The importance and significance of children's housework

Experts pointed out that in the future society, physical health and labor consciousness will be the key to a person's success. So doing housework is a good way to exercise, so where is the importance of children doing housework? The following is the importance of doing housework for children. I hope I can help you.

The importance of children doing housework. Parents in China attach great importance to their children's intellectual development, but they don't know that the core of intelligence is thinking ability, and thinking activities cannot be separated from practical activities. In labor, children often encounter or discover new problems, which will lead to the need of his thinking. He must predict the results of labor and design ways to achieve his goals. When children overcome the difficulties in labor, solve the problems in labor and see the fruits of their own labor, they will get the joy of success, thus further stimulating their curiosity, improving their interest in learning and promoting their intellectual development. This process is difficult to achieve in other activities.

Labor develops skills. No matter what work children do in the future, they need practical ability. If parents consciously train their children to solve problems in their own lives from an early age, over time, children will form good habits of doing things, and they will be able to adapt to the needs of future social life and work.

Educator makarenko once drew a conclusion based on long-term research and observation: Children who get correct labor education at home will successfully complete their special education in the future. Children who have not received any labor training at home, despite the efforts of state organs to educate him, will not acquire good skilled skills, and will encounter various failures and become very bad workers.

Labor enhances the sense of responsibility. A mother was ill and asked her 14-year-old daughter to clear the table. The child replied coldly:? I'm not a nanny! ? Mother complained to the expert sadly, and the expert asked: Do you often ask your children to help you with housework? Mom said:? Never before have such parents always been afraid of delaying their children's study, fearing that their children will be tired and not giving them the opportunity to learn to do housework. Once parents need their children's help, children can't treat their parents and families with a high sense of responsibility, which will be considered unnecessary.

Housework is an effective way to cultivate children's sense of responsibility to their families and parents. Let the children undertake the housework within their power, and the children will gradually realize that they are indispensable and important members of the family, know that they should do something beneficial to others, and complete what they should do and what their parents entrust in accordance with the prescribed requirements and time. Without housework exercise, it is difficult for children to have this sense of responsibility.

The reason why children don't want to do housework is 1. Compulsory responsibility makes children rebel.

If parents want their children to do something, it's best to use emotions such as praise, approval, support and encouragement instead? Responsibility? This kind of pressure, if you always use parental authority, children may become exclusive or even rebellious under long-term coercion.

2. Children's achievements are despised or denied.

When we ask our children to help with housework, we are always worried that they will help us. This kind of worry is unconsciously revealed through our tone, attitude and impatience, which makes children feel that their help is unimportant and extra. For example, if the child is slow, we will show impatience, especially when we are in a hurry, we will always say: Forget it, let me do it, you can't do this! ? Even when we help children clean up the messy toys, we will show them: Look, I am much faster than you.

In children's eyes, it seems that there is no reason to help with housework for a long time, because adults can do it faster and better: setting the table, washing dishes, cleaning and taking out the garbage, all of which can be done easily by adults, as if asking children to help just gives them a chance to show off. Moreover, children are sensitive, and even very young children can clearly feel whether they really need their help. If they can't see that they are needed or affirmed, they naturally lose interest in this matter.

The importance of father's housework 1, and the amount of father's housework determines the daughter's career choice.

Many fathers don't like to do housework, and find various excuses to escape, such as being busy with work, socializing more, earning money to support their families and creating better living conditions for their children.

But, you know what? Every time I run away, it affects my daughter's future bit by bit.

The University of British Columbia conducted an experiment: observed 326 children aged 7 to 10 and their parents, and studied the influence of the amount and distribution of housework on children's career choices. The results were surprising.

If the father never does housework, the daughter will have the concept of inequality between men and women, and then when choosing a career, she will only dare to choose traditional female occupations such as nurses and housewives.

If mom and dad share housework at home, do laundry, cook and take care of the children, the daughter will not be bound by gender thinking when choosing a job, and dare to challenge traditional male occupations such as officers and CEO.

Dad's housework affects his daughter's marriage.

Housework reflects the trivial, subtle but ubiquitous efforts of all family members, and it is also an important experience of living together. Even a bachelor, as a self-reliant adult, takes it for granted to do housework, which is also an important part of daily life. Therefore, I think it is normal to do housework, which is beneficial to both men and women, and guides daughters to share housework equally with men and women.

3. Why does dad help with the children?

First of all, father is more concerned than mother about how to educate children. Do you have a score? .

Most mothers have high expectations for their children, but in actual education, mothers often appear unplanned. But fathers who prefer to take care of their children at home have a stronger purpose in educating their children. What qualities and talents the father wants to cultivate and develop are generally planned in his mind, while the mother is worse in this respect.

Secondly, in terms of educational content:

Father's knowledge is also relatively wider than mother's, and father is often better than mother in history, geography and philosophy. Therefore, fathers tell their children more historical stories, local customs and heroes. Mothers usually tell fairy tales to their children, which involve less history, geography and philosophy. This is a bit inferior in broadening children's horizons and enriching their knowledge.

On the way to education

Fathers generally encourage children to do things by themselves, while mothers prefer to help children do what they can; Fathers' unreasonable demands on their children are generally tough, while mothers tend to be soft-hearted. The father took the children to the streets, seeing more things and eating less snacks; When the mother took her children to the streets, she didn't see much and ate a lot of snacks.

physically

There is no need to keep it clean, so children often support playing with dirt and digging sand. British scientists have found that children who are too clean are not good for health. What's their conclusion? Dirty? Children are healthier. This is because if people are too clean and rarely touch bacteria and viruses, antibodies cannot be produced in the body. Once a large number of germs invade, they will be knocked down. So? Spotless? It is not good for children's growth. It seems that men's relaxed attitude towards children's health problems will help children's growth.

I like to take my children to run, swim, rock climb and play ball, which not only develops children's exercise habits, is good for their health, but also exercises their willpower invisibly.

On the Cultivation of Character

Men like the feeling of independence, so they will educate their children to be independent. Fathers often encourage their children to deal with problems independently, rather than doing everything, so there are fewer ingredients to spoil their children. Sometimes when the child falls down and doesn't cry, the mother rushes to help the child up, patting the soil and rubbing it, just rubbing the child's tears out.

Fathers are often not like this. They will say: Why don't you pay attention when you walk? Stand up and walk forward. I believe I will be successful this time. The child didn't cry, but stood up and walked forward. Father clapped his hands behind him and said, How brave! How brave! Let the children be confident.

Dare to take risks

Men like to take risks, so fathers will give appropriate encouragement to their children's adventurous behavior. If a child jumps off a high platform, the mother will often criticize him severely, while the father will not. He will give a thumbs-up and say to the children, Great!

Exploration spirit, hands-on ability

Dad prefers to deal with equipment rather than mother letting children do housework, that is, sweeping the floor and cleaning the table? Working with children to repair things and make toys with tools such as hammers and knives has cultivated children's hands-on ability in many aspects.

keep patience

Such as difficulties, hunger, fatigue, etc. I think these are all necessary experiences in life and children should be allowed to overcome these difficulties by themselves. Such bad stimulation is very beneficial to children's growth.

It is good for fathers to take care of children, but in many families, the role of fathers is missing.

There is an interesting phenomenon that most of the visitors who do family education consultation are mothers, which shows that the problem of educating children may have appeared? Yin flourishes while Yang declines? Phenomenon. In family education in China, 50% are mothers, 20% are fathers, and 30% are equally divided. Many fathers put the responsibility of educating their babies on their mothers and hide themselves from leisure. Actually, this is not good.