How to treat the behavior of "inviting customers to kill chickens" and inviting friends to dinner? If it were you, would you go?

"Treat guests to kill chickens" is a disgusting way to entertain guests. In the face of such hypocrisy, you can use some tricks to make him never pretend to be 13 in front of you. Let me share my experience with you.

Some relatives in our family can do this, which can be described as hypocrisy.

Once, during the Chinese New Year, everyone went to this relative's house to visit relatives. According to the rules, we eat at their house at noon. Every year, we visit our relatives in turn. When it was someone else's turn, we all prepared the dining table in advance and made a big table to eat.

The family informed one day in advance that it was time to go to their home the next day, but when they arrived at their home at noon, everyone was dumbfounded. Everyone went to his house with things. It was almost noon, but nothing was prepared.

At this time, the relative spoke, "I didn't know you came so early, so I didn't prepare in advance." Fortunately, there are some noodles I bought yesterday. Do you think we can go to a restaurant for dinner? But the restaurant is probably full. What should I do? " I was very angry when I heard that. I obviously wanted to entertain my guests with noodles.

Some family members who went together were very angry and wanted to put things down. Some people can only reluctantly accept it with a wry smile.

I don't like it at this time. Since you are cheeky, I will compete with you.

"Let's go to a restaurant for dinner. I know a place that is definitely not full. I have made a reservation for my boss in advance, and I can give you a discount then. It's very tiring to cook noodles in the kitchen during the Spring Festival. Let's leave now. That restaurant is all your favorite dishes. " After that, I stole a look at him. His face was as black and blue as a Peking Opera mask, not to mention how excited he was.

No way, he had to bite the bullet and invite us to the hotel.

Therefore, how sorry I am to meet these people who ask customers to kill chickens instead of eating their chickens.

"Treat people to kill chickens" was once a joke, especially for some silly friends.

There are many people who are stingy behind closed doors.

It should be a normal state to treat guests and kill chickens now. A friend came and asked, what to drink, water, tea or coffee? Or what kind of fruit snacks you like. And what to eat there. We'll eat later.

Of course, this is a better friend and more casual.

There are many people invited, which is more formal. The host should be prepared, and of course both sides will be polite.

Living conditions are good and there are many choices. The guest is good for the host, and the host is good for the guest.

"treat to kill the chicken", that's right.

This sentence is called "kill the chicken and ask" and "in the northeast, harmony" and "harmony" are the spoken dialects of the guests. Come and "harmony"! It's a visitor

Its main meaning is that a guest comes and wants to kill a chicken, but he is afraid that the guest will not eat the chicken. If you don't eat, I won't kill for nothing.

And the host has some "little mats", and some don't want to really care. "Our family has chickens, so if you want to eat, we will kill one. What's the big deal! " And generous. In fact, I still can't bear it!

It depends on the guests. Who can say that I like chicken? I don't like pig carcasses. I said politely, I can eat whatever I want. I'm not an outsider. As a result, the owner was more affordable, and the chicken escaped!

In real life, unless two people are too good to ask, because they go outside without hesitation. Most guests don't have to ask him this or that, so you just kill you. It's very sincere.

In fact, people who "kill the chicken to get the egg" can't be said to be illusory, but they also have very real ingredients.

In short, killing chickens and asking "harmony" is uncomfortable for some people, and it cannot be said that there are too many empty ingredients!

There are two situations of "treating guests to kill chickens". One situation is that they know each other very well, regardless of each other, and the relationship is casual and not particular. This way of treating guests is understandable and acceptable; Another situation is that the relationship is average, polite, hypocritical and insincere. I would never treat my guests in this way. I don't want such a friend.

I have a few die-hard friends. Unless there is a formal wedding or funeral, I have to tell them in advance and tell them the reason, time and place of the party. The rest of the time, it is an informal gathering. Anyone who wants to drink, please call at any time and say what they want to get together and eat. What wine to drink? Where to eat? Repeatedly ask for everyone's opinions, everyone agrees, and rush to the goal. This way is not "treat others to kill chickens", but respect and goodwill. Everyone is used to it, and there is no unhappiness.

1993 At the beginning of this year, in a city in western Sichuan, I happened to meet a college classmate whom I hadn't seen for seven years after graduation. At that time, he was very enthusiastic and sincerely invited me to his house for dinner the next day. Because there was no mobile phone at that time, I left my home address. He repeatedly explained that he would never leave and that he had a good reminiscence with the past. He stayed at home and had a few snacks and dinner.

The next morning, I thought it was my first time to visit a classmate's house. It's embarrassing for me to return empty-handed I tried my best to choose carefully, bought two cigarettes, two bottles of wine, a few pounds of fruit and hard vegetables, took several buses and finally arrived at his house on time. But after knocking on the door for a long time, no one was at home. I asked his neighbor, and he said his family went out early in the morning.

