Suppressing the sadness of love: What steps have you taken from friends to ex-boyfriends?

1. I can't give you the best things in the world, but I will give you all my best.

Where did you get such a good temper? This is all because I love you.

I've never been afraid of police, hooligans or parents. The only thing I'm afraid of is my wife!

What I want to say most is in my eyes, in my manuscript box and in my dream.

5. "Do you send me anonymous messages like me?" "Stop it, how can it be?" "Stop it, you are the only girl in QQ."

6. I hope that one day after a certain year, I can send a status saying: Shit, I actually married him.

7. You kissed my lips, but I'm not your favorite person.

8. If what you gave me was also given to others, I would rather not. It is not terrible not to get it. It would be a joke if I couldn't stay.

9. Dare you let me live an inch in the fourth rib of your left chest?

10. You can't say that you can only love one person in your life. It's impossible. However, there must be someone who can make you laugh the most brilliantly, cry the most thoroughly and remember the most deeply.

1 1. Call your husband and behave yourself; If you call your wife, you will be responsible to the end.

12. Didn't the teacher teach you? If you can't do the problem, just jump to the back. If you can't catch up, find another one!

13. You slapped me, but I asked you why your hands were so cold.

14. If you can't quarrel with your daughter-in-law, hug or press against the wall and kiss.

15. Boys are subtraction. At first, it seemed that every girl scored 100. When you find the shortcomings, you will gradually reduce them until you fail, and you will break up! And girls are addition. At first, boys got lower marks. After getting along, they gradually get extra points and love more and more! So in the end, most of the people who suffer the most are girls.

16. "I will accompany you for a long time", "How long will I accompany you" and "Is it enough to bury you?"

17. Find a friend, find a boyfriend, salute and shake hands until you are single.

18. I want to scream when you are drunk and sigh when you are sober.

19. The most vicious spell: I hope that after many years, you will die of a broken heart and think of me.

20. You never know how much you can love someone. You don't know how much you love until you watch him fall in love with someone else.

Dreaming about an ex-boyfriend

Many years later, I dreamed of my ex-boyfriend and told Lao Tzu that I love you! This not only stabbed the heart, but also stabbed the lungs! I hate to admit it, but I am so spineless, so I will take it from him! Dreams are sweet, and dreams awaken the soul.

Dreaming about an ex-boyfriend

I just dreamed that my ex-boyfriend got married. I bought him a box full of wedding gifts. When did I become so rich? Why don't I know?

Second, I dreamed that my ex-boyfriend chased Nima all night and kept running! When I woke up and found my husband around, I was relieved. Go back to sleep ~

I dreamed of my ex-boyfriend last night. He has become my favorite appearance again. He wears gold-rimmed glasses and smiles politely and powerfully. He took me to ride a roller coaster. I woke up and looked at his penguin. Son, it was just a dream.

4. Recently, I dreamt about people I shouldn't dream about twice in a row, either because I heard a friend complain that I miss my ex-boyfriend too much, or because I saw a male guest who Han Zong felt wavering like him. It's been two years, and I don't know what I'm thinking.

I often dream about him recently. My friend told me that dreaming of my ex-boyfriend means that I am forgetting him and about to start a new life.

6. Dreaming that your ex-boyfriend brought his girlfriend to meet you? I kept hiding and woke up the next morning with swollen eyes. What have I done?

Hey, I'm so angry. I just dreamed that my ex-boyfriend wrote me an apology. When I looked at the words on the envelope, I was moved to tears. Just as I was about to open the letter, my roommate woke me up with an exclamation. I woke up in my morning shorts and slept in a small bed in my bedroom.

8. What the hell is it to dream of a blind date with an ex-boyfriend at night? The key is to see the shadow of ex-boyfriend in ex-boyfriend

9. I dreamed of my ex-boyfriend on Monday morning, which was so unlucky that I was urging me to burn paper for him again.

Ten, I often dream at night, dreaming that my ex-boyfriend has been sending QQ to criticize my shortcomings. It turned out that he caused me a lot of psychological shadows after all.

1 1. I dreamed that my ex-boyfriend's GpS positioning was so mean that she monitored and peeked at others' privacy. And tried to frame his current girlfriend for being arrested by his assistant. I didn't say a word, thinking he was so mean!

12. I dreamed that my ex-boyfriend died of a heart attack ~ ~ Am I too vicious ~ ~ But I checked with Duke Zhou and said that the person I dreamed of would live a long and healthy life. Is that me or him?

