon as He Gang entered the door, Xiao Wu said angrily, Whose car did you drive back?

Xiao Wu's tone is a little unhappy: what I saw on the balcony a long time ago was still a red car. Is it a woman's car?

He Gang realized that his wife was jealous. He smiled and said, what's wrong with women? What happened to that man?

Xiao Wu is even more angry: you still have some truth. What happened to that woman and that man? Nobody's taking you away!

He Gang saw that the joke couldn't go on, so he said in a serious tone, You'll be dreaming. I can tell you that I brought you good news today.

Xiao Wu said, what good news can you bring back? I'd appreciate it if you didn't bring me a big girl.

He Gang said calmly, You are right.

Hearing this, Xiao Wu was furious. What, you really want to bring me a big girl! I'm not done with you.

He Gang quickly stopped Xiao Wu and said, Don't be angry, I'm kidding you. Seriously, you have long wanted to buy a car. What do you think of Xiao Liu's car? I asked Xiao Liu. This car has good performance, low price and fuel economy. I also decided to buy one for you.

Xiao Wu immediately turned his anger into joy and said, What you said is true?

He Gang scolded lightly: It seems that when I told you, it seemed to be false.

Xiao Wu is also happy: that's true, I dare you. It's good to buy a car, so you don't have to drive your female colleague He Gang's car to have fun.

Xiao Wu regards her husband's colleagues as imaginary enemies and warns her husband not to make mistakes with vinegar words. After this jealous confrontation, Xiao Wu has been worried about her husband's problem of taking a female colleague's car, which was solved by her husband himself, and their feelings are more harmonious.

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A couple were shopping when a young woman walked past them and her husband's eyes couldn't help following them. When the wife saw it, she took her husband for a few quick steps and touched the woman's ass with lightning speed.

The woman turned her head and was furious. The wife took the opportunity to scold her husband: You are heartless. How dare you despise other women when I stand by your side!

The young woman stepped forward and slapped the innocent husband. The wife is secretly proud: don't you dare look at beautiful women!

But since then, the husband has never gone shopping with this wife again.

This wife can be said to be too clever In order not to let her husband see the beautiful woman, she made this decision and let him lose face in the street, but she didn't think how much harm it would bring to her husband. Jealousy will become unreasonable, and emotions will be erased in jealousy again and again.

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The word vinegar has a sour and sweet taste for people who love each other, because it shows the sincere and strong love of one party in love. As long as you are jealous, eat properly; Don't knock over the vinegar jar, you can turn vinegar into a wonderful condiment in love and make the relationship between the two sides more harmonious.

Smart people will also take the opportunity to add other condiments such as understanding and trust when knocking over the vinegar jar, so that the harsh sound made by the vinegar jar falling to the ground becomes soft and the vinegar taste becomes less strong. However, when both parties in marriage lose their minds, they change from jealousy to jealousy, and they become hysterical because of jealousy. Regardless of the occasion, they will knock over the jealousy, kick over the jealousy, and leave each other with no face, which will only lead to great disaster in the end.

Once the jealousy between husband and wife turns into jealousy, there will be emotional disharmony, which will lead to marriage crisis. So at this time, what should the other party do to be a smarter choice?

First of all, understand the feelings of your lover. Cherish your lover's love for you, and don't easily accuse each other of being stingy and limit your actions. But at the same time, you can't turn a blind eye to your lover's jealousy and ignore it, thinking that doing so shows that you are generous. In fact, the other party will think that you have a guilty conscience, and he (she) will seize the handle and dare not refute it. The correct attitude is to eliminate each other's jealousy with your sincere heart and find appropriate opportunities to explain to each other.

Secondly, we should grasp the scale when dealing with the opposite sex. Lovers are particularly sensitive. If you are in contact with the opposite sex, you should introduce your lover to your friends and pay attention to your words and deeds. Don't be too close to each other, and don't talk too long or get too involved to ignore your lover. Don't associate with the opposite sex too often behind your lover's back, so as not to hurt your wife or husband's self-esteem and avoid the phenomenon of treading on two boats.

Finally, don't comment on the advantages and disadvantages of other opposite sex in front of your lover. Whether you like the opposite sex you are talking about or not, always talking about the other person will give your lover an illusion: how does he or she care about others? Have you put all your thoughts on him (her)? If you have to make comments, you should pay attention to the discretion of the comments. Excessive praise or belittling will arouse the suspicion or misunderstanding of the lover.

