The boy pulls the dog's hair, and the mother pulls the boy's hair. Do you agree with your mother's way of education?

I am very much in favor of this mother's education method. Modern children need this kind of empathy education. After all, many things can only be understood after empathy, and you can know your mistakes.

First, the boy pulled the dog's hair, and the mother pulled the boy's hair to educate Ms. Li's son in Changzhou, Jiangsu Province to play games with Jin Mao at home. I don't know why, the parents next to me stopped their son's "violent behavior." Unexpectedly, my son didn't realize his mistake at all, but it became more and more serious. Ms. Li next to her pulled her son's hair directly and told her son that when I pulled your hair, it felt the same as when you pulled your golden hair. After being pulled by his mother, his son realized that it was wrong to pull out the golden retriever and offered to apologize to the golden retriever.

Second, if parents don't educate their children well, Ms. Li's educational methods will be taught to parents in the future. It seems a bit "cruel", but I personally support this kind of education. You never know how painful it is to be hit by a stick unless you hit yourself. When you tell your child to pluck the golden retriever, the dog will be very painful. He won't feel that kind of pain. If the child hears his parents' reprimand, he will stop immediately, no problem, but he will pull harder when he hears his parents' reprimand. This is the problem.

Children think it's okay to pull dog hair, but they think it's fun. If no one tells him how the dog feels, he will never understand. Parents are telling him how the dog feels by pulling his hair, giving him a chance to understand the dog's feelings, making him understand that things that hurt the dog can't be done, and rejecting "violence."

Finally: Many children in modern times seem to be too respected by their parents and have no empathy. No matter what they do, they always think of themselves first. In view of this situation, Ms. Li's educational method is absolutely effective and absolutely eradicated. The education of young people seems rude, but it is very effective.