The child tried on the shoes that grandma bought, but grandma took them away. Do you think the child did right or wrong?

A video on the internet is on fire. A child's grandparents send new clothes and shoes to the child at the school gate. When the child tried it on, his grandmother dragged him away. This video has caused a lot of dissatisfaction on the Internet, and some netizens commented that this grandmother is too selfish. What happened between grandma and grandma that would make this grandma take it out on her children? Let's talk about my opinion on this matter!

We all say that children are very happy now, not only because of their parents' pain, but also because of their grandparents' pain. Indeed, there are not many children in every family now, and the elders especially love their grandchildren. But online video is really rare in daily life. What this grandmother did was wrong. The child can accept the love of his grandparents. Why did grandma stop it? Now the child's psychology is not very mature. Grandma will make him misunderstand her. Over time, the feelings between grandchildren will fade, which is super unfair to children!

In the eyes of the older generation, grandchildren will be unhappy if they have too much contact with their grandmother's family, because they are afraid that their feelings for their grandmother will be too deep and their feelings for their own family will fade. Bian Xiao thinks this idea has changed for a long time. Children have their own ideas. Perhaps for them at this stage, whoever is kind to him will have deep feelings for him. In the video, this grandmother has a great influence on her children. Although children are still young and ignorant, such a shadow will remain in their childhood memories, which is unfair to them!

In fact, there are fewer and fewer such things in today's society. In Bian Xiao's memory, when I lived in my grandmother's house for a long time, my grandmother would say that their house was better and you didn't want to come back. Up to now, I still think grandma said this is very wrong! No matter what grievances the two families have, don't involve the children. They are innocent. What do you think of this matter?