Husband and wife communication skills: often praise your lover.

Husband and wife communication skills: often praise your lover. Marriage needs praise. You can say: honey, your new hairstyle today is really handsome! Or: Wife, you are so beautiful today! As long as you often praise each other sincerely, I believe you will soon find that a marriage is full of praise all the time! How happy I am!

One sentence makes people laugh.

Lily and Zhou Zhou went to the suburbs to celebrate their seventh wedding anniversary. Lily, who has been crazy for a long time, is very happy. She suggested that Da Zhou stay in the suburbs for one night and continue playing the next day. Zhou said: The weather forecast says it will snow at night. If we stay here, we can't go back in case the road is blocked by heavy snow.

Lily looked at the cloudless sky in Wan Li and said with a smile, How can the weather forecast be so accurate? Look, isn't the weather very good now? But Da Zhou insisted on going back, so Lily had to agree. It really began to snow when they got home.

Lily said admiringly to Zhou: My husband is still far-sighted! But for the snow, we would have difficulty coming back.

Da Zhou listened, with a very comfortable smile on his face.

Praise is the best preservative for marriage, which can keep your marriage and love unchanged for ten, twenty or even a lifetime.

If the husband's performance is 100, then a smart wife will be regarded as 120; If the husband's performance in individual cases is only 80 points or barely qualified, the wife should try her best to comfort or avoid talking about it. So you don't have to worry that your husband doesn't have time to accompany you, because you make him want to be with you.

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When the wife came home, she complained to her husband: You see that Zhang Wen next door has been promoted to deputy director. What about you?

Why are you so timid?

Yes, I admit that I am an incompetent person. The husband said a little angrily.

You are so disappointing that you will never develop. It's bad luck to follow you, coward! The wife got angry and stopped fighting.

You are so unreasonable! It's unbearable to pester my husband, clap the table and scold loudly.

Praise your husband's advantages, praise his advantages, and don't compare his shortcomings with those of other men. Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. No one is perfect. We must realize this and learn to accept the reality.

If you want your husband to change in some places, then give up complaining, learn to change him with praise, let him feel your love for him from praise, and he will make progress to repay your love.

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Both husband and wife are very concerned about their lover's evaluation. Praise from the lover will make them happy and confident, because it means that the lover appreciates and affirms himself.

Women believe in their feelings, and they are used to confirming their position in their lover's mind in the form that they can feel with their eyes and ears. Therefore, praising your wife often produces special effects, which is also a manifestation of love.

A woman will regard her husband's praise for herself as the embodiment of her inner value and charm. If a man doesn't praise her, she thinks that the other person doesn't care about himself. In that case, is it necessary to continue living?

Of course, praise can't be false flattery, it must be relaxed and relaxed. The key is to enlarge the advantages and minimize the disadvantages of the lover, so that it can be justified and there will be no exaggeration. For example, my wife's skin is really good, so I praise it. My wife's ability to handle affairs is very strong, and she can also spend more saliva to praise.

The following are 8 sentences summarized by netizens that women love to listen to men. Although it looks simple, it will be a very effective weapon if used properly.

You look so charming! After listening to such praise, there is no woman who will not be tempted, because the praise of her lover proves her charm. This will also convince the wife that she is still deeply loved by her husband.

You are my best friend. This sentence conveys a message to her that she is not only an ideal partner in your heart, but also a good friend who can share joys and sorrows and tell each other what she wants. This will make her feel very proud.

You made my life complete. This sentence clearly tells your wife that she is the only one in your life, which is what all women want to hear from the people who love her. It means that she is very important and her husband needs her very much. After listening, she will be happy for several days in a row.

(4) You did a good job! A simple sentence will help your wife get rid of the feeling of shyness and depression and play a suggestive role: how excellent she is in your eyes. For her contribution, you see it in your eyes and love it in your heart.

(5) You are more beautiful than your girl friends. Comparing his wife with her peers in private and thinking that she is better is a kind of praise, which can greatly enhance her self-confidence. Besides making her feel good about herself, you can also make her realize how highly you think of her. When she gets along with the female companions around her, she will also reduce her sense of threat, perhaps to gain your further appreciation with better words and deeds.