Thirteen, I was woken up after sleeping for half an hour, dreaming that my ex-boyfriend married someone else. Is this implying something to me ~

14. I dreamed of crispy rice last night, and then the room was full of dog hair. I continued to mop the floor and then went back to sleep. The rice crust sleeps next to me. He seems to be comforting me, but I can feel that he is very dependent on me, and I have been putting up with his mischief. I also dreamed that my ex-boyfriend scolded me and said that I was still not in love. Then I dreamed that Zhao Tie changed the name of WeChat and changed her avatar to a girl. When I got up in the morning, I decided to look at Gu Cheng's poems and always have some fun for myself.

15. If you dream of someone you haven't contacted for a long time, that person is forgetting you. I suddenly remembered dreaming about my ex-boyfriend last night. ...

Sixteen, I dreamed that a lovely girl told me about her ex-boyfriend. Among them, a Japanese who looks like a young version of Dean Fujioka Tatsuo suddenly appeared when she was talking, holding my arm, with long eyelashes and tearful eyes.

Sometimes I dream of students, I don't know what kind of boyfriend a Taoist looks like, I dream of a rare ex-boyfriend, I dream of family adventures in the forest, and I dream of singing with Sun Chao all night.

Eighteen years old, dreaming of an ex-boyfriend is nothing to be afraid of. I dreamed of my first love! ! ! It's amazing.

Nineteen, I dreamed of getting back together with my ex-boyfriend last night. I really want to fall in love recently. However, my two love experiences did not last more than three months. I think I'm under a spell. I really want to talk about a love that is not short. There are still two months to go abroad. It doesn't hurt people. Take your time.

Twenty, I dreamed that Li Dan became my boyfriend. I don't know why I called my ex-boyfriend There are still people playing billiards nearby.

How about dreaming about various ex-boyfriends for several days in a row? Will they die in their dreams and say goodbye to me? !

Twenty-three, I dreamed that my ex-boyfriend was awakened by dragging my classmates to give me gifts ~

Twenty-four, watch the shredder before going to bed. Last night, I dreamed that a lot of snacks rolled on the conveyor belt. When I was reading a novel before going to bed, I dreamed of my ex-boyfriend. It seems that I should see Johnny more before I go to bed. Maybe it was Johnny's wife in my dream.

I ate a fried yogurt with melon seeds in it last night, and I didn't care. Then my throat tightened and itched. I didn't fall asleep at two o'clock in the morning. I finally fell asleep. I dreamed of seeing my ex-boyfriend on the road. I cried and held his hand, begging him not to go, and then asked myself, is this true? Of course it's fake. Can the world be better for me?

26. I dreamed that I asked a man for 5000 yuan because he was my ex-boyfriend or ex-husband. Then go to the grave with other men, and then ppp? And then hide in an ex-boyfriend or ex-husband's house. Strange dream.

Twenty-seven, he said just now, I want to tell you that dream I had last night! Nightmare! I dreamed that your ex-boyfriend came and lived in our house, sharing a room with you and your son! I am so angry! I just looked at my teammates silently and said nothing.

Twenty-eight, the second time I dreamed that my ex-boyfriend was with a woman with a dog, and I sent a picture of pyq. I think this dream is too much.

Twenty-nine, I dreamed that my ex-boyfriend got married, dressed as a couple with my wife, had a lovely daughter, and the family went out to travel happily.

30. I dreamed that I married my ex-boyfriend last night. When I ran to the church, I fell. He didn't come to help me, but ran away from my hand. At that time, I thought this person could not get married and ran away in a wedding dress, but I couldn't run away in a wedding dress, so I took off my wedding dress and ran away.

Thirty-one, sixth sense. I used to dream about my ex-boyfriend in a suit and tie. Actually, I seldom dream about him. After getting up, I was thinking, are you getting married? I got married a week later. When I was working in Qingdao, my mind suddenly flashed: I'm leaving my job, and I'll be informed to transfer in a couple of days. I didn't want to go to Guangzhou, so I resigned. Two days ago, when the bus was approaching the station, it suddenly occurred to me that I wouldn't meet an airline brother when I got off the bus. As a result, a young man got off the bus and was waiting for the bus with an overnight box. I looked at him with shocked eyes. He looks confused. I suddenly came to work this afternoon: I won't meet XXX here, will I? What do so many acquaintances in Yantai think of him? Besides, how did he get here? Two hours later, I looked up and lay down! ! ! ! ! Alas, these are meaningless premonitions, but I really didn't deliberately think about anyone or anything.

