My father-in-law recently sent me two videos of filial piety to my in-laws. What does he mean?

Normal reaction, an old man's insecurity.

When you are old, the most difficult thing is to make your children filial, especially those with sons. Every aspect of life depends on their daughter-in-law, so anxiety is inevitable. What they are most worried about is that when they need someone to take care of them, their son is absent and their daughter-in-law is unwilling.

The countermeasures commonly used by the general elderly are divided into several types according to time:

1, choose your daughter-in-law who looks pleasing to the eye, be obedient, and be within their control.

After entering the door, you will show off your parents' airs and establish "correct" values for your daughter-in-law from the beginning.

3. In front of the daughter-in-law, they will pay special attention to kindness and filial piety, and their behavior language will be deliberate because of poor skills. For example, watching TV and seeing similar plots will make a performance theory.

4. I will show you some collected filial piety videos, and I have decided to convey them to you, just as girls can't wait to send them to each other when they see how boys love girls or how they can express their feelings. Although annoying, it is understandable.

It is suggested that the subject should adapt. This kind of thing needs time and energy to deal with, and it will make them unhappy if it is not handled well.

If you really can't get used to it, how to deal with it:

1, decode their thoughts first, and then ignore their behavior. If it is frequent, tell them directly and show your attitude.

2. Take good care of major events on holidays. Or the old couple have important things to deal with, and you should be the first to rush to help regardless of the cost. This time, your position is basically stable, and they are relieved that it won't happen again.