Brother is not short of bride price.

My brother came to borrow money from me two days ago, saying that marriage required a bride price, and that he needed to borrow 200,000 yuan to buy a house and pay a down payment. At that time, my husband was sitting next to me, and he looked unhappy when he heard that my brother wanted to borrow money.

In fact, my husband and I have a decent income. Together, their monthly income is about 15000 yuan. I am in charge of all the money in my family. After being married for more than six years, my husband and I have about 400,000 yuan in savings besides living expenses.

Our wedding room was bought by my husband and parents and paid in full at one time. There is no debt at home. A child is in kindergarten, and my mother-in-law is responsible for helping us pick up the child. With the joint efforts of the whole family, Qi Xin has lived a relatively stable and happy life in recent years.

Before marriage, my husband chased me for more than two years and was particularly infatuated with me. After the marriage, he also fulfilled his promise to marry me. After marriage, everything is under my command, which means that I am the owner of my own house. He only works to make money and doesn't have to worry about the rest.

In the eyes of others, I am also a hard-working woman, and it is my duty to take care of my in-laws and children. My husband often praises me as a capable and virtuous wife, and marrying me is his blessing. Married for more than six years, my husband has been taken care of by me. He is the owner of a cutting shop, and his family is very unique.

We have never had a formal quarrel in six years, but when I promised my brother 200 thousand yuan, my husband's face finally changed, and we ushered in the first fierce quarrel in more than six years.

I have loved my only brother since I was a child. As a sister, I should certainly give him some support when he gets married. When I gave this 0.2 million/200 thousand to my brother, I said it was a wedding gift for him and I didn't have to return it. This is a symbol of my sister's love.

When my husband heard that I was not borrowing but giving, he pulled me into the room on the spot and said he didn't agree with me. It makes me particularly uncomfortable to see my husband like this. Don't I have the final say in everything at home? Now that my brother is married, is it wrong for me to give him some money to support him?

We can make more money when we have no money, and our family is not short of money now. No one else can give it to my brother. What's the hurry? If one day my brother has a successful career and I have any difficulties as a sister, he will certainly help me as I helped him. Anyway, I am determined to give my brother 200 thousand.

My husband was so angry that he ran out of the door and didn't even come back for dinner. He didn't know where to fool around all night and didn't come back until the next morning. He still smells of feminine perfume. My husband has always been popular with women, but he has been self-respecting in recent years, but after the quarrel, he became angry with me, so he deliberately angered me. And recently, I think he has changed a little, and I suspect that he has gone outside to find another woman.

I really don't understand. I always keep my money at home. I don't give it to others, but to my most important relatives in this world. Why can't my husband understand my feelings as a sister? My brother knew that we had a quarrel because of him, so he returned the money to me, and I didn't accept it. If I do, do I still have the face to be his sister?

Later, my brother felt very embarrassed, so he wrote an iou to my husband, saying that he would pay off the money I gave him within five years. That day, I lost my temper with my husband again. I feel that he just paid lip service before, but in fact he didn't love me as promised. Why else would he be so hard on my family?

If my husband's family needs 200,000 yuan now, I must be obliged to take out the money, because my husband's relatives are my relatives! But why can't I treat my relatives and husband as my own relatives? I really don't understand why my husband is suddenly so unreasonable.