Some rural bachelors go fishing for a long time every day. What psychology?

Here are three key words, rural, bachelor and fishing. The subjects were puzzled that bachelors from rural areas still spent a long time fishing every day. In fact, they don't understand that they are "single" and are still playing with things. From this perspective, at least the subject is a positive person. Let's analyze this topic.

Fishing takes a long time and costs a lot. Fishing for a long time is just a plaything.

I am a person who likes fishing very much. In order to go to Bakou early, there is no need to set the alarm clock in the morning. Wake up at 3-4 o'clock, go to the reservoir or fish pond, and start to equip yourself with electric hangers. As soon as I sat down, it was dark. The boss is reluctant to leave in a hurry. He didn't eat in the morning, so he left a box of instant noodles at noon. We are not afraid of the wind and rain, and we can't stop fishing for a long time.

Many people say that fishing is self-cultivation. In my opinion, it is more of a gambler's psychology, especially those who go fishing in Taiwan Province's Black Pit. 10 fished 9 times, always wondering if there is something wrong with the bait or the weather.

Why gambler psychology? Friends who have fished in black holes should have a deep understanding. The boss claimed to have released 5,000 Jin of fish, 70 or 80 fishing spots and charged 500 yuan. Finally, he got 5 Jin of fish. Some people are worried, some people are happy. According to the situation of fish ponds and fish, fish always have a partial mouth. It seems that it will never be his turn to get lucky. A 500 game is obsessed with catching up, and everyone spends tens of thousands a month. In fact, it is closed.

Fishing in Taiwan Province costs a lot of money. In addition to bait and fishing gear, fishing in Taiwan Province is a set of common tools, including fishing rod, float and fishing box. Fishing rods and floats should be equipped with hard and soft rods according to different fish species. From 5 hours to 20 hours, from a three-fingered fish to a fish weighing 100 kg, the fishing rod costs thousands of dollars. The key is that the fishing rod is not lifelong, and it will break if it is used for a long time or in the wrong posture.

Floating is not cheap. Three or five hundred and one is an introduction, from carp drifting, crucian carp drifting, night fishing drifting and wild fishing drifting, a set of several thousand is not expensive.

Except for bait, every time the material is cut, it is packed in a pot. Once the black hole is flushed, 180% of the bait money is gone. In addition, every time the hook and fishing line are wearing parts, especially the secondary line, a pair of market price 2 yuan, one dozen at a time ... Think about where this is fishing, it is clearly fishing for money, and the "eternal famous sentence" that "fishing in Taiwan Province destroys life" is not a hollow name.

Some people may say, I cut a bamboo on the mountain and hang a hook and thread, which costs 5 yuan. The bait is earthworm, where can I spend money? What I want to say is that there are many fake fishing enthusiasts, but they can't persist for a few times and can't fish for long. A person who is really obsessed with fishing has a little poor self-control, and will eventually embark on the road of "fishing in Taiwan Province will ruin his life", depending on how deep he is.

Therefore, it is no exaggeration for a rural bachelor who has been fishing for a long time to say that it is no exaggeration to play with things.

There are so many people fishing, why are rural bachelors more concerned?

In recent years, the topic of "rural bachelors" is particularly acute. Let's say there are thirty or fifty marriageable young men in our village, but in fact three or five are married. Many people are still in their thirties, and everyone is very anxious! Rural conditions are getting better and better, but it is getting harder and harder to find a wife. Once you don't cheer up and play, you basically choose the point of no return.

Therefore, in the eyes of the world, everyone is still single, and it is very incomprehensible to have leisure time to go fishing.

The best way to avoid being single

The best and stupidest way to avoid being single in the countryside is to enrich yourself. You are rich and talented, so why worry about not meeting your confidante?

Efforts should not stay in words, but down-to-earth should be better than others even if you farm in the village, be positive and work hard, and one day you will meet your own development opportunities. You are most afraid of giving up on yourself and being pessimistic. Nobody can pull you out.

Summary: When a man is married, why can't he get married at home? If you can't go home, who is qualified to go fishing? It's hard to be single in the countryside, and it's even more inappropriate to spend a lot of time fishing. As a fishing enthusiast, don't try unless you are short of money and time.

Before I met my husband, he was a man who fished every day and almost never rested. He likes fishing day and night! And his friends, too! His friends are all bachelors, not to mention fishing! And send the meal to his fishing place every day! Or bring something to eat from home! Or starve!

