How much can a family spend raising a child to 18 years old?

I think it's too expensive to raise a child now. Unlike we used to eat and drink, reading didn't cost much, and we didn't have to go to interest classes and remedial classes. Come back from school every day and finish the homework assigned by the teacher. Parents never care about us. Even if there are problems that I can't do, I will go to my classmates or teachers the next day.

How does a child learn various interest classes from kindergarten? I feel that children have no childhood at all, and like those interest classes, the price is not cheap, so it is difficult to have one. Now the country even advocates having two children and three children. I never thought about it. As long as I can raise my son well, the key is that children's clothes are expensive now, and my son's clothes are even more expensive than mine, and hundreds of down jackets are better in winter. Moreover, children grow fast every year, and you can't buy too many clothes. Basically, clothes are bought all year round, and several sets of short-sleeved shorts are enough in summer. We need several down jackets mainly in winter, excluding pants and sweaters. It costs a lot of money to buy these things, and the clothes for my son are not very good, but they are ok. Can be said to be more than enough!

Besides, I have only one child, and I don't want her to be badly dressed. This is still kindergarten. If I go to junior high school and senior high school, I will definitely make up lessons. Other children will make up lessons. If you don't make up for it alone, isn't that behind others? In fact, I don't want to put too much pressure on my children, but I can't help it. This is the phenomenon in this society, and one-on-one foreign teachers are particularly expensive. Although our home is not that big, I know it in advance. Therefore, children nowadays really can't afford it. If we raise them to 18 years old like this, I estimate that they will be hundreds of thousands older. For ordinary families like ours, I don't think there is an upper limit for those with better conditions, especially those with money.