Zeng Guofan’s wisdom: How can an honest middle-aged person easily identify the treacherous people around him?

In life, people often encounter some villains who are very confusing. A villain has no bottom line, and if an honest person interacts with him, hundreds of millions will be trapped in a passive position. How to identify the treacherous villains around you has become a big problem? Zeng Guofan's wisdom in dealing with people provides us with a standard. A villain is different from a gentleman. Confucius said, "Only young girls and women are difficult to raise." He was talking about the abominations of villains. In Zeng Guofan's art of identifying people, how can an honest person easily identify the villains around him? The author will tell you three tricks that honest people should learn.

Before that, the author will first talk about the "midlife crisis" of being an honest person. When an honest person reaches middle age, various ways of thinking about how to deal with the world may have been finalized, and it is difficult to change them. It is very easy to go to extremes, either treating the treacherous villain next to you as a friend, or refusing to interact with others, which is not advisable. Therefore, honest people should learn to change their thinking, and cannot remain dull and ignorant of flexibility. On the premise of not hurting others, it is still necessary to learn how to identify the treacherous villains around you to resolve the "midlife crisis" of honest people.

The first trick: as quiet as fluorescent light, as moving as running water, sharp and obscene

The meaning of this sentence, to put it bluntly, is that the villain’s eyes will change when he is surrounded by movement. performance. When a person is quiet and alone, his eyes can shine and wander. This kind of person is undoubtedly a villain. On the contrary, if a person's eyes are erratic and uncertain in dynamic situations, he will most likely be a villain like a rat crossing the street. The policeman catches thieves indirectly by relying on this kind of recognition of people. I still hope everyone can understand what is going on. When an honest person reaches middle age, he should always encourage himself and improve himself as much as possible to become more capable. The purpose is to make your eyes as clear as water instead of muddy water.

Second move: Be as still as half asleep, as active as a frightened deer, and think deeply about others

The meaning of this sentence is that when a person's eyes are in a static state, he always looks at He didn't wake up from his sleep, and he seemed to be an expert in the world. However, this kind of person is a complete villain. Why? Such people are often wise and capable but cannot take the right path. If they get close, they will be in endless trouble! To a certain extent, the villain is more obedient than the loyal minister, but his eyes are very good at hiding his true thoughts. Therefore, if a person's eyes are like a frightened deer running around in a dynamic situation, he must be a villain who is extremely afraid of others prying into his true thoughts. A fake villain but a true gentleman. People with these two eyes are the most detestable and should never be closely associated with them.

Third trick: Look at the villain from an unclear place. If you don’t inadvertently see it, it is so-called falling off.

The explanation of this sentence is easy to understand. It is to tell middle-aged honest people that when observing a person, you must learn to observe whether he is a scornful person. This node is very critical. It must be understood that he has not eliminated distracting thoughts and cannot observe him while waiting for action. The more cautious such people are, they are often useless and have no real talent or learning. What's the reason for this? If you have nothing in your heart, you have to do your best to hide your true thoughts. The military advisor Wu Yong in "Water Margin" is always cautious, but after all, he is a half-hearted person. The future of the Liangshan hero is ruined by military advisor Wu to some extent.

When an honest person reaches middle age, despite his many disadvantages, it is not difficult to discover the treacherous villains around him through his own practice. If an honest person learns and uses these three tricks, his understanding of Zeng Guofan's skill of identifying people will enter the preliminary stage. Of course, teaching a man to fish is better than teaching him to fish. Once you have learned how to fish, you still need to practice diligently in order to gain something and understand the essence. Otherwise, you will eventually be harmed by the treacherous villains around you. . Honest people learn these three tricks not to become tactful, but for the purpose of self-protection, to identify the treacherous villains around them, prevent them from harming themselves, and finally achieve the state of being able to handle interpersonal interactions with ease.