Unexpectedly, he really became a fairy when he was fishing. He didn't have to eat rice and spent a lot of money on fishing rods! The most ridiculous thing is that the fish caught is released and released! Take it home to eat unless you catch a big fish!

Then after I met him, I still fished almost every day. At that time, I didn't know how to follow his ass every day. Gradually, I learned to fish, but I fished like him without even eating!

I asked him why he fished every day and hardly rested. He said that fishing can make people calm down and stay away from the hubbub! The most important thing is to have fish to eat

Then I got married and stopped fishing! He put his mind on his work, because he had to support his family, and then it was not until I gave birth to a child that he completely put down his fishing rod and devoted himself to making money.

Fishing is a special recreational activity, which includes the rich and the poor. Rich fishermen spend tens of thousands of dollars a year fishing, while poor fishermen not only don't spend money a year, but also earn a lot of income.

1. Is bachelor fishing a plaything?

Some people have labeled the rural bachelors who are fishing as "tired of playing with things", which is considered very inappropriate by thorns. First of all, everyone has his own likes and dislikes, and he can freely arrange time to participate in habitual entertainment activities without interfering with others.

Secondly, fishing for a long time every day, either others have money or other sources of income, and they don't ask others for money anyway. Finally, maybe others just make money by fishing.

For some rich fishing enthusiasts, they do spend tens of thousands of dollars on fishing every year, but who will fish like that in the countryside? Rural bachelors who are willing to spend tens of thousands of dollars fishing have no money to spend on finding objects?

Second, fishing can make money.

In rural areas, most of them are hardworking people. Of course, there are also many people who make money easily. The easier you earn, the less you will show it in front of everyone, for fear that others will be jealous if they know. In the eyes of ordinary people, fishing costs money. After all, fishing rods, floats, toolboxes, baits and other fishing gear are not cheap, and better fishing rods can reach tens of thousands.

In the eyes of smart people, fishing can also make money. Of course, some people make money through illegal means, such as gambling and fishing. This is to mark some fish, and if you catch them, you can earn some money, but if you don't catch them, you will lose a lot of fishing money before, and those who are lucky or can drill holes will earn money. However, illegal channels are neither competent nor involved.

There are also reasonable and compliant ways to make money. A master fisherman goes fishing in the wild, but he can catch a lot of wild fish at the end of the day, but he can't eat so much, and finally sells it to people in need at a high price. If rural bachelors go fishing every day, this may be the case. People who sell wild fish may earn more than others in the same village.

Third, we should help him instead of pointing fingers.

People who have not found a wife in the countryside for the time being are already very anxious, which is also a scar in their hearts. Don't always expose this scar. Fishing for a long time will do no harm to anyone. Don't point fingers at it. If you can introduce someone to him, it will be a matter of infinite merit.

Regardless of other people's psychology, one is single, the other is full of exclusion, and there is no sense of crisis and family pressure in family life. Fishing is a personal hobby, understandable, not worth making a fuss about!

I sell fishing gear in the countryside and know many fishing friends, some of whom are single. Rural income is not high, and there are not many people fishing for black pits. A few years ago, several black holes were opened in the town, which failed one after another, because the income of rural people was not high, and those with high income either moved to the city or worked outside and had no time to fish. A small number of people who love to catch black holes are decoration workers who know their craft. They have higher wages, and they will go to the city to catch black holes when they have no work or bad weather, but they are not single. Now let's talk about the fishing bachelor. Several bachelors I know are people with physical disabilities or mental problems. They also use survival funds to fish. Why do you want to be single? Who doesn't want a wife? Strength does not allow. And most rural people don't go fishing in black holes. Up to now, I haven't sold out all the bait to enter the black hole. Only blue crucian carp and Jiuba, as well as five yuan a pack of old corn and whole grains, sell well. Because it is cheap and can catch fish, this refers to wild fishing. Fishing rods are also dozens of Taobao rods, and some of the fish caught will try not to lose fifteen yuan/kg. Most importantly, bachelors will feel a sense of loss among social groups, and they will pin their happiness on fishing. If you catch a big fish, you will feel a sense of accomplishment, which is the only capital they can talk about in the crowd! So sometimes I know they are bragging, but I will listen to them carefully and nod. This is to respect them, and I don't want to break their only satisfaction.

Fishing is a hobby, which can cultivate one's self-cultivation, especially for impatient people. It is a good way to sharpen your temper.