(6) You are so clever! By acknowledging her cleverness, you send her a message that you not only recognize her appearance, but also her thoughts. This will make a woman feel extremely proud of the capital she has.

I want to spend my life with you. This is a very important sentence. Once a man speaks, his wife will be secretly happy.

You will be a good mother. Or you are a good mother. Most women have the trouble of being a good mother. What you said convinced her that she could successfully play the role of a good mother.

Someone once put forward a rule of successful love: women are always spoiled by men, and men are always praised by women!

This standard is very reasonable. Many people know that women like to hear compliments. In fact, men also like to be praised by women. However, when a man hears a compliment, he looks calmer and more serious than a woman, although his heart is full of joy. This reaction gives many women the illusion that men don't need to be praised. Therefore, a woman must not be stingy with her husband's praise. If you can say a few words of praise to your husband every day, it will be of great benefit to stabilize your relationship.

The following are 8 sentences summarized by netizens that men prefer to listen to women, which are worth learning by their wives: (1) You are so humorous! Men with a sense of humor are always welcome.

(2) You are really like a child! Children need to be spoiled. The wife's words let her husband know that she still loves her even if she makes some small mistakes occasionally. How can you be unhappy?

(3) Your nose is really beautiful! Picking out a beautiful part of a man to praise will make him feel very proud. In addition, there are some ambiguous hints about praising a certain part of his body, which adds a lot of interest to life.

(4) You are so smart! Men tend to be proud of their cleverness for a long time.

I like your hair. The luster (feel, color and taste) of your hair depends on the characteristics of your husband's hair. He has white hair, so you can say he looks sexy. Even if his hair is not much, you can say it's clean and fragrant!

(6) Your voice is really nice! Voice is a by-product of men's secondary sexual characteristics and a secret weapon of attractive women, so it is an enduring compliment to men.

Your breasts are really thick! Men don't have a, b, c and d standards, but after hearing your words, his hormone index must rise rapidly.

You are really capable! People often say: indomitable spirit is either human or demon. Men seem to be born excellent. Hearing your words, he will feel full of strength, so he has the responsibility to take care of you.

The art of communication between husband and wife: husband and wife move people with emotion

The art of communication between husband and wife: couples are the most ruthless since ancient times. Facing the seven-year itch, aesthetic fatigue and the temptation of the world of flowers and flowers, it is a matter to discuss with Zicheng whether he can live and die. Holding your hand and growing old with your son test everyone's wisdom and feelings.

One sentence makes people laugh.

At the beginning of the Yuan Dynasty, there was a female painter named Guan Daosheng, who was very talented and almost equal to her husband Zhao Mengfu. Zhao Meng employed a prosperous career, from an official to a bachelor's degree in the Imperial Academy. But once he succeeded, he became proud. He thought that his colleagues were not three wives and four concubines, only he was still guarding a flower. So he wanted to marry a concubine, but he was worried about Guan Daosheng's dissatisfaction. He wrote a song to test Guan Daosheng and see what she thought of his concubinage.

I am a bachelor and you are a wife. Don't you see that Wang has a peach leaf and a peach root, and Su has a cloud? It's not too much for me to marry more Wu Ji and Yue Nv. You are over forty years old, so occupy Yutangchun! It means that now that I have a bachelor's degree, you can see that neither Wang nor Su had one or two concubines. You are my first wife now, but you are over 40 years old and I am in the prime of life. Is it too much to take a few concubines?

Guan Daosheng felt sad when he saw it. He thought you said I wouldn't get married. Now that my years are gone, you like the new and hate the old. But Guan Daosheng is not an ordinary woman. She loves her husband and she doesn't want to share his love with other women. In order to save her husband's heart, she decided to impress him with her deep affection. So she also wrote a song to express her opinion: you are affectionate, affectionate and hot! Twist a piece of mud, be a you, be a me, break the two of us together, reconcile with water, twist another you, be another me, there is you in the mud and me in the mud; Born like you, died like you.

This song is gentle and euphemistic, comparing herself and her husband to clay figurines. You have me and I have you. The mutual affection between husband and wife for so many years has gone deep into the bone marrow and is inseparable, vividly expressing Guan Daosheng's loyalty to love. There is neither resentment nor begging for mercy in the song, but she touched her husband's heart with her deep affection. After reading this song, Zhao Mengpin was deeply moved and remembered the deep friendship between husband and wife, and never mentioned concubinage again.

