What is nanny marriage like (how terrible nanny marriage is)

Recently, the itinerary of a couple in Shijiazhuang was searched by hot search. To our surprise, my wife went to so many places without being scolded. 12, 19 In the morning, she took the child to see a doctor, and in the afternoon, she bought maternity products. Buy food, steamed bread and stationery on the 20th. On the 23rd, I took my son to see a doctor, bought baby products and bought fruit. On the 24th, I bought vegetables and steamed buns ... The whole 20-day trip can be summed up in one sentence: one person is busy with life, one person supports the whole family, and my husband has only been to two places, Internet cafes and home. When the wife is busy taking care of the family and taking care of the children, the man plays games in the Internet cafe. We call this kind of marriage nanny marriage and widowed parenting. When a man can't afford the burden of his family,

How terrible is nanny marriage? Let's analyze such a case together. My best friend Sasha, a new mother, exaggerates to the point that every cell of her body is full of maternal love, and she just can't put it down and does everything herself, for fear of being ignored a little.

Sasha's husband is a standard Gao Fushuai with good looks, a good career and a good figure. Her parents and I encouraged her to marry this man from the beginning, because at that time she and Cheng Peng were on and off, and Cheng Peng's family conditions were not good. Although she is very kind to her, a woman always needs material things once in her life, and chooses a better object, so she has the later Gao Fushuai, the later Xiaoyanglou and the later Xiaomi.

There is a skeleton in the cupboard. Sasha lives with her mother-in-law, but is not loved by her mother-in-law. Since she married him, she has stayed in the kitchen every day to learn how to cook, in order to please her mother-in-law and husband.

Once, my mother-in-law forgot to lock the room door when she went out, and when she came back, she cried and said that the ancestral jade pendant was gone. Usually Sasha is alone at home, and her mother-in-law scolds her by innuendo. Sasha was angry with her, but her husband scolded her. Later, my mother-in-law found the jade pendant herself, and it was settled.

Her husband's family is from the south and can eat spicy food. Everything is spicy, which is hard to spoil Sasha, because she can't eat anything too spicy, and she will be allergic, but no one will care about her allergies. She just cooks. Whether she eats or not is her own business, much like the nanny in this family. So that I secretly sent her snacks for a long time, and my weight once fell below 90 pounds after marriage.

Besides, this husband, the mysterious boss, doesn't deal with us mortals. Sasha actually loves him very much, and it's not too much to indulge him in everything and say that she is a good wife and mother. She gets up early every day, prepares clothes for him, irons everything, polishes his shoes every day, and even has a dinner party, no matter how late it is, whether she sleeps or not, as long as her husband calls. Once, I was stared at by the group director because I wore too little. When she got home, she was scolded by her husband and mother-in-law and burst into tears. Love can really make a woman swallow. As long as her husband says a few good words, she will soon become a docile little sheep, and she will try to be with him. If he is unhappy today, Sasha can't even breathe.

Later, with Xiaomi, I felt that my family status could be improved a little. Unfortunately, no. Like her own child, she took care of Xiaomi from ignorance to familiarity. It's a pity that her husband didn't help her change her diaper one night because the child was crying. He even scolded Sasha for not doing well enough. She's human, too. She needs a rest. She takes care of the daily life of her family alone. Mother-in-law won't help her look after the children, because she has no time to play mahjong and is tired of looking after the children, but the meals should be cooked as usual, the clothes should be washed as usual and the house should be cleaned as usual. If the child cries badly, she will cry with her, because she is helpless, because her energy is limited, and because she has bitterness in her heart.

She once became depressed, and every time she wanted to end herself, she heard her daughter crying and could not bear to leave her.

When Mimi was three years old, she got up the courage and chose a divorce. None of us objected because we knew she was unhappy. We all hope that she can get out of the shadow of marriage and find someone who really loves her for the rest of her life, without too many gorgeous identities, as long as she can share the hardships of life with her.

Getting married doesn't mean you can use that contract to become a husband. You don't care about the world, and your father is not a birth certificate. You can rest easy. Today, you have enjoyed all the wonderful life because of the efforts of this weak woman. She is not a nanny. Taking care of your food, clothing, housing and transportation is to make you love her and this family more. No one should do anything for you, take care of your parents, take care of it.