Introverts are "useless" to understand the advantages of introverted personality. Don't force yourself to change your personality!

Are you an introvert in life? Are you deeply troubled by introverted personality? So now I will talk about the advantages of your introverted personality.

In today's society, people usually define introversion as taciturn, withdrawn, unsociable, lacking in leadership and self-confidence. So more and more people don't like their introverted personality.

In fact, I am also an introverted person. When I was a child, my parents were away from home all the year round, leaving only my grandmother and me at home. My parents didn't stay home until I was a teenager. After a few days together, they found that I don't like to talk and like to be alone. Then he often told me to talk more and play outside more, and sometimes advised me to change my personality, otherwise I would become a useless person.

In social situations, as long as my parents are present, I often pretend to be myself and try to show my appearance, but in fact I feel very uncomfortable. I hate myself and this role. So I fell into depression and even thought I was the most useless person in the world. It took me more than a year to get out of the darkness.

So what are the benefits of introverted personality?

Compared with extroverts, introverts can think deeply consciously, and their brains are often blank. In order to fill this gap, they will keep thinking, such as about experiences, emotions, contradictions and so on.

It's not that introverts don't like socializing and avoid socializing. They just hate low-quality social interaction. They don't have time and don't want to waste time on such useless social activities. Often introverts don't have many friends, but they have a person who can exchange souls and live and die together. Confirmed that sentence, many friends are not as good as my soul friends.

Research shows that people who study in a quiet environment are often more efficient than those who study in a noisy environment. So introverts have an advantage. Introverts tend to spend more time studying, thinking and working because they like to be alone.

In daily life, introverts are more observant, because they have delicate feelings, and they will carefully think about some subtle expressions and actions that ordinary people can't observe, and then judge his emotions and what to do next.

I think listening is very popular with people in the social process. Introverts are not very good at communicating with others, so they know how to listen. Imagine that when you are expressing your thoughts emotionally, the person opposite leans forward slightly and listens to you carefully. Isn't this a great help?

Introverts are no worse than extroverts. You just need to make yourself an inner display, not necessarily change your personality. I believe that introverted you will get better and better!

That's how my sister came over. Come on!