Thirty-two, I met Brother Ying and went home to dream of my ex-boyfriend. Sure enough, my home.

33. I dreamed of my ex-boyfriend. He bought tickets for the performance in order to take me to Children's Day on June 1st. I'm afraid I'll find my fleshy face worried. In my dream, he was still the one who was very kind and considerate to me. Long time no contact, I wish him happiness and find someone better than me.

Thirty-four, I dreamed that I was sleeping with my ex-boyfriend in a strange place, during which people kept coming in, and one of my primary school classmates threw me a kebab and left ... damn it. I slept so well these two nights that I didn't dream or wake up after taking medicine all night, but I was a little dizzy during the day.

35. Last night, I dreamed that my ex-boyfriend broke up with my current girlfriend because her ex-boyfriend suddenly bent, and then I woke up laughing, hahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

I had a horrible dream. My ex-boyfriend sent a picture in a circle of friends. I thought it was beautiful, so I took it. As a result, my friend told me why he sent his girlfriend's photo to a circle of friends and woke me up.

Thirty-seven, I immediately thought that I used to dream about my ex-boyfriend cheating almost every time. So for me, ex-boyfriend = source of harm.

How to save your ex-boyfriend four strokes to successfully save your ex-boyfriend

Many friends asked me how I saved my ex-boyfriend, so I want to share here how I saved Mingming.

Mingming and I have been together for more than two years. He chased me, but it didn't take much effort. After all, I was the first to be tempted, and I always carried it green, but it didn't take long. In less than a month, I surrendered and went to eat fried chicken hand in hand with him.

Obviously a typical pragmatist. At the beginning, when we are together, at my strong request, we can play a little romance. Later, we gradually began to be practical. When buying a gift, ask directly what you lack. Any oven or juicer can be used as a gift. Going to the movies, popcorn and potato chips are junk food, which is expensive and nutritious. You have to buy it yourself. Fortunately, he is handsome and considerate at ordinary times. When he was ill, he was caring and attentive, and even did laundry and cooked. So sometimes, although I am unhappy, and in this relationship, I value him more, and I am more afraid of losing than him.

It's just that during this time, he has become less and less interested in me. That weekend, he came to see me as usual. We had a meal together and came back after eating. I've been playing games since I came back. Tell him to ignore it. I suggest that while the weather is just right, we look around and find a place to have a drink. He wants to play games and has no time.

We only meet once a week, and he plays games almost every time he comes over. I finally couldn't help it. The eldest lady had a big temper and broke up.

He paused for a long time before saying, are you serious?

All right, let's break up. I regretted it at that time, but I couldn't pull my face down. I have to bite the bullet and go on.

He didn't say anything, packed his things and left directly.

I regret it at the moment, but I can't just go back to him. I turned off my cell phone and refrained from calling him. I have a hunch that I will go back to him now, and he will have the final say in the future.

I searched the internet, found a lot of big moves, bought a lot of books about how to get along, and finally made a three-month recovery plan.

The first stage: disconnection (key: emotional control)

From now on, stop all contacts, prohibit all stalking and beating, and take a step back to exchange.

I locked everything he gave me in the drawer and stopped thinking about him. The best way to be lovelorn is to let go and move on. If he still loves you, he will follow in your footsteps. If he doesn't, looking forward will make him better and meet better people.

On the fourth day of breaking up, Mingming took the initiative to chat with me on WeChat. I took my mobile phone, typed it, and immediately deleted it. I stared at the avatar in the upper left corner of the screen, which is a pair with my avatar. I'm afraid I can't hold back and call my best friend for help.

Turn off WeChat and read a book. If you dare come back, we will break up! My best friend shouted on the other end of the phone.

I grabbed the palm of my right hand with my left thumb, suppressed my crazy thoughts, turned off WeChat and started reading.

I bought a lot of books about how to get along, and learned more about how to get along, how to manage each other's expectations, how to manage each other's conflicts and control their emotions.

I have to say that managing your expectations is a battle with yourself. The hard part is that the main opponent here is yourself, and it is too painful to deny yourself. And managing your own expectations is a compulsory course to obtain good intimacy.

The second stage: transformation

I signed up for a French class and have always been interested in French. This time, I used the opportunity of breaking up with him to make time to study. On the holiday weekend, I invited three or five friends to play. On the one hand, I can spend less time thinking about him. On the other hand, I can enrich myself and improve myself.

