Parents are old and reluctant to spend money. Besides money, what else can be filial? what do you think?

There are many such people now. They think that how much money to send to parents and how many gifts to buy at home every month is filial piety. It is not an extravagant hope that our parents will get much in return for raising us in the future. What parents want is not money, so what do they need? It's simple, companionship. What parents really need is companionship. They don't need you to send a lot of money home. All they need is that you can go home often, have dinner with them and walk with them. So they are very satisfied.

I also understand that contemporary people have a lot of work pressure and troubles. I also understand that you want to be nice to your parents when your career is successful. However, we can wait, but mom can't. Besides, what parents need is not money, but your hungry company.

What you have most now is time. Filial piety is not lip service, but knowledge. You really should take action. Parents really don't ask too much, they just need your little time. If you are really busy and can't go home, call home and ask. Calling home is just a small matter, but for parents, you can't feel their inner joy.

Filial piety is really simple, and small things can be warm. Treat our parents well, because they are the best people in the world! May all parents in the world live a long and healthy life!

I have an old man and a mother now. The old man gave money, bought clothes and food when he came, and led him to swim nearby. Because, in his hometown, he went back to buy food and drink to give money.

My mother is over 80 this year. She lives alone and doesn't want to go to the children's house. She also has no income. I am the eldest daughter, and my way of filial piety to the elderly is:

It takes me nearly half an hour to go to my mother's house by bus when my father is around. I have to take my daughter to see her parents every week because my husband is in the army and lives in two places. I went to see my parents and bought them pork and beef for a week. At that time, dad went to work. I also take care of clothes. Then one weekend, I stayed for one night.

Dad has been gone 10 years. When I didn't retire, I moved further. But I also insist on going home with my daughter once a week. My daughter went to my grandmother's house during the winter vacation. Now my daughter has become grandma's little cotton-padded jacket. She is very kind to grandma. Pay for delicious food and help grandma clean up every time she goes. In winter, I sometimes live with my grandmother for up to 4 months. Because my mother likes growing vegetables, my brother borrowed a small piece of land. Sometimes my little nephew and I grow vegetables with her. In winter, the northeast is very cold. She walks slowly and stays indoors in winter.

I have retired for nearly two years now. I accompany my mother from spring to autumn, and I accompany her to farm. This year's epidemic, the lives of younger brothers and sisters are limited. I am responsible for most of my mother's living expenses. I bought enough meat, oil and other daily necessities every time. My little nephew, niece, nephew and daughter are very kind to grandma. And pay for delicious food. Mother bought cakes and red envelopes for her birthday.

In fact, when parents are old, what they need most is companionship, chatting with them and listening to their nagging. See what they like. Sometimes filial piety has to be smooth. My mother likes growing vegetables. My brother and nephew, she is going, my brother and nephew drive to pick up and drop off, cook and eat vegetables at noon, and see the mountains and water. We are also happy when the old people are happy.

Most parents are unwilling to spend their children's money.

Parents may refuse to give money to their parents, even if they accept it, they are reluctant to spend it. They will save the money given by their children just to pay them back when they are in trouble. This is the good intention of their parents.

As children, they may always feel that only by giving money to their parents can they feel at ease. In fact, besides money, we should also start from the psychological point of view of parents. In fact, what they need more is the company of their families.

When children grow up, they either study or work in other places. In fact, they don't have much time to spend with their parents. Everyone flew out of this house when they got married, which made the originally lively home a lot colder. Many parents have to adjust their psychology to accept and adapt to this life.

We can spare time to spend more time with our parents, chat with them, cook more delicious food for them, eat with them and help them with housework. In short, the older parents are, the stronger their inner loneliness will be, and the long-term companionship of their children is the best filial piety for their parents.

It is very sad that the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the son wants to raise and not kiss. I hope that each of us will not leave regrets for filial parents.