Five personal advanced deeds of the most beautiful daughter-in-law

As the old saying goes, filial piety comes first and you are surrounded by the most beautiful daughter-in-law. Their filial piety to their mother-in-law deserves everyone's praise and admiration. The following are five short articles about the personal advanced deeds of the most beautiful daughter-in-law. I hope you like them.

Understanding of the personal advanced deeds of the most beautiful daughter-in-law Part I

A strong woman who pursues a "happy dream" in suffering.

_ _, female, 58 years old, is a villager in _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _

1988 One day in winter, my mother-in-law slipped and broke her pelvis and thigh because of her age. She is not afraid of being dirty and tired, and she is full of food and drink. Under her careful service, although her mother-in-law recovered quickly, she eventually fell ill because of her age and limited medical facilities, and she was bedridden all the year round, making it difficult to take care of herself. It is often said that there is no dutiful son in front of the hospital bed for a long time, but she insists on fighting for breath, eating and drinking for her mother-in-law, scrubbing her body, rolling over and massaging, and taking care of her for decades. Many things happen. Under her careful care, my mother-in-law can be helped out in the sun now.

It didn't take long for such a bitter day, and misfortune came to this family. The eldest daughter-in-law got lupus erythematosus after less than two years of marriage, and it is difficult to take care of herself by drugs all day. She has a grandson to support. The eldest son saw that the family was burdened with heavy expenses, so he had no choice but to work hard outside to earn money to support his family. Take care of my mother-in-law in a mansion at home, take care of my daughter-in-law and grandson at home, and run up and down all day I do housework and farm work every day, but also take care of the elderly, eat and drink Lazar, wash and cook for my family, and raise grandchildren. Before going to bed at night, I must go to the old man's kang and ask, "Is it hot or cold? Do you want something to eat? " I have never complained for many years, but whenever I have been to her house, the old man will say to everyone, "My eldest son is lucky and has met a good wife. There are still a few people my age who are not all dead. If my daughter-in-law was not good, I would have watched him go, and the grass on the grave had grown into trees! " As long as people who are familiar with her talk about _ _, everyone gives a thumbs-up and praises her as a good wife and mother-in-law.

But fate always plays tricks on people, and it rains all night. Because two patients lie at home all the year round, they have to rely on drugs to maintain, and at the same time they have to save money for their youngest son's wife. The husband and wife have been overworked for a long time, and his high surplus grain finally can't support it. He had a cerebral infarction in _ _ years. After treatment, he still couldn't move, and his speech was slurred, so he could only do some light work. She was tired and fell ill, which undoubtedly added insult to injury to her family. Everyone felt sorry for her and worried about her, but she stood up again and again and fought against her fate. She often says to herself, "I can't fall, I can't fall, and if I fall, the house will really collapse." When people talk to her about her family, many people say, "I can't stand a situation like yours for a long time." But she said, "No matter what, people have to live and life has to end. See how hard it can be! " Although it is bitter now, it will definitely get better in the future. With a sweet and happy smile on her face, she is full of confidence and yearning for strangers, dreaming that her family's life will be happy.

A woman has to take care of her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law's grandson, but also raise pigs, cows and chickens. She is busy all day and relies on her hardworking hands to support this family. Although her family is in a difficult situation, she can't stop working all day, but she still tries to help her neighbors. Whoever has a wedding, funeral and marriage, who has difficulties in life, will always have her figure among those who help.

_ _ Respect for the elderly and love for the young, unite with neighbors, work hard to get rich, strive for self-reliance, have a strong sense of family responsibility and good moral sentiments, and _ _ spirit is interpreted as "respect, kindness, self-improvement and tolerance". She is such a kind and strong woman. Facing the misfortune of this kind of life, she still pursues the family "happy dream" of ordinary rural women with a strong heart.

On the personal advanced deeds of the most beautiful wife.

_ _ _ _ _ is an ordinary peasant woman in Shang Ping Village, the town of _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _.

