More and more in-laws are babysitting their sons and daughters-in-law? How to treat this phenomenon?

According to the statistics of China Health Department, the average life expectancy of China people has reached 72 years, which is much higher than that of previous years. China has gradually become an aging society. These professional data can probably explain the phenomenon that more and more in-laws are babysitting their children.

Because people's living conditions are getting better and better, the medical level has been greatly improved, and the pace of aging seems to have slowed down. A 55-year-old man may have a 30-year-old child. In today's society, a 55-year-old person is still in good health. In fact, people who often work and do manual labor are healthy and idle. Lying at home is harmful to the health of the elderly. So in order to keep healthy, my parents-in-law volunteered to be a nanny to take care of the children.

Secondly, there is too much social pressure now. At this stage, the young couple have two old people and two children. They may not be able to bear the pressure, so both old people can help, give up retirement and come to Wan Li to look after their children.

Furthermore, the society is generally aging, and the national law stipulates that the retirement age is 50 years old. A considerable number of people in our country have entered retirement age. Retired people have nothing to do. Except for sanitation workers who clean toilets and streets, few jobs are willing to recruit people over 50. Coupled with family pressure, the elderly on both sides take the initiative to look after their children, saving them from having to subsidize their families.

One of the problems of aging is also very serious. The one-child policy makes parents easy to get old and often separated from their children. Lonely old people pay most attention to companionship, and they very much hope that their families can enjoy family happiness around them, so it is also an emotional need to babysit their children. There is an uncle who usually lives with his grandchildren, but he is not used to it after he is separated from his children. As a result, he went back to take care of the children for two days when he was ill, and there was no pain, which also made people laugh and cry.