Because the place where I go to work and attend classes is not far from where I live, I always take two pairs of shoes out, a pair of small high heels and a pair of sports shoes, and run to work and attend classes. I remember who said that exercise can make a person emit positive energy. Of course, I exercise for another purpose to lose weight.

Although I can't get in touch, the best way to let them know my recent situation is to send a circle of friends. Every three to five days, I photographed my recent positive state, especially the sunny and pure side after changing my dressing style and making friends.

The third stage: restoring friendship and interaction

One day two months later, his mother was ill, and he invited me to see her. His words are so sincere that I can't refuse them. His mother has always liked me. Because of his mother's poor health, he has been afraid to tell her after breaking up for so long. I consulted Mr. Lenggai, and I went with the teacher's permission.

On the way back from visiting menstruation, he tried to hold my hand, but I gently avoided him: what happened between us will be told to menstruation sooner or later.

He paused, looked at me for a long time, nodded and said, have you changed?

How did it become?

It seems that you don't need me to be independent and strong ... I don't know, you are beautiful now.

I looked at him, expecting him to continue, but he said nothing. I looked up at the sky to hide my disappointment.

Active, passive for life. Believe in yourself and stick to it. Whether he finally comes back to you or not, after these four stages, your life will get better and better only after you have a full heart and know how to control your emotions. I wrote this sentence on a post-it note and put it on the dresser to remind myself.

Mingming and I are still friends. I will accept his separate invitation, but I insist on being friends.

When we met, we didn't ask him if he had any new objects. I talked to him from far away about everything to avoid getting back together, and talked about the reasons for breaking up at the beginning. Even when I was mentioned, he cleverly avoided it.

Once he took me home, went downstairs to my house and said he wanted to sit up for a while. I looked at him affectionately and finally sighed: forget it, we have broken up.

Yes, we broke up. He let me go. Go home. I'll watch you go up.

When I got home, I kept telling myself: stable, his language is ambiguous and his behavior is intimate, which doesn't mean he wants to get back together. I want to be patient and unwavering until he thinks clearly about being with me. If he doesn't look back, it's his loss, not mine!

This is probably the most difficult stage. You can be as hard as iron when you don't meet. I can't help shaking every time I'm with him.

The fourth stage: art negotiation

At this stage, you can have some intimate contact, you can guide him slowly, make him more and more infatuated with me, but you can't kiss or even cross the line. If the other person is dishonest, I can pretend that it's all right and avoid it with a smile.

Every date, I will obviously send me back, and sometimes I will take the initiative to kiss me, but I will avoid it: this is not good, we have broken up, and I don't want to do this anymore.

So ambiguous for a period of time, a Mid-Autumn night, we went to a western restaurant by the river. After dinner, we chatted hand in hand on the railing by the river and drank some wine. The lighting atmosphere is romantic and ambiguous, which makes people unable to extricate themselves. I let go of the bottom line and kissed him, but he offered to go to a nearby hotel and he refused: I don't want us to be friends. I really enjoy the wonderful feeling of being with you, and I hope to give each other one.

After that night, he ignored me for two days.

Hang in there. If he really loves me, he will come to me.

Three days later, he finally came to me and expressed his hope to start over with me. I told him: Yesterday my cousin said she would help me with a blind date. Can I say that we are back together, so that I can refuse her? Otherwise, she will keep introducing, and it is difficult to push.

Well, that's it. We're back together.

What are the standard routines for saving ex-boyfriends?

1, save ex-boyfriend

After three years together, I can't let him go. He said I had no passion, but the first three years were really happy. I feel his love and don't want to give up this relationship. How can I win his heart back? We are not separated because of a third party.

First of all, I want to talk about the most important principles. People's emotional state is always changing. What that person says all the time only represents that state. Your boyfriend says he has no passion and doesn't love you. You must bravely admit the fact that he doesn't love you at this moment.

But if you really don't want to sail against the current, I think it's ok, so you can only trust me unconditionally in the next step, and you can only do less but not more.

First, don't show any emotions that you want to keep forcibly. The simpler the reply, the better. For example:

I respect your decision and thank you for bringing me these wonderful three years. This is my most precious memory. Take care, bye!

Then delete all contact information and don't give him any chance to explore your emotions.

Second, calm down and start thinking, "What attracted your boyfriend when he met you three years ago?" "What are your advantages? Three years have passed, are these things still there? 」

The numbers have changed and the transformation has begun again. My mood changed, and I began to adjust and socialize actively again. This kind of beauty cosmetics should be bought at once. It's time to call a friend and have the cheek at once.

Remember that you have touched his charm, enriched it, and then added an appearance change to strengthen it.

