How did the second-child family of "Big Man and Little Jing" come into being? It turned out to be different from the upper body.

When talking about the living conditions of the second-child family, the most common words are "the second child is too delicate" and "the boss is too honest", including Malan herself. I once discussed with my friends, "Why are the bosses honest, but the penis is too delicate?" If we start to think back from the actual situation, you will find that the second-child family with "big stupid and small fine" is different from the poor upper body of mothers.

When I was pregnant for the first time

First-born child: I am so excited that I am about to fly. I quickly picked up my cell phone and reported the good news to everyone in my family. Everyone around me was as excited as pregnant.

Second child: Having lost the joy of being a mother for the first time, I am more worried about my future life and education, while outsiders are used to saying "good" or "congratulations", and their expressions are also ordinary understatement.

review time

First child: Tomorrow is the day of birth check-up. I'm going to ask for leave. I'm nervous before every birth check-up, especially when the time for B-ultrasound is a little longer, I'm nervous and I'm afraid that too many tests will be bad for my baby's development. This is the new mother's nervousness and worry.

Second child: Some people hold the idea of "keeping one child according to the book, keeping the second child according to the pig", some people hold the idea of "can't afford to lose it" after prenatal examination, and some children can't have fewer second children, or even feel uneasy about confirming one by one.

Many people say that as parents, there is no way for a bowl of water to be flat. In fact, this principle is not wrong. The first child and the second child have different attitudes since we were pregnant. Maybe parents think their love for their children is balanced and AA, but every gaze under attitude may make the balance unbalanced.

When pregnant with the first child, everything is treated with caution. All things and food are checked first to see if they can be cooked. After having a second child, most mothers have experience and will not pay so much attention to eating, drinking and wearing.

Regarding the attitude of family members, since mother thinks she has experience, family members are naturally not as "attentive" as their first child in life.

If you ask a mother, does it feel different to have a first child and a second child? Ma Lan thinks the answer is yes. Being a mother for the first time is completely different from being a mother again. After everything had a warm experience for the first time, when similar things appeared again, there was no such calm and enthusiasm.

After giving birth to a second child, not only our energy, life and economy are not allowed, but even our mood has become more grounded and we have lost our vision and ambition when we were young. At present, the life of the second child has made us start to haggle over a diaper. It is precisely because of the consideration of many problems and Zhou Xuan that our attitude towards Bauer naturally formed the saying that "the first child is raised by books and the second child is raised by pigs".

At this time, let's answer how the second-child family of "Great Han Xiao Well" was formed. This problem becomes easy to understand. Under what circumstances will people work hard? There is no better place than the competitive environment.

Yes, that's right! Balbi Dabao is even weirder because they have to face the competition of their parents' love since birth!

It is said that "every man for himself, the devil takes the hindmost" is also the selfish side of human nature, especially in the face of love, everything is easy to become petty, and parents can't make a bowl of water even, so how can children share love without reservation? Therefore, the birth order of Dabao and Bauer doomed their different living environments!

Dabao was born to enjoy everyone's love. This is happiness, but it is also a powerful invisible force. When Bauer and even Sambo were born, it was impossible for mom and dad not to care about Bauer and Sambo, and at the same time, they would be tired of ignoring Dabao's feelings. Dabao did not understand this sudden sense of loss, but felt abandoned by his parents after having a younger brother and sister.

Finally, talk about the competitive environment in which Dabao was born. Although Bauer was thinking about how to compete for love with his brothers and sisters when he was born, they have been trying to be positive in a tense environment, which is a very potential force in their growth, which is why Bauer or Sambo often looks better than Dabao, because Bauer and Sambo are not naked like Dabao. When parents' energy and time don't allow, they will naturally practice independence and strong backing in difficulties.

Well, that's the end of the topic "How did a second-child family with a big fool form". If dear mom and dad still have different views on parenting, please share the discussion in the comments section before and raise children with us!

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