I want to know some conversation skills, such as talking about girls, or telling jokes and stories.

I'm so tired. Take a closer look. Very helpful to you. I said it from a girl's point of view.

If you are the one who loves you, then he/she must love you even this. If he/she can't accept it, then you should reconsider a person who doesn't love you all, and the person who loves you will appreciate your silence.

If your date is a contact, try to find a place that is not suitable for talking loudly or not much, or where you don't need to talk much (such as singing K).

There is another trick: you try to bring out his topic and then make him say more (such as "What do you like?" Then after he answered, you said, "I'm not sure. Can you give me a detailed introduction? "

People who usually don't like talking don't really like talking, but don't like talking to people they don't know. When you walk around and relax, you will find that you can find a topic and talk about everything. . .

(Go on, go on below, and you will naturally say the same thing ...)

How to chat with people

Chatting should have a purpose and bring feelings closer. Chatting is mostly emotional communication or inner catharsis. But chatting also has ups and downs. Chatting with low-level people and complaining will only make the listener sad, and the speaker will not achieve the purpose of emotional communication. People with depth can not only draw closer to each other, but also deepen their feelings in the process of chatting. First, chatting should have a purpose. With a certain purpose, you can ask questions in time and adjust the content of the chat at any time. Second, we should pay attention to choosing the right chat friends. Third, choose the right chat topic. 1. Some people misinterpret the topic of chatting and think that only those extraordinary things are worth talking about. In fact, people not only like to listen to some anecdotes, but also like to listen to many standard Chinese topics related to ordinary life. Another misinterpretation of the topic is that if you want to gain the respect of others, you must talk about some profound and learned topics, but it is difficult to find a confidant when talking about such unfamiliar topics. 2. Rules: If you want to deal with customers, you must first have the courage and ability to talk to anyone. As a scholar said, "If you can talk to anyone for 10 minutes and arouse their interest, you are the best communicator." As long as you have the heart to contact others, there are actually many topics. What a person sees, hears and feels is a great topic. 4. Can talk about ambition, social responsibility and philosophy of life; You can talk about work understanding, colleague relationship, friendship and love; You can talk about books, movies, TV and dramas, and give full play to your appreciation; We can talk about climate, entertainment, food, clothes, housing and transportation.

However, some words should be carefully avoided: don't pretend to be an expert in a job you don't know. ? Don't show off your achievements to strangers, such as personal achievements, your wealth, and your son's extraordinary intelligence. ? Don't talk about your partner's failures, flaws and privacy in public. ? Don't talk about controversial topics. ? Don't complain and grumble everywhere, it's not a good way to win sympathy. Sixth, it is best to choose a topic based on local materials, that is, to find a topic according to the environment at that time. 7. You can also ask the other person some topics he is familiar with, interested in and unfamiliar with. Eight, close to others and get along with others, there are three steps: find out what others are interested in? Accumulate some tool knowledge that the other party is interested in. ? Let him know that you are really interested in that thing. 9. Keep in touch if you don't have a chance to talk.

Ten, to make the chat fruitful, we must grasp the following factors: Understanding and * * * knowledge, the first factor is whether you can firmly establish * * * the same language, whether you can get the understanding of the other party, and whether you can produce * * * knowledge. ? To establish * * * similarity, we also need cooperation to find * * * similarity in the case of smooth communication, rather than emphasizing ideological differences. 1 First, let the chat warm up for the formal conversation. When the conversation begins, we might as well talk about the daily climate. In addition to your most considerate and interesting topics, you should reserve more materials for "chatting" with others. Have you ever played some jokes without catching a cold? A thrilling story? Health and medicine? Topics that family members don't understand. For example, early childhood education, shopping experience, how couples get along, socializing with relatives and friends, and family arrangements? Sports and entertainment. ? A sensational social news? Politics and religion (everyone's political views are close)? Jokes. If you conceive many jokes and can tell them, you are probably the most popular person. Fourth, it should be noted that when chatting, don't ask some challenging questions that you don't understand, so as not to cause heated arguments and break up in discord. Don't be self-righteous, speak in a didactic tone. 5. Let friendship start with a friendly chat? When talking, if you can get the other person to talk about the job he is interested in, it means that you have attracted the other person skillfully. At this point, the question and answer method is used to lure the other party to tell his personal habits, experiences, wishes, interests and other topics that he does not understand. He who is good at deceiving others is a wise man. ? It is your responsibility to let the other person talk about the topic he cares about and ask such incomprehensible questions. For example, the current political situation, industrial situation, or the car he drives, the current traffic conditions, the road conditions of expressways, the current personal tax rate, food prices and so on. What a person wants to talk about most is also the most considerate topic, which is nothing more than all his personal work.