Guan Daosheng is a brilliant and intelligent woman. She knows very well that if she makes a scene and doesn't allow her husband to take concubinage, even if her husband gives up concubinage, there will always be bad feelings in her heart, and the feelings between husband and wife can't be restored to their original sweetness. Therefore, she used this word to write her loyalty and affection for her husband, and saved her husband's heart with her wisdom.

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On the weekend night, the wife cooked a meal and waited for her husband to come back, and there was a burst of lively laughter from the neighbors. The wife feels more lonely. It's late at night, and she still hasn't seen her husband come back. It suddenly occurred to her what a good sister told her the other day. She said to her: Last weekend night, I saw your husband shopping with a young woman. You should watch your husband!

So she immediately called her husband, and no one answered! Call again. It's turned off. The wife is very unhappy. She couldn't stand her husband's infidelity any longer, so she left a few words for her husband who came home late or didn't: I knew you were itchy again tonight. Dead mice don't feel cold. You're hopeless. You can't live like this. You are relaxed and happy outside, leaving me alone. If I had known, I might as well go back to my parents' house and stay in this stupid house. I solemnly warn you: if you do this again, I will tell your parents that I don't believe it. I can't cure your problem, and neither can others. Then, I went to bed with tears on my sleeping wife's face.

The husband came back very late and found his wife asleep and tears on his face. He felt guilty and sorry for his wife, and secretly decided not to entangle with women outside. When he wanted to sleep, he saw the message left by his wife. He thought that his wife must have missed his sweet words, so he quickly took it and read it. Slowly, my husband's face became more and more ugly. He left the room, went to the living room, dialed the phone number of the woman, put on his coat and walked out of the house.

There was a rift in the relationship between husband and wife, and the husband came home late. His wife hoped that he would go home early, and even more hoped that he would change his mind. However, the wife's message is full of resentment and blame. Such sharp words will not only fail to achieve the expected effect, but will make her husband even more disgusted and make her go further and further on the road of betrayal.

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The softest things are often the sharpest, such as feelings in the world. When there is a crisis in the relationship between husband and wife, what can best resolve the crisis is emotion, and of course wisdom.

When there is a crisis in feelings, whether you can face it calmly and put yourself in the other's shoes has become the most critical issue. Smart people will take the following measures: (1) Wait and see. Whenever there is an emotional crisis, the most important thing is to calm down. Breaking the sand pot will lead to more serious situation. To give each other room to think, we should treat them with a generous attitude: husband and wife do not mean that they will break up. If they keep fighting or fighting because of something, it will only lead to a result that neither side wants.

(2) Throw a brick to attract jade. It is common for couples to quarrel in life, which is often caused by external factors, including stress, work mood, money and so on. And examples of successfully resolving contradictions are not uncommon. We might as well learn from other people's experience, list other people's good ideas and some bad examples, and let them know themselves again.

(3) Knock and drum. When you really find out what's wrong with the other party, it's even more important to deal with it coldly, because there are many complicated factors to consider. Maybe it's just a big misunderstanding, or it may be the other party's impulse. If handled well, we can not only save each other's dignity, but also save a complete home. At this time, you can't make a scene with each other. You can choose to have a serious talk with each other's parents and friends with good feelings, so as to achieve the best results and the other party can truly appreciate your tolerance and generosity.

The art of communication between husband and wife: the taboo of husband and wife quarreling "personality assassination"

The art of communication between husband and wife: quarreling between husband and wife is taboo. "Personality assassination" The dispute between husband and wife may make the lover hate from love. More than half of the reasons are because they can't coordinate with each other and can't communicate each other's thoughts and feelings. If you can speak according to your lover's temperament, you will avoid a lot of unnecessary noise and make your lover love you more.

One sentence makes people laugh.

Carol's wife Lisa is a stubborn woman. Every time Carol asks her to do something, she always opposes it and always does what she wants. Carol really can't do anything about it. Although Carlo's friends often make fun of him for being afraid of his wife, he tries not to argue with Lisa and always makes way for her.