19___ married her husband _ _, and they have four daughters after marriage. 10 June, a disaster fell from the sky, and her husband _ _ was accidentally hit by a stone and injured his spine when the production team was carrying out farmland infrastructure construction. From then on, in order to treat her husband, she borrowed money everywhere and sought medical advice. Although her husband's condition has improved, she can't keep doing farm work. The burden of one thousand pounds fell on _ _. Not only does she have to work in the fields to solve the problem of food and clothing at home, but she also has to take care of her sick husband and her 70-year-old mother-in-law and seek medical advice, and she has to work hard to send her four daughters to school. At that time, the hardships endured by a weak rural woman can be imagined! However, in order to make a living, _ _ did not fall. She earns work points during the day and saves money by playing straw mats at night. Seeing his wife so lucky, her husband repeatedly advised her to give up treating him, but stubborn _ _ said, "As long as you have a breath, no matter how hard and tired you are, you will be cured;" I can't read all my life, and I have to sell iron to read for my children. " Under her careful care, her husband's condition gradually improved. Influenced by their mothers, the three daughters are clever and sensible, study hard, and have been admitted to middle schools and universities one after another, which undoubtedly brings hope for life to _ _. However, 20 years later, the 93-year-old mother-in-law was paralyzed in bed due to illness, and her husband suffered from gastric ulcer, gallstones and diabetes. She suffered all her life, and she was in trouble again in her sixties. She has to dress them, feed them medicine, cook and wash clothes, and take time off to work in the fields. Especially in the three years when my mother-in-law was paralyzed in bed, she always carried excrement and urine, scrubbed and rolled over. In order not to let the mother-in-law in bed skin fester, she changed the sheets every day, kept the bed clean and tidy, and insisted on sleeping with her mother-in-law at night until she gave up her old age. After her mother-in-law left, _ _ was still busy seeking medical advice for her husband and taking good care of her daily life. The farm work at home never falls. At first, seeing her working so hard, people with "good intentions" advised her to remarry. However, the kind-hearted _ _ always said this: "I can't bear to see my mother-in-law and husband leave so pitifully, and my conscience is uneasy." As long as their illness can be cured, it's nothing for me to suffer and be tired again. " _ _ said so and did the same.

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Understanding of the personal advanced deeds of the most beautiful daughter-in-law Part III

"The _ _ family's daughter-in-law is too powerful, good for her old man's house and good for her neighbors." In Fuping Village, Shilong Town, _ _ _ _, everyone speaks of _ _ _'s daughter-in-law, and they all give a thumbs up.

_ _ is from Loudi, Hunan Province, and Chen is from Fuping Village, Shilong Town, _ _ City. 20__, they met and fell in love in Suzhou because of their working relationship. In _ _ _, they went back to _ _ to register for marriage, and _ _ followed her husband back to Fuping Village to live. In _ _ _, two sons of _ _ were born one after another. She runs a kindergarten in the village and organizes relatives and friends to help people in need around her. Under her leadership, the Chen family is happy, the neighbors are harmonious and help each other. Recently, _ _ family was rated as "the most beautiful family" in our city.

"It is a blessing for my family to meet such a daughter-in-law."

Leaving home to live in _ _ _, _ _ didn't spend too much time to adapt, because she has a good mother-in-law, Aunt Yang. The first difficulty _ _ faces is the language barrier. When she first arrived in Fuping Village, she had to stay at home because she was unfamiliar with the environment and had poor communication. The inadaptability of _ _ caught Aunt Yang's attention. After a period of observation, Aunt Yang took the initiative to shoulder the heavy responsibility of "matchmaking", and she often visited her neighbors with _ _.

"Director, bring your daughter-in-law out again!" Aunt Yang has worked in the village committee for more than 20 years. In recent years, she served as the director of women in the village Committee and got along well with the villagers. With the help of Aunt Yang, lively, cheerful, diligent and generous _ _ gradually became one with the villagers. _ _ is very filial. She takes the initiative to do housework on weekdays. She doesn't forget to buy clothes for the elderly and take care of her grandfather who is over 70 years old during the Spring Festival. In _ _, Aunt Yang went to the People's Hospital of _ _ for glaucoma surgery. _ _ She took care of Aunt Yang in every possible way, and all the patients in the same ward admired her with envy: "This daughter-in-law is just like her own daughter, even closer than her own daughter."

"My daughter-in-law is very kind, filial and capable. I like it very much. " Aunt Yang took _ _ by the hand and said.

"My mother-in-law is also very kind to me. The first time I went home, I was worried that my' explosive head' would be annoying. I didn't expect her to be very open-minded and very good to my foreign daughter-in-law. " I was very happy when I heard my mother-in-law praise herself and talked about her first visit to Chen family. The villagers are always enthusiastic about their newly-married daughters-in-law. Until _ _ took his son back to Hunan to visit relatives, he could still hear the voice of the villagers teasing-"Xiaoyan, will you bring your son back?" "Director, aren't you afraid that your daughter-in-law will take your grandson away and bring it back?" Every time I hear the ridicule of the villagers smiling, _ _ mother-in-law replies, "I don't want to leave such a good mother-in-law." "I am relieved to have such a good daughter-in-law."

_ _ My husband and I have known each other for 10 years, and they have always taken care of each other; Married to Fuping Village for 8 years, _ _ got along well with her husband's family, and the family never blushed because of trivial matters in life. Under the education of _ _, her children are also very filial to their elders and often help the elderly to beat their backs and pinch their legs. The family also drove around on holidays, which made all the people happy. _ _ In order to close the affection between family members, family members who are far away from Hunan have been invited to _ _ for many times.