On the other hand, although a bachelor has no wife, he is relatively more free and has no burden of making money to support his wife and children. It can be said that one person is full and the whole family is not hungry. So in my spare time, catching a fish and touching a shrimp not only kills time, but also gets delicious food, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.

Because most of the men who support their families work outside the home, even if they like fishing, they have no time. Sometimes I only go home once or twice a year, and I am very anxious. How can they have leisure? So fish ponds, rivers and reservoirs have become a paradise for bachelors.

Besides, fishing is addictive. If you don't shoot two shots for a while, your idle arm will feel uncomfortable, and it always seems that something is missing. Even if you can't catch a few fish, sitting there with a pony, smoking and thinking about things, enjoying the beautiful scenery and breathing fresh air, you will suddenly be enlightened.

Especially single people, lying in bed at home will always miss their wives and feel uncomfortable. There is a fish attracting and shaking, which may distract them. Some even haven't completely given up, and they are still full of illusions about love. Maybe while fishing, I thought: Maybe one day, a beautiful woman will be caught by me accidentally like a fish in this water.

Tai Gong fished for Wei Shui 'an,

Why is King Wen near me?

If a fairy visits,

The two of them walked hand in hand in the clouds.

There is something wrong with this formulation, I disagree! I am a fisherman, and few of the fishermen I contact are single. Fishing also requires strength, patience and self-restraint. While exercising, we should also cultivate our self-cultivation. According to your suggestion, if a bachelor has the patience and endurance of a fisherman, I don't think he can be a bachelor anymore. He will think about how to make money and how to get married. Some people are single because of many factors. First, poor family conditions and heavy burdens have delayed youth. Second, the family environment is bad. Although I work hard, it is not enough to support my family, or I can support my family, but the harsh environment can't keep people. Third, it is caused by congenital factors, one way or another. Fourth, it is due to my own reasons, such as such bad habits, or lack of progress, bad reputation and so on. , leading to unsatisfactory marriage. In short, what I want to say is not that a bachelor can't fish, nor that he can't fish without a bachelor, but the topic is a bit overdone!

Who says rural bachelors can't go fishing? Is it true that only people with wives and children can go fishing? Everyone has the right to personal freedom. What do they want? As long as it is within the scope permitted by law, you don't do anything illegal.

Take rural bachelors as an example. Although they are calm on the surface, they usually talk and laugh with others. In fact, everyone can't find a wife that suits them, but they are already bored. Usually, besides working outside to earn money, it's embarrassing to get home, and no one talks and cooks. Just like Yong Dong in China's ancient myth "Fairy Descending from Earth", she is a herdsman and has to serve her elderly mother. Who do you tell your heart to?

As a member of the social family, it is understandable that bachelor men usually have time to go fishing outside for fun. It is not as good as those old and young, who stay in the mahjong room every day to gamble and wipe cards. They have no sense of social responsibility and family responsibility. When winning money, the couple have conflicts, even fighting and divorce, which affects the harmony between society and family.

Besides, fishing is a hobby, which can exercise one's patience. If a single woman likes fishing every day, if we get along, then a single man will solve his lifelong event without losing a good thing.

Therefore, Qixing farmers personally think that individual rural bachelors have to fish for a long time every day. As long as they are self-reliant, it is their personal freedom, reasonable and legal, and beyond reproach! what do you think? Welcome to comment!

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Some rural bachelors break pots and fall, and don't work for a day. Because they are old, unfilial, childless and bitter. Now the national policy is good, and some poor bachelors are given subsistence allowances to ensure their lives. If they have nothing to do, they will definitely go fishing and play cards.

There are also several bachelors in our village who play mobile phones and sing folk songs until midnight or even dawn every day. Some people say why they don't go out to work and have no money at home all day. Guess what they said.

"I am single, why should I go out and suffer so much?"

In this way, more and more bachelors are lazy. When the minimum living allowance was issued, several bachelors drove to the county seat to get money, and they had to eat and drink. The rest of the days are tight, and the pots and pans at home are cracked. No matter what you eat today, you have no long-term plans. Sometimes widows in the village and the village next door are afraid to marry these people, because they know what you usually do and widows will take care of it.

In fact, for these rural bachelors, the state has long had a policy of helping the poor and not helping the lazy. In many places, young and energetic lazy people are no longer considered in the scope of subsistence allowances, and even relevant national poverty alleviation policies, such as renovation of dilapidated houses and civil relief, are not given.

In fact, many bachelors should help the poor rather than volunteers. The root of their poverty lies not in lack of funds, but in mental and physical laziness.