The annual autumn harvest is coming. Carol wants to invite friends to get together at home and have a good time, but she is worried that once he mentions it to Lisa, Lisa will immediately announce a hunger strike as usual. What shall we do? Suddenly, an idea flashed through Carol's mind. Yes, let's get started!

A few days later, Carol told Lisa that the harvest festival was coming. Don't make any more sweet cakes this year. The family is too poor to have friends.

Poor? What are you talking about? Lisa interrupted him angrily. We have never been so rich as this year. I will not only make sweet cakes, but also make them big and good, and invite all my friends to eat them.

Then do it quickly! Carol cried secretly with joy, but her face looked pleading. He murmured, well, if you make sweet cakes, don't make puddings. We can't waste too much.

It will be wasted! Lisa really fell into Carol's trap. I want to make pudding, and it's a big pudding. Lisa's cheeks bulged.

Carol sighed, rolled her eyes and said, it's like pouring cold water on Lisa's head. The pudding tastes terrible, but if you make it and people can't eat it, feed it to pigs, and we'll be bankrupt!

Feed the pigs? Do you want to feed pigs? Lisa's eyes widened. She waved her fist and said, "I'm going to kill that big pig at once."

So ... Carol pretended to be helpless and said, promise me that the wine in the cellar will only last us a winter. Don't take it out for friends, we can't cope with the scene!

Lisa stamped her foot and said, "Are you crazy?" Who has ever heard of eating pork without drinking? We should not only have wine, but also buy coffee.

Oh, dear! Carol sighed in dismay. I don't drink myself anyway. I don't drink, and neither will others. I tell you, that wine is for our winter!

Lisa turned to stare at Carol and shouted at him in an imperative tone: You should act like a host and drink every bottle of wine with your friends. Otherwise, I can be rude to you!

Lisa said, turning around and ignoring Carol. Carol pretends to be docile, but don't mention how happy she is.

Carol's wife was stubborn and opposed to him, while Carol mastered her character and dared her to do what she wanted, and finally achieved her goal, thus avoiding a quarrel.

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On Sunday, his wife Wang Hong and her husband were at home. Because of a little trouble at work, my husband has been in a low mood recently. My husband is unhappy recently, so I didn't ask him to help with the housework. When Xiao Wang tidied up the small coffee table, he accidentally knocked over the cup that her husband put on it and broke it to the ground. Just yesterday, Xiao Wang Gang broke a cup, but I didn't expect to break another one today. This tea set was brought back from Europe by an old classmate of her husband's. The workmanship is very exquisite and is treasured by her husband. She kept it carefully for fear of being broken. Recently, because she was in a bad mood, she took it out and enjoyed it alone. I didn't expect my wife to smash two in two days, and my husband's face was long at that time.

When Xiao Wang saw her husband's appearance, the fire suddenly came up: Isn't it just two cups? Looks like I'm not even worth two glasses. Don't get angry outside. Come back and let me see your face all day. Taking out your wife as a punching bag is nothing more than a hero and can't be down a peg or two. I am really capable, and I don't think two cups are more precious than my wife.

This is a hornet's nest. The troubles at work have made her husband feel painful and depressed. His wife's sarcasm made him feel that there was nothing worth cherishing in this family: I felt that I was incompetent, so I was incompetent. I'll leave it up to you. There are many capable men out there, but it's a pity that you don't enjoy life, so you have to find me as your husband.

My wife doesn't show weakness: I don't know, maybe one day I'll find a capable man to show you.

The husband grabbed the water bottle on the coffee table and threw it hard. Xiao Wang felt that his heart was going to be broken, and he cried and cursed in despair and irrationally: Drop! Put everything down as much as possible! At this point, the husband was completely out of control, and the crazy impulse became the last despair in Xiao Wang's scolding. Husband grabbed a cup and smashed the new LCD big-screen TV they bought at a cost of nearly 10,000 yuan.

This kind of violent conflict caused by minor problems is the most common in the war between husband and wife.

Trouble at work leads to depression. Breaking a cup immediately ignites the fuse of war, and the final result is unpredictable for both sides. The only condition that can avoid disastrous consequences is that one party must take the initiative to make concessions.

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As the saying goes, it takes ten years to build a ship and a hundred years to build a pillow. Therefore, both husband and wife should cherish the present and cherish the present. Everyone will inevitably have shortcomings or bad habits, and it is rare for couples who don't quarrel all their lives.