"Since childhood, my mother has taught us to be filial to the elderly and to be filial to our in-laws after marriage. Just like my parents, I also educate my children in this way. " _ _ said.

"We are so lucky to meet such kind people."

"Their home is really difficult. If they want to help, then help a little. " When it comes to the families I have sponsored, _ _ cried.

By chance, _ _ saw a crowdfunding message in the circle of friends: a primary school student in Tanghuang village next door was scalded, and his condition was critical and he needed a lot of treatment. _ _ My family and I put forward the idea of funding, and my family supported it. So, _ _ took relatives and friends to Tanghuang Village to check the situation on the spot. Confirmed by the village Committee, the injured child surnamed Dai, his father was blind, his mother was mentally abnormal, and the family conditions were very difficult. After confirming the authenticity of the message, _ _ through the WeChat circle of friends

Online channels such as mobilizing relatives and friends to donate money and materials, Chen's husband also mobilized his colleagues in the rural Taobao system to donate together. _ _'s loving behavior infected the people around him, and they also extended a helping hand. It turns out that as early as _ _ _ _, _ _ had already started to do charity work with his family. She learned from a friend that two girls in a nearby junior high school were facing dropping out of school because of family difficulties. After consulting with her husband, Qi Li, a family member, sponsored two girls to complete their junior high school education.

When she became a mother, she paid more attention to her children. She found that most of the children in the village are left-behind children, living with grandparents. She decided to start a kindergarten. _ _ rented a private house near the village Committee compound, renovated it, recruited teachers and students, and the kindergarten was set up. Children in the village can go to nearby kindergartens to reduce the burden on their parents and improve safety. With the efforts of _ _, the reputation of kindergartens is getting better and better, especially for parents who work outside the home. _ _ I know that children's growth is inseparable from their parents' care, and left-behind children are more eager for their parents' care. She establishes communication platforms such as WeChat group and QQ group for each class, organizes video calls between students and parents from time to time, and shares photos of students studying and living in the park in the group.

Understanding of the personal advanced deeds of the most beautiful daughter-in-law Part IV

Recently, the author came to a resident's home in _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ Town. The courtyard was clean, tidy, spacious and bright, with a brick structure. As soon as I entered the room, I was puzzled: when the solar terms are not cold, the kang in the room is _ _, and the heating is also hot.

_' s father-in-law, Zhao, is 9 1 year old this year. Shortly after her marriage with her husband, her parents-in-law have been in poor health and often get sick. My father-in-law suffered from severe cerebral infarction at the age of 63. It's too cold on a hot day. I'm covered with a quilt and my home is burning with a kang. The husband is an only child. He has been living with his parents-in-law since he got married. In order to let the two old people live a comfortable and happy life in their later years, _ _ discussed with her husband that she would quit her beloved job and do her best to honor the old people. The reasonable husband quickly agreed. With the growth of age, the two old people are getting weaker every day. 1999, _ _' s mother-in-law passed away. In March, 2000, my father-in-law was diagnosed with severe cerebral infarction, with more and more obvious symptoms, aggravated illness, unclear language, inconvenient movement and withdrawn personality. _ _ and her husband often send my father-in-law to the hospital for treatment, and then go home to rest after getting well. _ _ Go to the hospital every week to get enough medicine for my father-in-law. Now my father-in-law can't take care of himself by eating and drinking. _ _ Take turns to accompany her husband. _ _ said: "As a daughter-in-law, you should treat your father-in-law as your own father, just hoping that the family can live in harmony and live happily together." She said so and did the same.

_ _ The first thing after getting up every day is to boil hot water for my father to wash his face, wash eggs and water, and supplement the nutrition needed by the body. When the weather is hot, she and her husband often scrub the elderly for fear of bedsores. In order to make my father-in-law eat more and be strong, _ _ changed ways to cook all kinds of delicious food for his father-in-law, and fed the elderly with food and water three times a day. All kinds of fruits are available all year round. When my father-in-law is in a bad mood, he sometimes complains with _ _. Suffered a little injustice, she didn't know how many times she cried secretly outside, but she didn't complain about her father-in-law's complaints at all, and she still waited on him carefully as always. I bought my father-in-law a radio to make him happy and help him relieve his depression. My father-in-law wants to listen to the news, and let him listen to the new things that have happened in the country recently. A TV set is specially installed in my father-in-law's room, so that my father-in-law can watch TV and enjoy family happiness when he is bored. My father-in-law said to everyone, "I am so filial to my daughter-in-law, which is my blessing as an elder." I want to live well and strive to live to 100 years old. "

_ _ and her husband's contribution to the elderly also infected and educated their children. _ _' s two children are always fighting to breast-feed their grandfather, winning the praise of their neighbors. _ _ and her husband believe that it is everyone's duty and responsibility to honor the elderly. As parents, we should set a good example for our children, because everyone will be old one day.

