How disappointed can dormitory life really be for a person?

Because we want to stay, we all hope to have a dormitory as warm as home. Because we have to live in the dormitory every day, if the dormitory can't be as warm and harmonious as home, it's really difficult for us to live in the dormitory except for intrigue and cold treatment all day. Therefore, a good dormitory life is really important to us, and a bad dormitory life can only make us despair. How disappointed can a person be if the dormitory life is not good? So what! Let me give you an example. My friend's personal experience may be similar to your feelings.

My friend is the kind of girl who pays great attention to her friends, because in her eyes, friendship is always the second, love is the second, and affection is the third. So she likes making friends very much. Once she does, she will take friendship seriously. Before going to college, she was full of expectations for her future friends. However, the ideal is always full and the reality is too skinny. She doesn't get along with her roommate at all, but all this is not because of her, but because of her roommate. She told me that they never have classes together, eat together and go out to play together. Everyone plays their own games, leads their own lives and ignores each other. Even if you take the initiative to get on well with them, they won't like you. Do what they want. It seems that they like nobody but themselves. Forget it. They don't clean up, no matter how much, but my friends are always cleaning up. She really can't stand the dirty dormitory. Those lovely daughters refused to do it, so she had to do it herself. After listening to my friend, I really like her. Why don't they clean up? Are my friends their maids? This is not the most irritating. The most irritating thing is that their conscience seems to be gone!

My friend went to school, and it rained heavily. She wanted to wait at the bus stop until the rain stopped, but it was too late. She doesn't want to wait there. She remembers a boarding friend who lived nearby and didn't go to school. She wants to borrow an umbrella from her. Her hotel friend said this: You'd better go home in the rain and get wet and change clothes. In a cold winter, when you are eager for someone to give you an umbrella, it is such a result that you can imagine how chilling you will be. Everyone gets sick sometimes, so my friend is no exception. In the high temperature in summer, she caught a cold and had a fever. At this time, she can't blow the fan and air conditioner, which will affect her condition. So she carefully asked her roommate if she could turn off the air conditioner. If it is hot, she can use a fan to blow it first, but what does her roommate do? Not only did they not turn off the air conditioner, but they also worked from morning till night, completely ignoring her illness, as if my friend was not sick at all, so they ignored it. Finally, all my friends went to the study room. This matter has not been solved yet. She went to the study room and was spoken ill of by her roommates everywhere. If anyone in the class doesn't know that my friend is not like this, tell her that she doesn't know that her concession is a mistake in the eyes of others. People sometimes really don't know what it's like. They say they are cruel and heartless, and their hearts are worse than dogs.

As my friend's best friend, I fully understand her personality. She never takes the initiative to offend others, and she doesn't like to spend holidays with others. She lets others do everything without making noise or trouble. However, there will be such people in the world who don't know how to respect others and like to make irresponsible remarks and reverse black and white. Not only for my friends, but also for others. In the circle of friends, her best friend may say a lot of good things, but she secretly tells others a bunch of bad things about her best friend. The horror of human heart is sometimes really hard to understand. Because there are such friends. My friend is really disappointed in his dormitory. All the sadness, only those who have experienced it will know. Even if I haven't experienced it, I feel very distressed to hear her say so. Everyone should be treated well.

In the end, friends can only accept this fact, otherwise what can they do? If they can't change others, they can only change their mentality. The most disappointing thing about dormitory life is that people are cold. What is there to look forward to? So I hope everyone who stays will be a good roommate. Don't ask how good it is to others, at least don't slander others.