How to politely refuse the blind date introduced by relatives?

We can express our thoughts directly and frankly, or we can express our conditions to our relatives euphemistically. Whether you are interested or not, you should thank your relatives for their introduction. The most important thing is to maintain a good attitude and self-cultivation, so that relatives can feel our sincerity and goodwill.

When we meet an uninterested blind date, we can express our thoughts directly and frankly. Thank you for your introduction, but I really don't want to fall in love now. I hope you can understand. " Or "I appreciate your introduction, but I don't think our personalities and interests match, so I don't want to know him anymore."

First, put forward your own conditions.

We can gently explain our conditions to our relatives and let them know their expectations. For example, "thank you for your introduction, but I hope my other half has such characteristics, so I'm not sure whether this person is suitable for me."

Second, change the subject.

When you meet a blind date who is not very interested, you can gently change the subject and let your relatives know that we are more interested in other topics. For example, "thank you for your introduction, but I am very interested in the field of XXX recently." Is there any recommendation? "

Third, give each other some time.

Sometimes we may need some time to consider whether to continue to understand the blind date. At this time, we can politely say that we need some time to think about it. For example, "thank you for your introduction, but I need some time to consider whether to continue to know him." You can give me a day or two, and I will contact you when I think about it. "

Fourth, thank each other for their introduction.

Finally, whether you are interested or not, you should thank your relatives for their introduction. Their starting point is good, and they hope that we can find a good partner. So we can express our thanks euphemistically, such as "Thank you for your introduction. Although I don't really want to fall in love now, I still appreciate your concern and care. "