From 17, _ _ takes care of my father-in-law like this. Up to now, three generations of grandparents and grandchildren have lived in harmony, and Shiliba Village has also sung the story of filial piety to the elderly.

Understanding of the personal advanced deeds of the most beautiful daughter-in-law Part V

It's hard to believe that my mother-in-law would live happily in bed if she hadn't been taken good care of by her daughter-in-law 17 years. When we walked into her bedroom, we saw an old lady lying on her back, her eyes were working normally, her face was rosy, her hair was not shaved, and all kinds of electrical appliances in the bedroom were in good order. A ward that has been lying in bed for 17 years has not smelled anything unusual.

The old lady's name is _ _, and she is a retired worker of the county machinery factory. She is 80 years old and has a daughter and two sons. At the age of 32, her husband died. For the sake of her children, she was widowed for life and raised three children alone. Overwork, physical overdraft, stroke at the age of 55. She has been in bed for 17 years and can't take care of herself.

As the saying goes, there is no dutiful son in front of the bed. As the eldest daughter-in-law, from the moment she married her husband, she consciously assumed the responsibility of taking care of her mother-in-law. As an audit cadre, he is very busy and tired. As the head of an audit department, the responsibility is great and the requirements are higher. In order to ensure the mother-in-law's normal eating, drinking and living, care and work are both correct. _ _ Discuss with the aunt who didn't go to work and take turns to take care of her mother-in-law. At ordinary times, I take care of it at home, and when I go out to audit or audit work is busy, I will take care of it by my aunt. The mother-in-law stayed in bed for seventeen years, and the daughter-in-law took care of it wholeheartedly for seventeen years.

In 2000, _ _ suddenly lost the ability to move his right hand and right foot, so he relied on people to take care of him. _ _ My husband and I take turns to sleep with my mother every night, get up every half hour or so, and help my mother get up to relieve herself. Sometimes my mother will go to bed if she can't solve it well, and her clothes will be dirty, so _ _ will wash and change her clothes carefully ... In this way, the patient has no consciousness of taking care of her children, has a bad temper, and only shouts when she is uncomfortable, and her intelligence is not as good as that of a 3-year-old child. But _ _ always takes great pains, although I can't sleep for more than 3 hours every night.

20 12 10 month, _ _ suddenly speechless, can only express his thoughts with his eyes. _ _ Every day, I take turns to stay in front of my mother-in-law's bed with my aunt. With affectionate call, careful care and touching sky, my mother-in-law who has been silent for 25 days speaks.

With the growth of age, I have been in bed for many years and my hands and feet are weak. I ask for help when I can't hold my mother-in-law. In the past two years, in order to take better care of her mother-in-law, _ _ and her husband have implemented a clear division of labor, one is responsible for holding and the other is responsible for washing.

One is inside and the other is outside. _ _ In addition to auditing, I can hardly go out and watch my mother-in-law every day. Clothes and beds are dirty, change them at any time. _ _ paralysis 17 years, under the care of a family, never had bedsores.

It is a very troublesome thing to breast-feed the elderly who have suffered a stroke. When the illness is serious, pry the old man's mouth open first, and then feed the soup with a spoon. _ _ has poor chewing ability and can only eat soft food. In order to increase the nutrition for her mother-in-law, _ _ guarantees to eat an egg and drink bone soup for the elderly every day, _ _ has to be hospitalized several times a year, and the family will take care of it together in the hospital.

Although taking care of her mother-in-law has spent too much energy, it has never affected the audit work. _ _ In thirty-two years of audit work, I have been diligent. She has been a department head for thirteen years, and always leads the department staff to complete various audit tasks well. Individuals have been rated as advanced workers and outstanding civil servants by the county government and audit institutions for many times.

20 13 _ _ had high fever, heart failure and was hospitalized again. The attending doctor said, "I'm afraid it's hard for the old man to save his life this time." But after 78 days of treatment by doctors, especially the careful care of _ _ and his aunt, _ _ was safely discharged from the hospital. The attending doctor said to _ _ "We really admire you for being a good wife and sincerely wish your mother-in-law such a good wife. Your mother-in-law can come back to life these days, and her spirit is getting better and better. Practice has proved that careful nursing can also make people live longer. "

Today, _ _ _'s mother-in-law _ _ old man still lives happily in her bedroom.