How to position the meaning of happiness?

Happiness is a feeling that does not depend on people's living conditions, but on their mentality. This is the saying that those who are content are always happy. People must learn to be self-satisfied. The self-satisfaction mentioned here is not pride and complacency, nor is it the spirit of Ah Q, but adaptation to the environment. People should learn to change the environment, but they must also learn to adapt to the environment. It is not easy to do both. This is the ability of human beings to survive. You may not be the luckiest person in the world, but you are not the unluckiest person in the world either. If you are not as good as those above, but more than enough than those below, that’s fine. People should have ideals, wishes, and goals in life. Desire and desire are different concepts. The former is a person's strong demand for the objective world, while the latter is a goal in the subjective world. Human desires are endless and should be restrained and not indulged. A person of high quality does not necessarily have no desires, but can restrain his desires. From being able to restrain desires to having no desires, this is a process, a process of cultivating moral character. To be strong without desire is to cultivate to a certain level. You don’t have to be satisfied with the status quo in life, but you must obtain it through your own labor and legal means. What is happiness? You should be happy doing what you like and being with the people you like. If your wish comes true, you should be happy. One person is working in the fields and sweating profusely, but he feels very happy, and he is happy; another person is walking in the garden, but he feels very unhappy, and he is unhappy. In fact, you are happy if you think you are happy. Happiness and unhappiness are all in your own heart. Men's happiness must be striven for, and women's happiness must be grasped. Some may disagree with my point of view, but in fact, if each of us calms down and thinks about it, we will understand that men are still in charge of the world and women are in charge of men. Regarding love between two places, I didn’t want to make too many comments in the past, but now that I think about it, after experiencing some things and thinking about some things, I feel it is still necessary to express my opinions. Men are flirtatious, but they are always infatuated. Women are dedicated, but they are always ruthless. Men are flirtatious at heart. I have always thought so. However, just like food and sex, both men and women have some inner things, which are not just privacy and secrets, but also repression. Some repressions explode, but some don't. Everyone wants to make a lot of money and be president, but it's impossible. Because the inner thoughts are perfect, but life is not perfect. Men will suppress their emotions, their personality, and the other side of themselves, but they cannot suppress their feelings. Maybe it's the feelings for another person. As long as they are feelings, they cannot be suppressed. Unable to suppress it, it exploded. So, this is love between two places. Because the woman he once loved or didn't love at all doesn't know the situation here, so this relationship is very stable. When his girlfriend finds out, it may be that the injured person is not a man but a woman. Men don't let themselves get hurt easily. When a man is unhappy, he hangs out with friends, smokes, drinks, sings and plays cards. He seems depressed but carefree. After being happy, nothing happens. Women are different, women will cry. Even if I don’t cry in front of men or women, I will cry in the quilt or in the diary. Women are delicate, and they will not allow the perfect feelings in their hearts to be slightly flawed. Men are not boys. Boys will be sad and annoyed because they are immature about feelings. But women prefer mature ones, and that kind of maturity is classified as men. There are many types of maturity. Winning a girl's favor when you first pursue her is emotional maturity. To rise to the top is a sign of career maturity. The maturity discussed in this article refers to emotional maturity. What is maturity? Only when you have more experience and experience can you become mature. It's just a very simple relative concept. A woman is always a child in a man's heart. There are two reasons: First, men want to cherish the women they really like, so men feel the responsibility to love women, so men will pamper women and love women. Women are like children, and men always need to care about them. Second, women are too naive. When a woman falls in love with a man, she will naively want to be with him for the rest of her life, but society determines that men take the initiative, whether in career or love. When a woman falls in love with a man, the man sneers in his heart, but the woman cannot notice. As mentioned before, men hide their emotions and personalities. Therefore, in the minds of men, women are children who will not grow up because they are naive and stupid. I asked myself and chose the former for now. Because I am a boy, at least emotionally I am an idiot. Therefore, I do not support love between two places. If a man really loves this woman, he will show it with actions.

Instead of: My dear, what I am busy with now is for our tomorrow. If you have the ability to ask a man to visit the woman he loves every week, I think if you don’t persist for less than two months, the man will get bored. There is no need for a woman to comfort herself by saying that he is indeed busy, and that it is unnecessary. Not only women, but men also need to rely on them. So, that's an excuse. Women really shouldn't be too stupid. Sometimes, feelings need to be proven by actions. A woman is a child and needs to be accompanied. If you can't do this, how can you still call her love? Just with a few text messages and a few phone calls, are you pretending to be an online friend? In fact, since God has not given women much in this regard, women have more choices than men, especially when they are young. Therefore, God treats each of us equally. Women, don't wrong yourself and find reasons to convince yourself that it is what it is. Therefore, women should make more choices, seize this opportunity given by God, and take good control of the rudder of their own lives. Don't wait until you are sad before you regret it, as it will be too late. We should try our best to avoid bad things before they happen. This is life. Men, if you really love that woman, try your best to fight for her. Women, keep your eyes open and grasp the happiness that truly belongs to you.