How should I communicate with my parents when my grades are not good and I don’t want to go to high school or study?

Let me answer this question!

I dropped out of high school. At that time, I felt that my grades were a drag on my family if I was admitted to the same school. After dinner at home and I had to leave home for evening self-study, I was silent for a long time and thought about it for a long time. I silently told my mother that I decided not to go to school!

Let me talk about the suggestions I gave you, which were also some of my thoughts at the time:?

1. Think about whether you can afford it;

At that time I silently wonder if I can afford the many inconveniences I will face in the future if I make this decision. How can you find a job without a good diploma? If I don't study at such an age, can I find a thing or a goal to realize my own value? In fact, I was thinking more about how to face my parents' disappointment and how to bear everyone's surprise and incomprehension.

2. Think about what I need to do in the future;

When I feel that I can bear it and face many inconveniences, I start to think about what to do in the future. Back to the original starting point, the reason why I decided not to continue studying was to not create a burden on my family. Now that I think about it, it is actually quite childish or an excuse for myself to be too tired and want to escape. In fact, no matter how difficult it is for my parents, they still can't. The pressure of life has never been passed on to me. At that time, I began to tell myself not to cause any more burden to my family, not to be a confused old man, to be independent, to try to enter the society, to face this colorful world, and to learn to live on my own.

3. Think about how to communicate with your family;

In fact, parents are the most difficult to accept this decision, followed by relatives and class teachers who have always been optimistic about you. Who else are like you? classmate. I told my mother at the time: First, I felt too much pressure. Of course, these are not given by you. I am a sensitive person who tends to overthink things. I have been working hard to do well, but now I can’t hold on anymore. I came to school and found the class teacher and said: Thank you teacher for your continued support. Maybe I can’t persist due to my own reasons. The teacher said a lot, just to warn me that now that I have my thoughts and decisions, I can’t tie your heart if I force you to stay. Please apply for suspension of school first. As long as my old class is in this class, you can come back, and I will treat you as You are "sick".

Writing this, I want to say that this was my state at that time. I think the question is similar. I feel that my grades are not good. I have worked hard for a long time but they are still the same. I can't meet my parents' expectations. But really don’t give up, learn to relieve your emotions, maintain your enthusiasm for learning, and find your own interests. High school and junior high school are different. If you don’t have a good foundation, try to catch up. Look again in high school. You can choose There are really many directions, such as studying art, sports, and professional skills. I believe I will stick to it and make better choices. Otherwise, you won’t be satisfied with your life after making your current decision!

The rainbow always comes after the storm, experience the joy that comes after all the hardships!