Moderate quarreling is conducive to the ideological communication between husband and wife. Through quarreling, both sides can better understand each other's needs and be more consistent with each other. Husband and wife quarrel must be moderate and considerate of each other.

Once there are differences between husband and wife, don't put on a posture of being the best in the world, always thinking that you are right and accusing each other for no reason. Sometimes, there are great differences between husband and wife and they are very excited. When they are angry, they will blurt out many words that hurt each other. In fact, those words are not our real thoughts, but they will leave many scars in the hearts of people we love deeply. Once these scars are formed, they are even more difficult to repair.

Neither the wife nor the husband is perfect. It is a kind of fate that two people can come together, and it is also a witness of mutual understanding and tolerance. When quarreling, don't always insult people, belittle each other's personality, dig at each other's weaknesses, make personal attacks on each other, and even put each other's family and parents in the derogatory ranks. This may make you feel relieved for a while, but it will leave a shadow on the other side.

When a husband and wife quarrel, they should talk about the facts, and don't always mention past contradictions and differences, which will only magnify them. In fact, there can be no real winner in a quarrel between husband and wife. Even if it's not your fault, don't pose as a winner. If you accidentally say something that will hurt each other during the quarrel, you should apologize for it and don't feel ashamed. Moreover, couples should not always keep silent or escape after quarreling, which is not conducive to reconciliation after quarreling and may turn into an endless cold war.

In addition, after a husband and wife quarrel, neither party should threaten the other with sex. As the saying goes, there is no overnight hatred between husband and wife. It is extremely foolish to affect the sexual relationship between husband and wife because of quarrel, because sex is a powerful bond to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, and once this bond is broken, it is very dangerous.

Attachment: the quarrel convention circulated on the Internet.

There has been a "quarrel agreement" circulating on the Internet, which is very popular among couples born in 1980s. Some marriage counselors said that the quarrel convention has practical guiding significance for couples of all ages. If it can be implemented in accordance with the convention, quarreling will not only hurt the feelings of husband and wife, but also solve things well. The full text of the treaty is as follows: (1) Do not quarrel in front of parents, relatives and neighbors, but give each other face in public places.

(2) No matter who is right or wrong, as long as there is a quarrel, the man must gently coax the woman once, so that the woman can calm down immediately, otherwise the woman can't help crying when she sees the man, and once serious consequences are caused, the man will be responsible for all this.

(3) quarreling at home is not allowed to go away. If the woman really wants to leave, she is not allowed to leave the community, nor is she allowed to turn off her mobile phone. The man should find the woman within two minutes and gently persuade her that the man has no right to leave.

(4) Respect each other's parents and elders, be unhappy when quarreling, and don't be rude to your parents. (5) The fault party should take the initiative to apologize, and the innocent party should forgive the other party as soon as possible after the fault party apologizes and compensates.

(6) When both parties make mistakes, they should review each other, and then realize that the wrong party should take the initiative to take the other party out to play and pay all the expenses. Suggested ways to relax: go to the park, go shopping and go to the supermarket. Take it out and don't smash anything. Can only eat. It's really itchy. I can only hit the pillow.

The quarrel won't last overnight. If the dispute cannot be settled before 1 1, there will be a truce and both parties will pay 100 yuan. Ownership and control will go to the first party to admit the mistake afterwards, but the man should take the initiative to hold the woman while sleeping anyway.

(9) Massage each other once a week, because it is very hard for everyone to quarrel often. If the man's craft is not good, he can learn from the blind master, and it is forbidden to learn from the girls in the hair salon!

(10) When quarreling, the man is not allowed to hang up. If he hangs up, he should call back immediately and apologize. If the woman hangs up during a quarrel, the man must call her within 1 minute. Don't be discouraged and hang up again and again, but the woman should also give the man face, and hang up no more than 5 times each time.

(1 1) Both sides have no right to hold grudges, and they are not allowed to mention previous quarrels every time they quarrel.

Remarks: The above items can be changed by the woman without reason or time limit. The man has the right to raise an objection, but whether the objection is adopted or not, the final interpretation right belongs to the woman. Anyone who violates the agreement may be fined 100 yuan to 300 yuan, and the ownership and control of the fine shall belong to the observant party.