I thought my classmate had gone to buy food and wine, and was waiting outside his house. My kind neighbor gave me a stool. Unconsciously, I waited until 1: 30 in the afternoon, and I didn't see my classmates. I'm thirsty and hungry, and I feel very uncomfortable.

Just about to leave, the old classmate's family of three came back from the outside. When he saw me, he looked scared and reacted instantly. He kept saying that he was sorry and forgot what happened yesterday. As soon as I heard this, I choked back my anger and said with a smile, it doesn't matter. I was just passing by and went to the address you gave me. Now that I know you live here, I took something to him casually and left silently. From then on, make a clean break, and die of old age.

At that time, I had just entered the society for a few years. I was naive and kind, saying that one is the other, and never faked it. Now it is found that this courtesy is very common and hypocritical. Don't take it seriously, otherwise, you will find yourself embarrassed. In fact, I sincerely hope that people will be less hypocritical and more sincere, and life will be more harmonious and beautiful! I'm Nong Liang, from my home, for reference only.

In my eyes, these four words mean that I don't want to kill a chicken, but I'm too embarrassed to entertain guests with a chicken, so I ask.

I remember my junior high school days. I went to visit with my adults, and my host asked me if I wanted to eat popsicles. I really want to eat, but I'm afraid adults at home will say I don't want to eat. Later, other hosts said, if you have any requirements, just give them to your children. Later, he gave it to me and I ate it.

This matter has a great influence on me. When I grow up, I can always think of it. Now I'll treat you directly or buy it.

First of all, explain "treat guests to kill chickens": it refers to a relatively hypocritical way of receiving guests. For example, it's so nice of you to come. Let's make you something delicious and kill the big hen, shall we?

If this happens to me, I won't go.

When you encounter a similar problem, you can say: That's very kind of you. Our relationship doesn't cost you money. When the opportunity is ripe, it's my treat.

So when the opportunity is ripe, it depends on your mood, otherwise there will never be such a mature opportunity. Just put the word off and tell him not to come to this hypocritical thing all the time.

I wish you success.

Invite guests to kill chickens, see who asks and how to ask. I've met several people who ask questions to kill chickens. Once, a friend introduced me to someone who wanted something from me. After you help him, tell me, "Call me when you want to eat." It's like I haven't eaten it. If he invited me like this, I certainly wouldn't help him. At that time, my friend said that we were good friends, so I promised to help him. Easy as it is, I still regret helping this man.

Another way to invite guests to kill chickens is to make an appointment in advance and then go to the restaurant. The host took out the menu and asked me to order. This kind of inviting guests to kill chickens is not that the host is stingy, but that the host respects the guests and embodies the quality of the host. I took the menu and ordered some popular dishes, and the host brought it back and added several expensive dishes. This kind of treat kills the chicken, and the guest and the host are harmonious. This kind of friend is worth associating with.

Another kind is to invite guests to kill chickens, that is, very good friends and temporary guests. For example, when a classmate came to Shenzhen, another classmate of mine called me and asked, "Do you have time? Come over for dinner when you have time, and XX is coming. " This kind of relationship is very good and casual, and it is completely acceptable for friends to treat him like a chicken.

Therefore, treat guests like killing chickens, depending on the usual relationship. If it is a general relationship, it is good to invite or refuse.

I first heard this proverb last month. I went to the office next door and boiled their bottled water in their kettle. Then there was an old lady in charge of logistics who didn't come often, looking serious and dignified. What are you doing? When something is wrong, say, boil water for you to drink. Then she smiled helplessly. When the water boiled, I kept telling her to drink more water, and she told me the story of inviting guests to kill chickens, hahaha.

I also heard it from my colleagues. He has a friend who is very stingy and never invites guests. Later, he didn't know what to say. This stingy friend invited his colleagues to his house for dinner at noon. Colleagues are real people and went at noon the next day. Then the stingy man brought out tea for his colleagues to drink and began to chat and chat. The middle colleague drank two pots of tea and didn't say he was eating. I was already hungry, and the tea was more oily, wiping out the last bit of oil and water in my colleague's stomach. My colleague is really hungry. His eyes are blue. I thought I would leave myself and go back to dinner. As a result, the man hypocritically advised his colleagues not to leave and stay for dinner. Colleagues came back and said that sitting there and drinking a few pots of tea would make you dizzy.

I like this kind of friends, and I hope my friends will accept my way. I have read an article on chicken soup, which is not a direct answer, but enlightening. The old couple lived a whole life, especially loving each other, but the old man likes fish heads and the old lady likes fish tails. The old man was afraid that the old lady wouldn't give up fighting with him, so he told her that he liked fish tails. As soon as the old lady heard that her wife loved fish tails, she told the old man that she loved fish heads. So the old man ate fish tails that he didn't like all his life, and the old lady ate fish heads that he didn't like all his life.

Now that you have promised others, don't pretend to be polite. Say what you want to eat, and you will be ready to spend money when others invite you. You don't say that others can only go to expensive places, and you don't necessarily like the owner's money. Why bother? More sincerity, less routine! !