Can you tell me some tricks that people who refuse must learn?

Would you refuse someone? You love face, but you are afraid that others will hate you. Even if you know this person is in Bai Piao, you can only say, OK, OK. "Lend me your paper. I can't. I'm going to the bathroom. Hurry up. " She borrowed it from me again This is the fifth time this week. She won't borrow it, nor will she scold me in front of others. What should I do if others stop playing with me? In the end, I can only say "all right, all right". Life is only a few days, 36,000 days at most. At that time, you will leave. Next time this person asks you to do something, ask yourself first. Is it my father? Why should I help her? I won't help her. I'm not asking you to reflect, I'm asking you to refuse. Why refuse? Three tricks.

First, I am an amateur. The company still has to pay us to find a job. Why didn't that friend borrow something from us? Lend you skin care products, right? Of course. Take out the bar code and throw it directly in her face. Just ask her: Do you want to pay by the number of times or by the scale? If she dares to say that you still want money from me for this thing, why are you so vulgar? Just tell her, oh, by the way, you don't think money is vulgar, do you? Come on, you give it to me. I don't think it's vulgar. Don't worry, she thinks you are materialistic. We call it equivalent exchange.

Second, bring it to you. If she dares to borrow cigarettes from you, you can ask her for snacks. No snacks. This is a small problem. We don't pick what we want on the table. If she wants to say that you haggle over every ounce, you can tell her that you don't deduct, but you can exchange snacks with me.

Third, I am Mo. These requirements of children are all agreed, and when to implement them depends on their mood. This person always asks you to bring her food by express delivery, yes, I can afford it when I finish eating, and so on. Then if you can't afford to wait, you can find someone else, because I am Mo, not that I don't help you, but that you can't afford to wait. This has nothing to do with me. Have you learned? Don't be soft-hearted when you refuse others. When she asks you, she treats you as her father. When you ask her, she wants to be a grandfather. Give her a chance to be a grandfather. We should be her great-grandfather.