About lending money to parents' family problems 50 points.

First of all, your filial piety touched me very much! At least I have never given my parents such a large sum of money, even if it is borrowed!

Your parents also understand your difficulties, so they euphemistically accepted the money to borrow money to pay off debts!

Palm behind your back, I can't owe you for your brother!

Now that the money has been decided to give to parents, and it is borrowed! Then your parents and your brother should remind you of this first. Now that my sister-in-law is married, she should know the financial situation of her small family! Although 65438+ ten thousand is a lot, they are all so young that they can be paid back in less than two years! So it's right for your brother to tell his sister in law!

Then ask your parents to pay you back some money first!

As an adult, your brother should know that the money should be repaid by him. As long as he is not a hooligan, he should know what to do.

At the same time, I suggest you don't give so much at a time, but give less. On the one hand, you should guard against accidents and have an emergency plan.

On the other hand, if you and your brother have brains, and he is ready to pay the bill, it won't hurt your feelings and bring it to you.

economic pressures

Your parents should have known each other when they borrowed money. You can pay back some urgent money first! Pay the rest slowly! As long as you don't breach the contract!

Try to handle it peacefully!

I wish your family happiness!