Third, this estimate is the stage you care most about, that is, you can appear in front of him.

The only thing you have to do is to get to know him again, and your past will be completely cleared up after half a year. Even if he has had negative memories of you, as long as you walk beautifully and have no entanglements, your position will be more and more favorable. So if you want to have a good start, how can you doubt that an old friend has come to see you?

Please use your intelligence according to the actual situation!

For example:

You have the same friends bureau.

It's really impossible for your * * * friends to take photos with you in the circle of friends. Note that you don't want people to notice the completion of the purpose, rather than letting everyone know. )

Update Weibo with a new image.

Really can't. Pretending to have accidentally browsed his Weibo, I fell in love with it. (worst policy)

In short, it is to create all the opportunities you are familiar with, let him pay attention to you, and guide him to discover your changes.

Then the recovery help.

Fourth, show your superior value and reflect the quality of each meeting.

When you come and ask me when I can be with him again, I can only wipe my sweat gently.

Girl, at this moment, the choice is yours. Repeat after me, "I'm not the same as before. I want to take another look and make a choice. " 」

Please seriously think about whether this person who pursues you again is the one you have been thinking about. Please break your limitations and see if there are other possibilities in the outside world.

This time, the choice is yours.

If you can really do as I say, maybe you can find something more interesting than finding a boyfriend, and then at that time, if this man is still worthy of your continued love, congratulations.

As long as you don't die, it's not over. Let's go

2. Beijing girls find foreign boyfriends.

I'm from Beijing, and I also go to college in Beijing. Boyfriend is a classmate. However, relatives at home have always thought not to find boyfriends from other places, for fear of being used as a springboard to take root in Beijing. But we really fell in love. I will graduate from my senior year soon, and now I am really confused. What should I do?

Your parents' ideas are fine. How do you know whether this man has a crush on you or your household registration and house? After all, housing prices in Beijing have now risen to the sky, with tens of millions of houses at every turn. Marrying a Beijing wife is really a virtue accumulated in my last life, saving me decades of struggle.

To put it bluntly, what your parents care about is not that he is a foreign hukou, but the economic conditions of his family. Imagine, if he is the son of Wenzhou boss, worth hundreds of millions, will your parents still object to his being a foreign hukou?

Today, I watched If Love Is Destiny again. I suggest you also have a look. Is the love between a rich girl and a poor boy worth insisting on?

Step 3 meet a male god

I often meet that boy at school. It's been half a month. I accidentally got the contact information again. After chatting for a week, I found that this person is also very interesting and beautiful. The topic I am looking for is boring, but he will still answer seriously and chat back and forth. Asked why he didn't have a girlfriend, he said that he felt good alone and could do whatever he wanted. He asked me, and I said I didn't like it before, and it felt wrong. He said that fate would come slowly, and he told me to wait for the only thrill to come to me. How can I keep flirting with him? I will graduate from college in more than a year, and I don't want to give up the last person I felt.

Encounter? What chance encounter? Why don't I know?

One day, a girl took the initiative to add me to WeChat. The photos looked ordinary and not ugly, but they didn't reach the point where I was moved. I spoke to her out of courtesy. I have nothing to do anyway. It's better to talk to someone than to stay alone.

But after talking for a while, I felt something was wrong. She even asked me if I had a girlfriend. Oh, no, I must find a way. What if she wants me to be her boyfriend? Then tell him that I'm fine now and I can do whatever I want. I hope it won't hurt his pride. After all, I am a polite and cultured boy, and I can't let her think that I am a love rat. If this gets around, how can I seduce the goddess in the future? And in order to change the subject, I also asked her this question, and hinted that fate would come slowly and ask her to wait for the right person to come to her.

My point is that if you are not completely sure of your face value, don't take the initiative to ask for contact information and seduce the male god. Otherwise, the result is that the friendship zone will not come out.

If you really want to fight for it again, try not to contact him first. During this time, try to improve your face value, then create an encounter, give him a surprise, and maybe have a chance.

4. Take the initiative to like comments

I just want to ask, what is the mentality of those boys who like or comment every time you send a circle of friends, but don't take the initiative to chat with you?

1, there are girls or girlfriends who have been close to each other, and it is inconvenient or not obvious to have an affair with other girls, so they eat what is in the bowl and watch what is in the pot.

I think you look ok and don't want to waste it, but you don't want him to take the initiative. I want to observe it for a while, in case there is something better.

He thinks you are unattainable and unworthy, and can only support you silently behind your back.